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T0p 20 Countries to visit – I’ve hit 14, so far!

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Here is E15: Top 20 Countries to travel – I have been to 14, so far!

I have been to fourteen and counting! I’ve been fortunate enough to travel to a lot of amazing countries over the years, and people sometimes ask me… 

What’s the best country I’ve ever visited? 

That’s almost impossible for me to answer, because my answer keeps changing. 

Today? Probably the Philippines. 

Last year? Vietnam. 

The year before? Thailand. 

Apparently my favorite country is whichever Southeast Asian country I’m thinking about moving to next. That’s what I love about travel. Every country gives me something different. 

So I took Google’s list of twenty countries worth visiting and compared it with my own travels. I’ve visited fourteen. Six are still waiting for me. 

Let’s go …

Number one — Japan. I visited Tokyo in 2026 and it felt like another planet. The trains, food, cleanliness and organization amazed me. Even getting around became part of the experience. Bring a solid financial plan! 

Number two — Vietnam. I’ve spent months here, from Ho Chi Minh City to Hanoi and places in between. Two-dollar pho, banh mi under a dollar, and apartments I’ve rented for under $300 a month. And the scooters?  Crossing the street can feel like a real-life game of Frogger. 

Number three — Italy. Rome. Naples. The Vatican. History. Pizza. [amused] Do I really need to keep selling this one? 

Number four — Thailand. I’ve visited several times. Bangkok, Koh Samui, Koh Tao and Koh Phangan excetera gave me different experiences. Great food, islands and inexpensive living keep pulling me back. 

Number five — Argentina. Buenos Aires was fantastic. I loved the energy around La Boca and the football culture. And the steak? I ate it almost every day for under ten dollars. 

Number six — Portugal. I’ve been there, and the Algarve is one of my favorite areas in Europe. Just don’t expect me to join the locals for sardines. 

Number seven — Indonesia. Bali gets plenty of attention, and I understand why. But I enjoyed getting beyond the obvious tourist areas too. Transportation made exploring surprisingly affordable. 

Number eight — South Africa. I haven’t made it to Africa yet. Cape Town, the Garden Route and a safari put this very high on my list. 

Number nine — Turkey. Istanbul fascinated me and, I have all of my hair. [Laugh] It’s one of those places where I could actually feel Europe and Asia coming together. 

Number ten — Colombia. Still on my list. Medellín, Cartagena and coffee country all sound like my kind of adventure. 

Number eleven — Spain. I’ve been there. Great food, great cities and a completely different coastal lifestyle. 

Number twelve — Greece. Athens alone gave me enough history to keep my head spinning. The food kept me smiling! 

Number thirteen — Peru. I’ve spent time in Lima and found it to be a great example of geoarbitrage. Good food, affordable living and plenty to explore on a small budget. 

Number fourteen — Mexico. [amused] Definitely been there. Mexico has been part of my life for years, so for me it feels like much more than a vacation destination. 

Number fifteen — New Zealand. I haven’t been yet. Cost has probably been the biggest reason, but a South Island road trip is absolutely on my bucket list. 

Number sixteen — Brazil. I’ve been there for work traveling up and down the coast, and it’s enormous. It deserves much more than a quick visit. 

Number seventeen — Malaysia. Kuala Lumpur was easy for me to navigate, relatively inexpensive, and a great jumping-off point for Southeast Asia. 

Number eighteen — Croatia. Still waiting for me. The Adriatic coastline and islands look incredible. 

Number nineteen — Morocco. Another one I haven’t reached. Marrakech, the Atlas Mountains and the Sahara would be completely different from most of my recent travels. 

And number twenty — Georgia. [pause] The country… not the state where I lived! [laughs] I haven’t been yet, but Tbilisi, inexpensive living, the food and the Caucasus Mountains have my attention. 

So that’s Google’s twenty. I’ve experienced fourteen, which leaves six on my list: South Africa. Colombia. New Zealand. Croatia. Morocco. And Georgia. 

Sounds like I’ve got some work to do. But travel keeps teaching me there really isn’t one “best” country. A place I love might not work for you. 

Maybe you want beaches, history, nightlife or mountains. 

That’s why I share my experiences rather than tell anyone where they should go. So here’s my question for you… 

If you could choose one country and leave tomorrow, where would you go? And what’s stopping you? 

The funny thing about my bucket list is that the more places I cross off… the longer the Asia list seems to get. 

Hopefully I never finish it. 

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Vagabond, Gypsy or travel junky?

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Here is E16: Vagabond, gypsy or travel junky?

Today, I have a question…

Am I becoming a vagabond… or maybe a gypsy?

A travel junky looking for a fix or attention online?

Either way, my fortune teller keeps reminding me…

Nobody is looking through her crystal ball, so I might as well have some fun!

I’m not talking about living under a bridge with a shopping cart.

I’m talking about the philosophy of long-term travel.

Travel slowly.
Live simply.
Own less.
Experience more.

And most importantly…

Own more of my time instead of more junk.

For most of my adult life, I thought I was preparing for retirement.

Then retirement showed up earlier than expected and I thought…

Now what?

Maybe I wasn’t just preparing for retirement.

Maybe I was preparing for freedom.

So let me ask you…

If you didn’t have to work tomorrow, what would you actually do?

Travel?
Spend more time with family?
Move somewhere cheaper?
Try something you’ve always wanted to do?

Or would you occasionally wake up like I do and think…

What the hell am I supposed to do today?

I get bored easily. I’m still figuring this out.

