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All-inclusive vacation – I do not get it?

I have never been a fan of all-inclusive vacations, and it is not only the extraordinary costs involved.

Let me see if I can frame it properly with my bad attitude on the topic:

  1. You head to the airport and have a few drinks at the airport lounge.
  2. Land in Puerto Vallarta and someone picks you up and shuffles you to an amazing resort.
  3. You mingle with other people from your own country and eat buffet food.
  4. If you’re lucky, you can get a reservation for a steakhouse.
  5. You have to pay hundreds of dollars to do anything fun outside of the resort.
  6. Seven days later, you get back in the van and go back to the airport to go home.

I want to stress the amazing resort part as that is what people want to do on vacation, relax. I get that part 100%, you get pampered and get to lay around while gorging on amazing drinks and food.

What if you did things a little bit different so you actually experienced the country you are visiting:

  1. You head to the airport and have a few drinks at the airport lounge.
  2. You land in Puerto Vallarta and grab local transportation or a taxi to your Airbnb.
  3. I take the bus (50 cents) located outside the airport or Uber ($10) to get to the PV Malecon area.
  4. Unpack your bags at one of hundreds of Airbnb choices under $1000 a month.
  5. Head to my favorite local restaurant or food carts and grab a $2 taco and OXXO for $2 drinks.
  6. Wake-up each day with a plan to visit the local museums, points of interest, etc.
  7. One or two days, you buy a wristband to go sit at different resorts. (PV example in link).

Advantages:

  1. Amerce yourself in the local culture and live like a local.
  2. Try different restaurants including family food carts which are normally the best experience.
  3. Hit the local points of interest in PV including free things to do too.
  4. Take location transportation to the many surrounding towns to explore. (Bucerias/Neuvo Vallarta).
  5. Live like a local, they can do it for a few hundred dollars a month.
  6. Doing something crazy, grab a $50 6-hour redeye bus ride and head to Mazatlán for the day.

Sounds exhausting, I know but sitting around shuffling yourself from pool to food for seven days and seeing nothing? It just seems like a waste to me but again, each their own and I am here to share ideas.

My monthly travel budget for a month is about $2000 USD and it can be done for less around the world.

Approximate PV costs: $800 monthly rent, $300 groceries and alcohol (dirt cheap), $500 eating out and another $400 miscellaneous. Rent would probably be the same for two weeks as there is normally a monthly discount at most Airbnb’s. If you have two people, the cost would be about $3000 total, again it is an estimate as everyone lives differently. I am just here to show that there are options out there.

Here is an example of the all-inclusive in PV, Mexico for example purposes only:

MARCH 3 – 10 – $3256 PER ADULT

MARCH 11 – 18 – direct $2898 PER ADULT

MARCH 19 – 26 – $2856 PER ADUT

MARCH 20 – 27 $2779 PER ADULT

I realize that you can find a seat sale for a lot less but made it extreme to prove my point.

If you had the time, you could stay in Mexico two plus months for a lot less money. Find a deal a two-month condo lease for $500-$700 and use the $2500+ difference to live like a king and save a ton of money. Send me a WhatsApp or email from the homepage if you want more examples!

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Travel bank fees, I hate them!

Imagine this concept! Bank fees are levied by financial institutions for various services and transactions to access your own money while they earn interest on it:
ATM fees 💸
Monthly maintenance fees unless you keep $10K earning shitty interest. 💸
Wire transfer fees 💸
Foreign transaction fees💸

According to a bankrate.com survey, more than 25% of Americans with checking accounts are paying an average of $24 per month in banking fees. I can promise you I pay a lot more traveling and it pisses me off to no end as you cannot beat them, or can you? 

Send me a WhatsApp or an email from the homepage and let me know what you do to try!

 

Here is an example of how the bank screws me when traveling. It costs $5 for not using a Wells Fargo bank machine even though it is impossible as they do not exist outside America. The ATM owner can also charge you anywhere from $3-$10 depending on the location. That is $15 before I see any of my damn money.

Then, there is a foreign exchange rate fee where the bank hedges your money to make even more money. I have paid as much as $22 to access my own money at times which is unbelievable.  You always get f#cked in the ATM drive-thru, LOL!

There are ways to combat this bullshit, take out more money at once and risk getting robbed? I never like to carry cash for that reason and have backup credit/bank cards as needed for emergencies.

Recently, I have found a decent solution to this problem. It is not perfect, but it is working so far, banking with Charles Schwab in the United States. They will never charge you a fee to access your money and they will also reimburse you for any ATM fees you experience in your travels. The downside is that it can take two business days to move your money from your bank to Schwab which can burn you in an emergency.  

Win some, lose some but for fuck sake (FFS), it is my money!

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Deep sea fishing in Kona, Hawaii

Meeting my first mate Sue and her husband Steve at Planet Fitness during my first week in Kona in the fall of 2022 was such an amazing sequence of events. I was there for two months, and it could not have started any better.  I found fishing buddies and they were good at it too!

It would make my fishing dreams come the following week catching a 350lb+ marlin pictured above getting weighed at the harbor. I remember it like it happened yesterday and it was the largest fish caught on Captain Toms’s boat Honu Hua “at the time”.  

They broke my heart in the Summer of 2024 with a 550lb+ marlin giving me reason to keep going back.  Look at the size of that marlin!!

Back to my fish story! Sue picked me up at crack ass so we could leave the docks at 6 AM. I walked up to the boat and Sue introduced me to Captain Tom, Aunt Tootsie, and Uncle Bobby.

(Uncle/Aunt is a Hawaiian term of respect when introducing someone older than you). 

The first thing I said was that it was a dream to catch a marlin and watch it jump while reeling it in and holy shit, did I ever!  The first thing I remember reeling her in is seeing her jump, I said to the crew, look at that Marlin jump way over there and the unanimous reply was; 

“That’s your fish dumbass, REEL”.

It took me about 90 minutes to reel her in and we have some great videos below. I was not handing off the rod and had to crank with two hands at times.  We laughed a lot as the marlin made it to the boat and took off a few times with me yelling at her the whole time.  

First things first, I caught a Mahi Mahi right off the hop in the first video!  So awesome tasting too! After that, all hell broke loose with my marlin madness!  Enjoy!!

What a fricken’ beauty marlin and Captain Tom!  Reach out to fish if you are in Kona!  Tell him NorthAmerican Darrell sent you as he will share some of our fun timesm guaranteed!  

We went to Captain Toms and smoked her in an old shack behind his house making the best tasting fish jerky!  It was marinated for days and hung on hooks four hours!!

Here are some videos and pictures from another trip with other awesome peeps! The laughs and cruising are almost as fun as the catch, every single trip. We landed a double marlin, two on hook at the same time which was total mayhem for about 15 minutes!!  

I was able to reel mine in, but we lost the other one. Rookies, LOL!

If your planning on being in Kona and would like to meet Captain Tom and first mate Sue for an amazing and cost effective fishing experience, send me an email or a WhatsApp message from the homepage, I can work out the logistics. Hell yeah!! 

I catch myself saying that the marlin was 350lbs, busted!  338 is the official weight and saved that paper too!

The picture of Captain Tom pointing to the hole in his shirt was my marlin nearly taking him out, so close!  That is his favorite fishing shirt and wore it the next two times we went out for a good laugh.

On the right you will see Tom and his families process to smoke the marlin and package the marlin.  I cannot remember how much pound they sell if for but took a couple pounds home as is so amazing!

I love this fishing story and will tell it again and again … that 37lb marlin, fought like a bitch, LOL!

Cabo, San Lucas

One of the biggest photo opportunities in Mexico is the arches in Cabo, Mexico.  I took a boat tour to get a closer look from different angles.  It was pretty incredible to see up close especially on the day I went as it was very windy, and the water was crashing making the arches look even better.  You could tell it was a tourist trap as every two steps you were asked to visit arches, go fishing, and other vices that are made readily available in Mexico.

I only stayed a few days as there was not much else that interested me. Cabo is known for its sport fishing, arches, and Sammy Haggar’s Cabo Wabo cantina.  I was able to cover all three in one day during my short visit.  I found a great Airbnb that was within walking distance to the Cabo San Lucas marina which is where all the action is in town. 

The marina had some of the nicest yachts I have ever seen.  The one below had a helicopter pad.  I never did see the helicopter take off, but it was pretty cool to see.  I tried to find out who owned and it was flying a Russian flag.  

I put my GoPro under water as part of the boat ride as the Captain through bread out to attract the colorful fish.  Pretty cool!