But I know one thing…

I love sharing stories.

Even if nobody is paying attention, it’s basically free therapy!

When I was laid off at fifty-two, I suddenly had something I’d spent decades wanting…

Time.

I’d saved and invested, bought and sold properties, made mistakes, and gradually simplified my life.

That doesn’t make me smarter than anyone.

Trust me…

I’ve got receipts for the mistakes.

My situation is also different.

I’m single. I never had children. My financial responsibilities aren’t the same as everyone else’s.

That’s why I’m not interested in comparing numbers.

I’m more interested in comparing possibilities.

What could you change to create a little more freedom?

Retire earlier?
Take a three-month trip?
Work remotely?
Downsize?

Or maybe just own less stuff?

I learned that one the expensive way.

At one point I owned multiple properties, several vehicles, a boat, a side-by-side and enough other crap to keep me constantly paying for something.

Insurance.
Registration.
Maintenance.
Repairs.

Eventually I asked myself…

Do I own this stuff… or does this stuff own me?

Travel changed my perspective.

These days, I don’t need to check twenty attractions off a list.

I prefer staying long enough to live somewhat normally.

Find an apartment.
A grocery store.
A gym.
A coffee shop.
Walk the neighborhood.
Talk to people.

Basically…

Live normally somewhere unfamiliar.

That’s also where geoarbitrage became interesting.

If my money lasts longer somewhere else, my retirement calculation changes.

A dollar doesn’t care where I spend it…

But it buys very different amounts of freedom depending on where I am.

Vietnam taught me that.
The Philippines taught me that.
Mexico taught me that years ago.

But I’ve also learned something important…

Cheaper doesn’t automatically mean better.

I still want comfort.
Good internet.
Air conditioning.

And apparently…

A decent coffee shop within walking distance.

So maybe I’m not a true vagabond.

A real vagabond might say…

“I’ll figure it out when I get there.”

My version is…

“I’ll figure it out when I get there… with a spreadsheet, emergency fund, travel insurance and three backup plans.”

And I’m okay with that.

I’ve met travelers who are far more comfortable with uncertainty than I am.

I’ve learned from them.

And maybe that’s the bigger lesson…

Freedom doesn’t have to look the same for everyone.

You don’t have to sell everything.
You don’t have to move to Southeast Asia.
You don’t have to retire at fifty-five.
And you definitely don’t have to become a vagabond.

But there’s one question I’ve started asking myself…

How much of my life did I spend preparing to live someday?

And when does someday finally arrive?

My retirement experiment isn’t really about never working again.

It’s about deciding what I want to do with the time I’ve created.

Maybe that’s Arizona.
Maybe Mexico.
Maybe Southeast Asia.
Maybe somewhere I haven’t discovered yet.

Maybe I’ll change my mind completely.

That’s part of the experiment.

I spent decades accumulating money and possessions.

Now I’m trying something different…

I’m accumulating experiences.

So…

Am I becoming a vagabond?

Maybe.

Or maybe I’m just a bum living his best travel life…

With travel insurance, a retirement account…

and, of course, a spreadsheet.

Thanks for listening to the NorthAmericanDarrell Podcast.

Until the next episode…

Live life to the fullest!

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Top 20 Countries to visit – 14 done!

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Here is E15: Top 20 Countries to visit – 14 completed!

I’ve been fortunate enough to travel to a lot of countries over the years, and people sometimes ask me…

What’s the best country I’ve ever visited?

[amused] That’s almost impossible for me to answer, because my answer keeps changing.

Today? Probably the Philippines.
Last year? Vietnam.
The year before? Thailand.

Apparently my favorite country is whichever Southeast Asian country I’m thinking about moving to next.

That’s what I love about travel. Every country gives me something different.

So I took Google’s list of twenty countries worth visiting and compared it with my own travels.

I’ve visited fourteen. Six are still waiting for me.

Let’s go.

Number one — Japan.

I visited Tokyo in 2026 and it felt like another planet. The trains, food, cleanliness and organization amazed me. Even getting around became part of the experience.

Number two — Vietnam.

I’ve spent months here, from Ho Chi Minh City to Hanoi and places in between. Two-dollar pho, banh mi under a dollar, and apartments I’ve rented for under $300 a month.

And the scooters?

[laughs] Crossing the street can feel like a real-life game of Frogger.

Number three — Italy.

Rome. Naples. The Vatican. History. Pizza.

[amused] Do I really need to keep selling this one?

Number four — Thailand.

I’ve visited several times. Bangkok, Koh Samui, Koh Tao and Koh Phangan gave me different experiences. Great food, islands and inexpensive living keep pulling me back.

Number five — Argentina.

Buenos Aires was fantastic. I loved the energy around La Boca and the football culture.

And the steak?

[excited] I ate it almost every day for under ten dollars.

Number six — Portugal.

I’ve been there, and the Algarve is one of my favorite areas in Europe.

Just don’t expect me to join the locals for sardines.

Number seven — Indonesia.

Bali gets plenty of attention, and I understand why. But I enjoyed getting beyond the obvious tourist areas too. Transportation made exploring surprisingly affordable.

Number eight — South Africa.

I haven’t made it to Africa yet. Cape Town, the Garden Route and a safari put this very high on my list.

Number nine — Turkey.

Istanbul fascinated me. It’s one of those places where I could actually feel Europe and Asia coming together.

Number ten — Colombia.

Still on my list. Medellín, Cartagena and coffee country all sound like my kind of adventure.

Number eleven — Spain.