Siquijor and Dumaguete Islands

This road trip was my favorite of the five weeks I spent in the Philippines. It was a four-hour ferry ride with one stop to drop off and pick up passengers.  If you read my post of an amazing ferry ride meeting Ben, this was the same trip. 

Each picture tells an amazing story in my mind!

Benny picked me up in his tuk-tuk at the port to take me to my A-frame Airbnb which was spectacular.  We stopped for a roadside beer and hung out with a local family on the way. I was within walking distance from the $3 crepe breakfast picture and the amazing beach where the coconut picture was taken.  

Siquijor Island and Cambuguhay Falls where the rope swing picture was taken and some of the nicest Islands I have ever visited, I will go back.  It had a lot of EXPATs from all over the world and locals who made me feel right at home.  

I ended the night watching Aussiethe the Rules Football Championship.

Facebook made up this mashup, so it is a bit out of order and includes Dumaguete Island which is another amazing island I visited on the island hop.  

Everything was smoking there, LOL!

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Keeping up with the Jones’

I found an article that describes settling for something other than the best. Again, there is nothing wrong with living this way, I just call it keeping up with the Jones’ which is almost impossible! 🤑

  1. You can only afford the standard iPhone and not the Pro Max: How do people even live under these conditions? Why would you talk to someone with an older phone as they are broke!
  2. Your vacation cabin is single-story: And it doesn’t even have wifi.
  3. You’re forced to buy generic Dijon mustard instead of Grey Poupon: Now every time someone asks you to lower the window on your Rolls Royce to ask if you have any Grey Poupon you have to sadly say, “No, all I have is French’s,” and everyone will laugh at you.
  4. You have to watch Netflix with ad breaks: We thought this was America.
  5. You had to downgrade your Disneyland annual pass to the lowest tier: Now you can’t go on weekends and holidays, significantly reducing your quality of life.
  6. You can only afford the $7000 nosebleed seats for a Taylor Swift concert: Capitalist bourgeoisie oppression.
  7. You have to turn off ray-tracing on Cyberpunk 2077 because you can’t afford the new GeForce graphics card: The graphics aren’t as realistic now, because you’re poor.
  8. You can’t afford to go out to eat more than three times a week: This is what food insecurity looks like.
  9. When you do go out to eat, you still have to order from the value menu: $18 dollars for a combo meal is just too much for you.
  10. You can only afford a “Gold Star” Costco membership: Plebians of the world, unite.
  11. You can only afford a 2,500-square-foot house: You might as well be homeless.
  12. You can only afford to buy a Porsche on Black Friday: Pathetic.
  13. You can’t afford anything larger than a 55-inch TV: How could we allow such cruelty?
  14. Your gardener only mows and edges: He doesn’t even bother to sculpt your topiary.
  15. You couldn’t get the Full Self-Driving add-on for your new Cybertruck: Driving your car manually is for peasantry.
  16. You can’t afford to get extra whipped cream on your morning latte: No one should have to live like this.
  17. You can no longer afford the credits to offset your carbon emissions: The guilt is real.

Well, there you have it. If any of these are true of you, congratulations: you’re poor in a capitalist country.

There is hope, follow me here at NorthAmericanDarrell.com to break the travel and/or retirement cycle!

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Finding a hostel strategy!

To be honest, I have always been scared to stay in a Hostel until 2023! The fact that you “normally” only sleep is such a waste of money to drop a shit ton of money on a fancy hotel IMO.

I have been intimidated to share a room with people a lot younger than me. To my defense, every single time I have stayed at a hostel in the United States, Mexico, Austria, Costa Rica, Hawaii there has been at least one person older than me. I have even visited with couples older than me that rent a room in the hostel instead of a dorm room with bunkbeds.

Advantages to staying in a hostel:

Cost – they are a fraction of the cost of a hotel and nearly half the price of an Airbnb in most cases.

Convenience – If you are adventurous, you are going to meet like-minded people that are there to help. They will have been there already and know the lay of the land. The staff are also normally guests that get free accommodations and/or work experience which is a win-win.

Options – Most hostels will have options for every traveler for privacy (private rooms) or cost. (multi-bed rooms in different sizes (more beds/bunkbeds are generally cheaper), all women dorms, number of guests in each dorm (limits Noice, air-conditioning and not air-conditioning) for comfort or budget.

Food and drink – almost every hostel has free breakfast (pancakes), good cheap food, and cheap drinks.