I’ve been there. Great food, great cities and a completely different lifestyle.

Number twelve — Greece.

Athens alone gave me enough history to keep my head spinning.

Number thirteen — Peru.

I’ve spent time in Lima and found it to be a great example of geoarbitrage. Good food, affordable living and plenty to explore.

Number fourteen — Mexico.

Definitely been there.

Mexico has been part of my life for years, so for me it feels like much more than a vacation destination.

Number fifteen — New Zealand.

I haven’t been yet. Cost has probably been the biggest reason, but a South Island road trip is absolutely on my bucket list.

Number sixteen — Brazil.

I’ve been there, and it’s enormous. It deserves much more than a quick visit.

Number seventeen — Malaysia.

Kuala Lumpur was easy for me to navigate, relatively inexpensive, and a great jumping-off point for Southeast Asia.

Number eighteen — Croatia.

Still waiting for me. The Adriatic coastline and islands look incredible.

Number nineteen — Morocco.

Another one I haven’t reached. Marrakech, the Atlas Mountains and the Sahara would be completely different from most of my recent travels.

And number twenty — Georgia.

The country… not the state.

I haven’t been yet, but Tbilisi, inexpensive living, the food and the Caucasus Mountains have my attention.

So that’s Google’s twenty.

I’ve experienced fourteen, which leaves six on my list:

South Africa. Colombia. New Zealand. Croatia. Morocco. And Georgia.

Sounds like I’ve got some work to do.

But travel keeps teaching me there really isn’t one “best” country.

A place I love might not work for you. Maybe you want beaches, history, nightlife or mountains.

That’s why I share my experiences rather than tell anyone where they should go.

So here’s my question for you…

If you could choose one country and leave tomorrow, where would you go?

And what’s stopping you?

The funny thing about my bucket list is that the more places I cross off…

the longer the list seems to get.

Hopefully I never finish it.

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Would You Travel 41 Hours to Save $1,000? Here’s Why I Did.

This ChatGPT beauty deserves a zoomed picture! 

Relax and enjoy the four flights

Thousand bucks saved  ..

5 airports – 4 flights – 3 stops!

Your forgot Lovey!

A three-hour tour…

A three-hour tour…

Only this one lasts 41½ hours! 

GILLIGAN!

Take the time to read the blog below

or listen on the

NorthAmericanDarrell podcast.

E14: 41½ Hours of Travel to Save Over $1,000!

Departing 11:30 AM  August 16th, 2026

Arriving 6:10 PM August 18th, 2026

Along the way, I’ll cross **15 time zones** and lose an entire day and gain it back on the way home.

About 24 hours spent in the air.

~10,976 miles

See more travel stats in the blog below!

Most people think I’m absolutely crazy when they see the way I book flights.

The rest of them…

Know that I am.

They’re probably right.

The difference is…

I have more time than money these days, so..

here I go again on my own… 

Just like Whitesnake reminded us back in the ’80s. 

This adventure starts in Phoenix, Arizona and ends in Cebu, Philippines for another month-long stay from mid-August to mid-September 2026.

Home in time for hockey season!

Go Oilers!! 

I returned home about from Cebu four months ago.

Apparently…

Three months of island life wasn’t long enough.

Now, it’s time to experience the Philippines rainy season Incase I ever want to stay year round.

ChatGPT says, it’ll take about **41½ hours** from the time I lock my condo door in Arizona until I unlock my condo door in Cebu.

Along the way, I’ll cross **15 time zones** and lose an entire day and gain it back on the way home.

About **24 hours** of that is spent in the air.

As the old saying goes…

“This trip circles my elbow twice just to get to my a-hole.”

For comparison…

If there were a direct flight from Phoenix to Cebu, it would take about 18 hours.

Unfortunately, there isn’t one.

Even with a normal connection through Los Angeles, the trip would still take close to 30 hours.

The other **17½ hours?**

Exploring Los Angeles…

People watching in Singapore…

And wandering around Manila Airport waiting for my last flight.

Honestly…

I wish I had more than ninety minutes in Singapore.

I’ve been there several times, and it’s still my favorite airport in the world.

There’s an incredible indoor atrium with a waterfall…

A free movie theatre…

Amazing shopping…

International food courts serving just about everything imaginable…

And a duty-free store so big you could probably get lost in it.

My first layover…

That’s where **The Amazing Race**  NorthAmericanDarrell begins!

I have twelve hours in Los Angeles, so instead of sitting at the airport, I’m heading to Venice and Santa Monica beaches.

The best part?

My flight from Phoenix to LAX cost me **five bucks** using airline points.

Not a bad way to start another island-hopping adventure.

Here’s my itinerary.

Phoenix to Los Angeles…

A quick ninety-minute flight.

Then twelve hours at the beach, including the local bus ride.

Los Angeles to Singapore…

About seventeen hours.

That’s the heavy lifting.

Thankfully…

It’s on my favorite airline.

Singapore Airlines.

Free food.

Free drinks.

Free movies.

And enough time to question every life decision I’ve made since kindergarten.

Then it’s another four-hour flight  from Singapore to Manila.

A four-hour layover gives me enough time to switch terminals before my final flight to Cebu.

I land around six o’clock in the evening in Cebu with a thirty minute taxi to my condo.

Perfect arrival time!

Unpack.

Grab a massage.

Get a good night’s sleep.

Would I recommend this itinerary to everyone?

Absolutely not.

But here’s why I do it.

By staying flexible…

Using airline points…

And accepting a few layovers…

I saved **well over one thousand U.S. dollars**.

If I were flying business class like the Joneses…

The savings could easily be two or three thousand dollars.

That thousand dollars pays for my apartment for the entire month.

My groceries…

And still leaves enough money for an quick island-hop.

When you look at it that way…

Those extra twelve hours hanging out on the beach in Los Angeles don’t seem so painful.

Well…

Maybe after a massage in Cebu.

People ask me all the time…

*”Isn’t your time worth something?”*

Of course it is.

But taking a run at early retirement has taught me something.

Right now…

Time is the one thing I have plenty of.

Money?

I’d rather stretch that as far as I can while I’m still young enough to enjoy the adventure.

Planning the trip is part of the adventure.

I enjoy putting these ridiculous itineraries together almost as much as taking them.

Maybe I’m just weird…

And a cheapo.

Actually…

I know I’m weird and a cheapo.

And I’m perfectly okay with both because…

I don’t have to go back to work on Monday like the cool kids. [Laughs]

So let me ask you…

Would you spend **41½ hours** traveling to save over a thousand dollars?

Or would you pay extra to get there sooner?

Neither answer is wrong.

Most people choose the shorter trip because they have more money than time.

I’m taking a run at early retirement.

So for now…

**I’ll gladly trade one extra twelve hours getting there…**

**For a free month of adventure once I arrive.**

Because…

**That’s what taking a run at retirement looks like to me…

Until next time…

Live life to the fullest.

Cheers!! 

Great White North Podcast Episode 12 (1)

Canada – it’s still my roots and still my team!

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Here is E12: Edmonton, AB Canada … My roots

I left Edmonton for what would be the last time as my home at the beginning of 1996.

I had just graduated from college and accepted a job with Northern Telecom in Calgary.

Like so many young people, I figured I was simply moving to another city.

I had no idea that one decision would eventually lead me to living in the United States…

Mexico…

And traveling to dozens of countries around the world.

For years, Edmonton was always the place I came back to visit.

But it never quite felt like home anymore.

That changed a little bit during the summer of 2026.

I had a great time catching up with everyone!

After four years away, I flew into Edmonton, and my brother-in-law picked me up from the airport…

Just like he has so many times over the years.

The forty-five-minute drive to my sister’s house always seems to fly by.

Not because of the scenery…

But because we spend the entire drive solving the world’s financial problems.

Well…

At least our own.

Our conversations usually turn into a friendly competition over who’s cheaper…

And more importantly…

Who’s right about being cheaper.

Canada versus the United States.

Who got the better deal?

Who found the cheaper flights?

Who paid less for groceries, gas, or hotels?

I keep telling him…

He still has a lot to learn about finding cheap flights.

Neither of us wants to lose.

I think if there were an Olympic event for being frugal…

We’d both be standing on the podium arguing over who deserved the gold medal.

Eventually, we pulled into my sister’s driveway.

I grabbed my bag…

Walked downstairs…

And there it was.

The couch.

The same couch that has faithfully welcomed me home for years.

Some people check into five-star hotels.

I check into my sister’s basement.

The price is right…

The coffee is always on…

And unlike a hotel, I know my sister won’t charge me a resort fee.

Although I’m still keeping an eye on my brother-in-law.

After a couple of days exploring Edmonton, including watching my beloved Edmonton Eskimos…

Yes, I know…

They’re the Elks now.

We headed to my other sister’s lake in Saskatchewan.

Another amazing homecoming.

There was homemade baking…

McBaba’s legendary breakfast sandwiches…

Hamburgers…

Steaks…

And fresh-caught fish that I actually reeled in myself.

Best of all, I got to spend time with my nephews, nieces, and now their kids.

You can only be the crazy uncle on Instagram for so long…

Eventually they get to experience you in person.

After a few days of fishing, laughing, eating, and making memories…

It was time to head back to Edmonton.

A couple days later, I was riding transit to the airport for my flight back to Arizona.

Something surprised me.

For the first time in as long as I can remember…

I wasn’t extremely excited to leave.

Usually, by the end of a visit, I’m ready to hit the road.

This time…

It was different.

For the first time in thirty years…

Edmonton felt like home again.

Not because the city had changed…

But because I had spent time with the people who made it feel like home in the first place.

Catching up with my family was amazing!

As I drank my airport beer, I made myself a promise.

No more waiting years between visits.

From now on…

I’ll come home at least once every six months.

Because no matter how many countries I visit…

Or how many places I call home…

Edmonton will always be where my story began.

Thanks for listening to the NorthAmericanDarrell Podcast.

Until next time…

Live life to the fullest.

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What I have learned from Travelers!

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Here is E11: What I have learned from travellers!

One of the most rewarding parts of my journey has been meeting fellow travelers from all over the world.

Many of them travel with a level of freedom and confidence that genuinely amazes me.

Some don’t have every detail planned.

They simply figure things out as they go.

As someone who has always been a planner…

It’s been fascinating to watch.

One of my favorite travel buddies from Germany I met in Thailand goes home once his ATM card quits working.

I have asked him to share his share his travel stories here many times as he is so interesting.

Over time, I’ve realized there’s value in both approaches.

Planning provides security.

Flexibility provides freedom.

The sweet spot is probably somewhere in the middle.

I try to prepare enough that I’m safe…

But stay flexible enough to enjoy the unexpected moments.

Because, let’s be honest…

Those unexpected moments usually become the best stories.

I’m not here to tell anyone how they should live.

Everyone’s path is different.

What works for me may not work for you.