I start my hostel search on Airbnb or Hostelword:

Airbnb – I put a ridiculously cheap price in the search to start and work my way up. Once I start finding properties, I will look at reviews of other guests. That will give me a hint if I want to continue to look at that property, move on to the next, or raise the price in my search.

Hostelworld – this is the best website if you only want to spend a set amount of money in a larger city. Example (London, UK,). There are a ton of reviews to cut right down to what your budget and room type too. London has many hostels to choose from along with most other European cities.

Below are hostels that I have stayed at and only had one bad experience and needed to leave:

Studio Jaco, CR – I have stayed here twice and will again for an entire month someday. There is an amazing Room2board hostel which is also a surf school. The studio’s rooms are twice as much but you will not find a cheaper place to eat and drink in Jaco. I hung out here for the pool, cheap food/drinks, and sports. The owner is from Philly, and we would watch hockey games together.

Studio and dorm Vienna, Austria – I downgraded myself to a dorm as I stayed a couple more days.

Dorm London, UK – I had an overnight and just needed a place to keep my bags, shower, and nap. The hostel with 15 minutes from Big Ben, Buckingham Palace, the tube, the train station to the airport, and most importantly, there is a 24-hour pub in the basement.

Dorm Kona, Hawaii – this is an awesome dorm room right on the main street and across from the ocean. I stay here when I go fishing in Kona as it is a perfect location and run by an amazing Ukrainian woman, Viktoria. Tell her that Ukrainian Darrell sent you as she normally gives me a free upgrade.

Mad Monkey Nacpan, beach, Palawan Philippines – This was the nicest hostel that I have ever stayed at. It is right on the beach and the food, drink, and staff are amazing. The biggest problem for me was the weekend as they partied from 11 AM to 3 AM and I had to bail.

Several hostel chains have locations all around the world including Mad Monkey. If you don’t mind rolling the dice on landing in the middle of a party, they sell 30-, 60- and 90-day accommodations passes. The pass takes the nightly rate down to $7 for a dorm and you can upgrade to an a-frame bungalow studio if available which is what I stayed in while visiting Palawan, Philippines. They have locations all over Asia which can make for an adventurous and inexpensive trip within Thailand, Philippines, Vietnam, Laos, Cambodia, and Indonesia. There are 18 properties to choose from on the pass so you can keep moving if you do not like your location.

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Why rich Americans are also using Airbnb!

As part of my posts, I plan to share articles that meet the same agenda as NorthAmericanDarrell.com

The below professionally written article nails facts that Airbnb not only saves money, it also is a lot more comfortable.

Personally, I ensure my Airbnb has everything guests need including their favorite nightcap and a bottle of Baily’s to get their day started. If something goes wrong, I send a gift certificate to a local Mexican restaurant to compensate with a couple of Margaritas. I currently have all five-star reviews across the board which is great for repeat customers and advertising.

Below is an article that clearly explains the reason to choose Airbnb for your stay.

Michelle Mastro covers lifestyle, travel, architecture, and culture.

I usually avoid hotel chains, but staying at a Four Seasons completely changed my tune©Joey Hadden/Business Insider

  • I stayed at the Four Seasons in Jackson Hole and felt like I was in a luxury mountain lodge.
  • With 133 locations, the hotel chain ensures each site reflects its destination.
  • Take a look around the luxury ski resort reminiscent of the American West.

When I stay in a hotel, I don’t want a bland room, or a lobby decorated like countless others across the country. I don’t want to feel like I could be anywhere in the world. I want my accommodation to reflect my destination.

That’s why I typically book boutique hotels with character, whether it’s a 1930s adobe inn in Arizona or the Versace Mansion towering over South Beach, Miami. But on a recent trip to Jackson Hole, Wyoming, I decided to try a Four Seasons for the first time.

It’s not just any hotel chain. The 63-year-old company, with 133 locations worldwide, is known for its luxurious vibe. US News ranked the Jackson Hole location the best hotel in Wyoming. During my one-night stay, the lodge reminded me I was in Jackson Hole at every turn.

Kim Cole, the director of public relations for the Four Seasons, told Business Insider that while guests can expect the same high level of service across locations, each hotel is different. “There’s a sense of place at every Four Seasons,” she said. Each is designed to suit the destination — making every location unique.

When Mike Kelly set up his first few Airbnbs in Fort Wayne, Indiana, in 2023, he figured it would be a successful move. It was meant to be an investment project for him and his daughter to work on together. But as more people moved away from bustling and expensive urban centers and landed in the Midwest, their hopes were quickly shattered.