But I can learn from people who are comfortable embracing uncertainty…

Just as I hope others can learn something from the importance I place on planning for the future.

That’s one of the biggest reasons I created this website.

I simply want to share my experiences and show people they may have more options than they realize.

I learn something from fellow travelers almost every time I hit the road.

Young or old…

Everyone has a story worth hearing.

I’ve also learned that retirement doesn’t have to follow the traditional path if it doesn’t fit your goals.

Maybe your answer is downsizing earlier.

Reducing your monthly expenses.

Living part-time in a lower-cost country.

Traveling differently.

Or simply rethinking what you truly need to be happy.

I’m not trying to convince anyone to live exactly like I do.

That isn’t the point.

My goal is simply to encourage people to ask better questions.

Could I retire earlier?

Could I design a different lifestyle?

Could I trade a few material things for more freedom…

More experiences…

And maybe even a little more happiness?

If my story helps even one person realize they don’t have to spend their entire life following someone else’s plan…

Then sharing it has been worth it.

To me…

Retirement isn’t about leaving work behind.

It’s about creating a life you’re excited to wake up to every morning.

I’ll also be the first to admit…

I haven’t figured everything out.

And maybe I never will.

But I can promise you one thing…

I’ll spend the rest of my life trying.

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The IDIOT uncle who never married …

I came across an interesting post on Instagram the other day from “Psychological warfare”.

“If you’ve experienced marriage, you’ll probably never understand your 50-plus-year-old uncle who never married”.

You might even think he’s the idiot but, think again!

It made me laugh because there’s is so much truth in it!

I am kind of an idiot but, I kind of think some of you might be too!!

I chose a different path—one filled with relocations, career opportunities, solo travel, and eventually a life of freedom and exploration.

People tend to focus on how society expects you to life your life!

If you don’t fit in their box, you’re an idiot!

 

Here is the Instagram post and make sure you take it with a grain of salt!

I’ve also never tasted “real marriage”, but I’ve come close enough to consider myself a self-proclaimed expert.

Then again… It’s my blog.

I get to make the rules. 😁 

The ironic part is that many of the people making comments have challenges in their own lives.

Yet somehow, they still find the time to focus on my life.

I guess that makes them feel better about their own issues.

Instead of understanding why someone chose a different path, it’s easier to criticize it. 

I’m learning to step away.

At the end of the day, I’m the one who has to live my life—not them.

I seem to be happiest when I’m simply trying to live life to my fullest, tuning out the critics, and resisting the urge to compare myself to people who think they’re “normal.”

The truth is, there really isn’t a normal even if people try to put you down.

Most of us are just figuring it out as we go.

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Why I keep a good Credit score in retirement

I’ve only been taking a serious run at retirement for the past two years, but one thing has become crystal clear:

Maintaining good credit is just as important after retirement as it is while you’re working. 

My credit score has consistently stayed between 750 and 775 across all three major indexes for as long as I can remember.

I’m glad I made good credit a priority and continue to keep a close eye on it.

I regularly monitor my Experian, Equifax, TransUnion, and FICO scores so there are never any surprises.

A strong credit history has taken years to build, and I have no intention of letting it slip during retirement.

Even though I’m no longer relying on a regular paycheck and playing myself now, good credit still makes my life easier.

Whether it’s qualifying for health insurance, getting the best interest rates, renting a car, or simply having financial flexibility when I need it. 

Retirement doesn’t mean your financial reputation retires too. In many ways, it becomes even more valuable.

One financial tool I’ve occasionally taken advantage of readily available with my credit score is a credit card balance transfer.

Ideally, I wouldn’t have to rely on a balance transfer at all but, wny not use the banks money for a little flexibility when needed?

My “very good” credit score just gives me options depending on my current financial situation vs the market.

I’m still learning what consistent retirement spending really looks like, and there have been times I’ve leaned on this option more than I probably should have.

Every once in a while, one of my credit card companies sends me a balance transfer offer that’s simply too good to ignore—often with a very low promotional interest rate for a set period.

It’s important to understand that a balance transfer is not the same as a cash advance.

Cash advances usually come with high interest rates that begin accruing immediately, along with additional fees.

A promotional balance transfer, on the other hand, can provide temporary breathing room if it’s used responsibly and you have a plan to pay it off before the promotional rate expires. 

Like any financial tool, it can be helpful—or harmful if not used properly.

The key is understanding the difference and using it as part of a plan, not as a long-term solution.

 Here’s a real example.

I received a balance transfer offer for $3,000 USD with a 5% processing fee.

I like to keep the amount under the offer, so for example purposes I asked for $2850.

That means the fee is $142.50, so the total balance is under $3000. 

In other words, I’m paying $142.50 for up to twelve months of financial flexibility .

Broken down over a year, that’s only about $12.50 per month while my retirement accounts have been yielding well over 5%.

As long as I pay the balance off before the promotional period expires, that’s the only cost I’ll pay. 

For me, that’s a reasonable price for some short-term breathing room while I watch my other accounts grow and continue refining my retirement budget. 

I fully realize I’m flushing $142.50 down the toilet when I could be using my own money.

But, I also realize that, in the grand scheme of things, it’s flyspeck compared to what my investment portfolio is earning right now.

Of course, markets can change at any time, and I’m well aware of that scenario too.

The difference is that I have an plan that will cover it with my Airbnb income.

I would have twelve months to pay off this balance transfer, and it only costs me about $12 a month in fees while monitoring my investments.