The Fort Wayne housing market boomed. High demand for homes, coupled with the city’s low housing stock, has kept costs relatively high — a Redfin analysis of housing data found home prices were up 9.2% in October compared with last year. The hot housing market has translated into higher property taxes, which is throwing off the short-term-rental business model. “The houses we purchased to turn into Airbnbs have been assessed so much higher than what we put into them that we almost can’t afford to keep them,” Kelly said. “The return on equity wouldn’t be as high.”

Owners of short-term rentals across the country have faced a similar reality, sharing stories of declining revenues over the past few years as the market was flooded with new rentalsAirDNA, an analytics firm that tracks the short-term-rental market, found that revenue per rental decreased by nearly 2% in 2022 and by more than 8% in 2023 due to an overabundance of units available for rent. AirDNA forecast that revenues would move back into the green in 2024 as the market corrected. But as short-term-rental owners felt signs of an “Airbnbust,” some realized they needed to pivot.

On one end of the market, however, it’s a different picture. While overall demand for short-term rentals rose just 1.8% in 2023, according to AirDNA’s data, demand for stays priced at $1,000 or more increased by nearly 8%. For stays over $1,500, demand jumped 12.5%. In fact, demand for rentals costing over $1,000 a night has increased by 73% since 2019. While cheaper rentals are slowing down, luxury, niche, and themed stays are filling their place. Wealthy vacationers are increasingly going after luxe properties such as a secluded Malibu beach mansion or a modern cabin beset by pristine woods — like something off Cabin Porn. Meanwhile, Airbnb alternatives are jumping into the market to cater to the growing demand. A lust for luxury is propelling the short-term-rental market to new heights.

Over the past few years, more travelers have pushed back against the Airbnb model, complaining of outrageous cleaning fees, extensive cleanup requirements, and outright scams. As a result, some travelers have opted to stay in good old-fashioned hotels thanks to their consistent service.

These complaints, however, tend to focus on rentals on the low end of the market — the $200-a-night stay you might book to visit a family member or get out of town for a weekend. The luxury end of the rental market fills a different role. These spots boast plenty of hotellike amenities — such as contactless check-in, high-speed internet, bathroom toiletries, and coffee makers. Because of the high price point, luxury rentals also tend to standardize their cleaning services. Unlike a hotel room, though, a house or apartment comes with a lot more room to host guests, plus amenities such as a kitchen or private pool. When split between multiple guests for a night or weekend, some of the eye-popping price tags end up being surprisingly affordable.

Among high-income travelers, who made up an increasingly large share of vacationers this year, hotels are on the way out. Deloitte’s 2024 summer-travel report found a 17-point drop in people who earn over $200,000 opting to stay at full-service hotels compared with the summer before. While middle-income travelers moved toward budget accommodations like bed and breakfasts and RV rentals, high earners shifted toward private-home rentals.

One brand capitalizing on the growing demand is Wander. Launched in 2022, Wander owns all of its 200 properties, each beautifully designed with stunning landscaping. Its founder and CEO, John Andrew Entwistle, had the idea of making a vacation rental feel like a luxury hospitality brand after a disastrous ordeal renting a cabin in Colorado. “The whole experience felt broken, the type of thing all of us has had at a vacation rental one time or another: The place didn’t look like the photos. The beds were uncomfortable. The list goes on and on,” he said.

He wanted a rental home with heart and soul, where the building was designed around the landscape and high-speed internet flowed across the house. Wander rentals are often in remote spots to give guests a sense of privacy and quiet. The cleaning service is standardized so guests don’t have to worry about cleaning up after themselves, and customers can check in on their own through their smartphones. Every unit, which costs an average of $900 a night, also features sleek workstations for digital nomads.

Other travel brands have found similar success in the luxury market. There’s Mint House, a cross between a hotel and short-term rental that has 12 properties across 10 major US cities. Visitor experiences are personalized — for instance, guests can request that the refrigerator be stocked with their favorite groceries before they arrive — and there’s 24/7 customer care. The apartments, which can be studios or have multiple bedrooms, are priced similarly to hotels and feature bespoke furniture and decor, along with all the necessities of modern accommodations. To explain the brand’s success, Christian Lee, the CEO of Mint House, pointed to the company’s ability to provide consistent experiences. “Unlike other short-term listings that lack security and guest care and often require a guest to perform chores at checkout, all of our properties are professionally managed to ensure the utmost safety, security, and cleanliness,” he said.