That’s a small price to pay for the flexibility it gives me while I continue fine-tuning my retirement budget.

Is it ideal? No.

Is it part of my long-term strategy?  Let’s see how the market math works out! 

But as a short-term financial tool to tap the breaks on my spending and catch up.

I’m comfortable using as I continue learning what retirement really costs.

Many promotional balance transfers, interest isn’t necessarily retroactively charged, but once the promo ends, the remaining balance is subject to the regular APR.  

The difference would be tragic if you were left with ~$700 in interest plus whatever remaining  amount is left on the loan.

That is why retail store often do to their Customers!  

Eventually a $3000 couch, TV etc is $3800, OUCH!!

As with any financial tool, the key is understanding the fine print and having an exit plan before you ever sign up.

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USA Social security – 62, 65 or 70 …

The right time to take government retirement benefits is different for everyone. It is also different in every Country with some better than others. I also have a small Canada pension plan (CPP) in Canada. I contributed for over ten years at lower wages but, I need to understand both options to make an educated decision.

This blog is based on the United States options in general:

62 – Early retirement
67 – Full retirement age for most people
70 – Maximum benefit payout

The decision depends on your health, finances, family history, retirement plans, and whether you still enjoy working.

Some people need the income as soon as possible at 62. Others wait until 70 to maximize their monthly benefit.

There is no one-size-fits-all answer.

As with most retirement decisions, it comes down to your personal situation and what helps you sleep best at night.

I am always very transparent on NorthAmericanDarrell.com, so, I do not mind sharing my United States Social Security estimates.

(The website would not allow screenshots so I took a fancy picture).😂

The most important place to start is making sure you have worked long enough and earned enough credits to qualify for retirement benefits.

Since I didn’t enter the U.S. workforce until 2000 when I was ~28, this was an important milestone for me.

Many Americans spend their entire careers paying into Social Security and take eligibility for granted. As a Canadian who moved to the United States later in life, I had to make sure I accumulated enough work credits to qualify.

Before worrying about whether to take benefits at 62, 67, or 70, make sure you are actually eligible to receive them.

Understanding your estimated benefit, work history, and retirement age options is one of the first steps in building a retirement plan.

For me, reaching the required number of credits was a major checkpoint on my journey toward financial freedom and retirement.

I know people who live primarily on Social Security income. Most of them have to wait until at least age 62 before they can start collecting benefits and insurance.

As you can see, the difference between taking Social Security at 62, 67, or 70 is significant in my case and most others too.

Waiting from age 62 to 67 would increase my benefit by approximately $1,000 per month.

Waiting from age 67 to 70 would increase it by another $700 per month.

The biggest jump is between age 62 and age 70 — roughly $1,700 more per month which is a ~75% increase by waiting 8 years.

All of these numbers are estimates for illustration purposes!

My current plan is to start collecting Social Security at age 67 if I make it that long, or sooner if one of my other retirement buckets dries up. 

That is a whole different discussion because waiting longer can sometimes leave money on the table depending on your health, life expectancy, and financial situation.

The key to early retirement for me was diversification and having multiple buckets of money to draw from at different ages.  

You can read more about the money bucket system I use by CLICKING HERE.

My early retirement journey blog can read by CLICKING HERE.

Everyone’s situation is different, but I hope this helps people realize that you do not necessarily need millions of dollars, as many financial advisors suggest, to retire successfully with a strong geoarbitrage strategy.

The basic definition of geoarbitrage is simple:

Taking advantage of the difference in costs between two geographic areas while maintaining the same—or even a better—quality of life.

In my case, I take a strong U.S. dollar to the Philippines and the rest of Asia. My purchasing power and budget goes much further as I blogged about HERE.

United States Social Security estimates:

https://www.ssa.gov/benefits/calculators/

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The making of NorthAmericanDarrell

Please feel free to read the below blog but, I added the podcast version for audio.

All of my podcast link can be found on the homepage!

Here is E2: The making of NorthAmericanDarrell

Here is the blog version:

Every time I use the bathroom in my little casita in Rocky Point, Mexico, I’m reminded of the off-the-wall life I’ve lived.

And I literally mean “off the wall.”

Hanging on the bathroom door are license plates from places I’ve called home over the years. Alberta. Texas. Georgia. North Carolina. Arizona. Each one represents a different chapter of my life.

Above the toilet hangs my favorite vanity plate:

“Mexico – USA – Canada”

Three countries that have shaped who I am today.

I was born in Canada. Built my career in the United States. And now spend part of my retirement in Mexico.

Most people decorate their bathroom with seashells, paintings, or fancy towels.

I decorated mine with reminders of the journey.

Every plate tells a story.

A promotion that led me south.

A layoff that pushed me west.

A condo purchased during the housing crash.

A little casita by the Sea of Cortez.

A retirement built around travel, adventure, and taking chances.

Sometimes I sit there and laugh.

Not because of where I am today, but because there is no way I could have planned this life.

If you had told that young kid growing up in Edmonton that one day he’d be sitting in a bathroom in Mexico, looking at license plates from across North America while planning his next trip to Asia, he would have thought you were crazy.

Then again, that’s kind of the point.

The best parts of life are often the ones you never see coming.

Every license plates was one of my personal plates over the years—except the top plate. That one belonged to my Mom. 

The one that got the story started and supported me along the way!

It represents more than miles traveled. It represents a lifetime of cars, trucks, boats and trailers.  All of the relocations, road trips, career changes, adventures, and the freedom to build a life on my own terms. 

From Edmonton to Calgary, Dallas, Atlanta, Charlotte, Arizona, Mexico, every plate tells part of the story. 

. Each plate represents a different chapter of my life. 

This is a strong section. I’d tighten it up slightly for flow, grammar, and ElevenLabs narration while keeping your voice intact:

Most “normal” people spend their entire lives in the city where they were born. Some never even leave the same neighborhood.

I went in the exact opposite direction.

For whatever reason, I spent most of my life chasing a crazy dream that had me moving from city to city, country to country, and eventually collecting passport stamps instead of getting married and starting a family.

I’m 100% convinced I would have ended up paying child support and alimony like so many people from broken relationships. That’s not being callous—it’s simply my reality. I was always looking toward the next adventure, the next opportunity, and the next destination.

Along the way, I worked countless short-term assignments in different cities and countries. Between work trips and vacations, I eventually filled a world map with pins in more than 50 countries.

Looking back, diversification didn’t just shape my finances.

It shaped my entire life.

Edmonton, Alberta (1972–1995)

I was born and raised in Edmonton, graduating from high school in 1990 and later earning a Telecommunications Engineering diploma from NAIT in December 1995.

Within weeks of graduating, I packed my bags and headed to Calgary.  I was permanently leaving Edmonton and I would never move back again!

Calgary, Alberta (1996–1999)

I was fortunate enough to land a job with Northern Telecom, Canada’s largest company at the time.

It was the start of something amazing.

Calgary became my home for the next few years as I built a career, earned real money, and discovered there was a much bigger world beyond Alberta.

Dallas/Fort Worth, Texas (1999–2003)

After several years in Calgary, work began sending me regularly to our U.S. headquarters in Richardson, Texas.

I quickly fell in love with America.

Escaping a Calgary winter and landing in Texas a few hours later felt like magic.

Eventually, I was offered a full-time position and moved south before Y2K.

For the next several years, I lived on the road, traveling throughout the United States and internationally while building my career and banking money.

Edmonton, Alberta (2003)

Like many people, I eventually thought it was time to move home.

During my travels, I designed and built what I believed would be my dream home—a 2,400-square-foot house on a corner lot in northeast Edmonton.

I paid cash for it using money saved during my years on the road.

Then I sold it before spending a single night there or even using one of the three restrooms.

To this day, it remains one of the most talked-about decisions of my life.

North Atlanta, Georgia (2003–2010)

Instead of returning to Edmonton, I moved to North Atlanta and spent seven years managing customer support operations during the early growth of Verizon Wireless’ 3G network.

During that time, I continued investing and purchased a one-bedroom condo in Mesa, Arizona, during the 2009 housing crash for just $52,500 cash.

That condo would eventually become my home base.

North Charlotte, North Carolina (2010–2015)

My next promotion took me to North Carolina, where I helped manage Verizon Wireless operations across North Carolina, South Carolina, and Tennessee during the rollout of 4G technology.

I purchased three acres of land near Lake Norman and continued expanding my investments. Part of the property was rented out to help cover the mortgage.

At one point, my North Carolina property, my Georgia house, and my Arizona condo were all producing rental income.

The same tenant lived in my Georgia house for more than ten years before eventually purchasing it in 2022.

For over a decade, they helped pay down my mortgage, and when the time came, I sold the house at market value without ever having to list it.

After nearly two decades in telecommunications, my journey took another unexpected turn.

In the fall of 2014, I was laid off after experiencing massive burnout.

Years of high-pressure situations, constant responsibility, and nonstop travel had finally taken their toll.

It was obvious to everyone.

Including me.

Mesa, Arizona (2015–Present)

It was time to liquidate my North Carolina property and start downsizing.

After accepting a generous layoff package, I moved into the condo I had purchased years earlier in East Mesa, Arizona.

The timing turned out to be perfect.

I worked for CenturyLink for less than a year before accepting a position with PayPal.

What I thought would be a short stop ended up lasting seven years.

Then history repeated itself.

In February 2024, just days before my 52nd birthday, I was laid off once again.

After more than 25 years in corporate America, I was done.

Rather than chase another promotion, another title, or another round of corporate politics, I decided to see if retirement was actually achievable.

Rocky Point, Mexico (2017–Present)

Not long after settling in Arizona, I discovered Rocky Point, Mexico.

In 2017, I began renting a small vacation studio just four hours from Mesa.

As I write this blog on June 8, 2026, I am sitting in that very studio.

It isn’t fancy.

In fact, it’s incredibly simple.

But for about $150 per month, it gives me everything I need.

When my Arizona condo is rented, I already have a fully furnished place waiting for me. When I feel like a change of scenery, I can be sitting by the Sea of Cortez just a few hours after leaving Mesa.

Today, I divide my time between Mesa and Rocky Point whenever I’m not traveling.

Being able to rent my Arizona condo to snowbirds for several months each year has helped supplement my attempt at retirement and provided the flexibility to spend more time exploring the world.

Discovering Asia

Looking back, 2023 was the year everything changed.

PayPal awarded me a four-week paid sabbatical after five years of service.

I added two weeks of vacation time and headed to Thailand.

At the same time, my Mesa condo was rented on Airbnb.

The result was essentially a paid vacation that ended up changing the direction of my life.

That trip opened my eyes to a completely different version of retirement.

A version that didn’t involve sitting still.

Over the next two years, I spent months exploring Asia.

I lived in Vietnam for nearly three months in 2025.

I spent another three months in the Philippines in 2026.