The luxuriousness only goes up from there. Rental Escapes, a full-service luxury-villa-rental company founded in 2012, offers over 5,000 villas in more than 70 destinations worldwide. They start at $500 a night — though most go for tens of thousands. Amase Stays, a collection of $10 million rental estates founded this year, creates bespoke experiences for its top-of-the-line properties, with dedicated concierges who can arrange everything from private chefs and spa services to customized excursions.

Chris Lema, a business coach and product strategist, is a Wander superfan. “These are places that are architecturally beautiful, and the land that they sit on feels like a national park,” he said. He likes that the company provides attainable luxury — he’s stayed in 13 different Wander locations and hopes to “collect them all,” he said. He has even started planning trips around Wander rentals.

“I thought this is where Airbnb was going to go with its business model,” he said. “If you go to Airbnb’s website now, they have these different categories like ‘amazing views’ or ‘lakefront.’ But none of these rentals push forward on the issue of experience. There’s the Luxe category — but it’s not the same thing.”

In Airbnb’s Luxe category, homes might cost anywhere between $200 and hundreds of thousands of dollars a night. When the category launched in 2019, an Airbnb press release said the homes would have to pass a slate of design and experience criteria, including higher standards for cleanliness and amenities like towels and toiletries. Unlike at other Airbnb properties, a company representative has to walk through Luxe properties to verify them. Despite that, Lema hasn’t been impressed.

“They seem to rank Luxe based on the niceness of the residence,” Lema said, “but that isn’t really the point of what that kind of experience should be.”

An Airbnb spokesperson said, “We’re proud to be the only travel platform that offers stays for nearly any desired travel experience.” They added: “We’re also proud of the growth of our Luxe category supply and look forward to expanding the offering.”

So far, Wander’s model is working out. It launched with only three locations, and two years later, it has 200 houses and an average occupancy rate of 80%, Entwistle said. By the beginning of 2025, Entwistle hopes to launch locations in Mexico and Canada.

Back in Fort Wayne, Kelly ended up pivoting his Airbnb business to cater to this demand for luxury. “We focus on four-bedroom-plus homes where groups can gather for weddings or reunions,” he said. Houses with pools and hot tubs are especially desirable, he’s found. Kelly has also amassed a thriving collection of themed Airbnbs. He designed one house to look like the childhood home of the fictional character Fawn Liebowitz from the cult classic film “Animal House.” He’s working on another rental themed around Indiana University sports teams.

“At the end of the day, the ‘luxury’ houses are more affordable than staying in multiple hotel rooms,” he said. Plus, offering something unique, like a theme, helps homes stand out from the crowd. With the new focus, Kelly’s Airbnbs are rarely empty, he said.

Travelers are increasingly wising up to the fact that time — and where, how, and with whom you spend it — is the greatest luxury.

Part of the shifting demand stems from people viewing luxury rentals as a destination unto themselves — if the place you’re staying is cool enough, you don’t need to get out much. Others are drawn to them as a means to get away from the hubbub. “In today’s globalized world, travel destinations have become more and more homogenous and tourist-burdened,” Spencer Bailey, the editor of the new book “Design: The Leading Hotels of the World,” said. “People are seeking out distinctive experiences away from the crowds and searching for a certain sense of intimacy, craft, and care.” It’s not just about top-rate service, intricate design, or even a Michelin-starred restaurant. “It’s about being in nature, engaging in local culture, and creating discrete, felt experiences that encourage quietness and slowness, not an Instagram moment,” Bailey says.

A private rental is often more secluded, meaning travelers can prioritize spending more time alone with their loved ones. “Travelers are increasingly wising up to the fact that time — and where, how, and with whom you spend it — is the greatest luxury,” he said. Michelle Steinhardt, the founder of the luxury travel blog The Trav Nav, wrote about her recent stay at a secluded beachfront property rental in Punta Mita, Mexico: “Even though we were only a few minutes from the local town, our party felt like everyone else was miles away.”

Increasingly, getting away from home isn’t enough. We also want to get away from other people. For those who can afford it — or have enough friends — luxury-travel companies are more than happy to accommodate.

Michelle Mastro covers lifestyle, travel, architecture, and culture.