And I already have plans to return to the Philippines from January through April of 2027 to see whether it becomes a permanent part of my annual routine.

After traveling through much of the world, the Philippines appears to check almost every box for the lifestyle I want.

Affordable.

Friendly.

English-speaking.

Warm weather.

And endless opportunities for adventure.

Freedom

Looking back now, that second PayPal layoff was probably one of the best things that ever happened to me.

It forced me to stop and reevaluate what I actually wanted from life.

For decades, I had been chasing the next promotion, the next opportunity, and the next paycheck.

What I eventually realized was that I had been working toward something entirely different all along.

Freedom.

The freedom to travel.

The freedom to choose where I live.

The freedom to wake up without an alarm clock.

The freedom to spend time doing things that actually interest me.

That realization eventually led to the creation of my YouTube channel and NorthAmericanDarrell.com, where I document my past, present, and future adventures.

Some days I still wonder what the hell I’m doing.

But if I’m being honest, that’s pretty much been my life in general.

And somehow, it has worked out just fine.

Maybe someday all of these blogs, stories, and adventures will come together in a book.

If they do, this chapter will simply be one more reminder that diversification didn’t just shape my finances.

It shaped my entire life.

CLICK HERE to read more about my autobiography plans.

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World Cup 2026 – Mexico USA Canada hosting!

It is painfully obvious, most people stop reading my blog after the first few sentences.

Honestly… I don’t blame them!

Why would they read about travel or retiring an EXPAT if that is not in the plans?

We also all consume different content these days. Some like cooking, car shows, fishing etc content instead of travel! 

I would also rather watch or listen instead of reading so, I am trying different avenues.

Please feel free to read but,  I added audio if you prefer.

Here is the condensed audio version of this blog!

Here is the blog version:

I have to admit, I was never much of a soccer—football to most of the world—fan.

But with the 2026 World Cup being hosted by my three home countries—Canada, the United States, and Mexico—I’m genuinely trying to get into it and cheer them all on.

I even had a little help along the way.

Between ChatGPT and borrowing a few observations from the television commentators, I can almost sound like I know what I’m talking about!

The more I watch, the more I appreciate just how passionate the rest of the world is about this sport.

Will I ever become a die-hard soccer fan?

Probably not.

But I have to admit, watching World Cup matches with thousands of passionate fans—especially in Mexico—has been a pretty amazing experience.

So, for the next few weeks, you’ll find me cheering for Canada, the United States, and Mexico.

And if I accidentally sound like a soccer expert…

Just remember where I got my coaching!

I Watched Three Full Soccer Games… and Somehow Enjoyed It, kinda!

Anyone who knows me knows I can barely sit through a full soccer game.

Yesterday was different.

I watched three complete World Cup matches.

I guess miracles do happen as all three of my teams advanced to the round of 16.

I keep updating the blog too!!

Round of 64 Knockout stage:

Canada✅ vs. Switzerland

I’ve followed the progress of the Canadian men’s team for several years now, and I knew the entire country would be tuned in.

One of Canada’s biggest stars, Alphonso Davies, is from my hometown of Edmonton, Alberta, which makes it even easier to cheer them on.

Canada lost the match, but they sure made it exciting at the end after conceding an unfortunate go-ahead goal earlier in the game.

The good news is they’ll be playing their Round of 32 match in Los Angeles, and Davies is expected to return from injury soon to give the team a huge boost.

Just reaching the Round of 32 is another milestone for Canadian soccer.

It almost sounds like I know what I’m talking about.

Truth be told, I’m mostly repeating what the television commentators told me!

Brazil✅ vs. Scotland

Brazil was up next.

Whenever Brazil plays, they’re usually the favorite, so I figured it was worth watching.

They won 3–0, and after watching them play, I completely understand why they’re considered one of the world’s best.

Their pace, skill, and ball movement were on another level.

Mexico✅ vs. Czechia

This was the game I was looking forward to the most.

After all, I was in Mexico.

You could feel the excitement all over town.

People were wearing jerseys everywhere, and the atmosphere was electric.

Of course, I never need much of an excuse to head down to my favorite local watering hole.

Watching Mexico play while sitting beside the ocean with an ice-cold Indio in my hand sounded like a pretty good way to spend the evening.

I’ll admit it…

The first half reminded me why I don’t usually watch soccer.

Nil-nil.

Not much happening.

Then the second half started.

Mexico came out flying.

You could almost feel the energy from the home crowd in Guadalajara pushing them forward.

Before long, Mexico scored.

Then they scored again.

Final score…

Mexico 2.

Czechia 0.

USA✅ vs. Turkey

Sorry, no sorry but, I do not need to hear about the miracle on ice again this year! 

Somehow, they find a way to slide it into every single game no matter the sport.

Round of 32 Knockout stage:

Canada.

The United States.

And Mexico.

All three of my home countries have advanced to the Round of 32.

Canada✅ vs. South Africa

Mexico✅ vs. Equidor

USA✅ vs. Bosnia

Round of 16 Knockout Stage:

Canada vs. Morocco✅

Mexico vs. England✅

USA vs Belgium✅

The excitement was building as all three goat teams continued their World Cup journey while doing an incredible job hosting the tournament.

All three failed to advance to the round of 8. 

What an incredible journey for all three host Countries.

🇺🇸🇨🇦🇲🇽

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Health insurance cancelled!😳

If you’re like me and retire before Medicare and do not have a pension.

Besides finances, a massive part of retiring is health insurance.

My retirement goals:

Good health, freedom, access to a doctor and a million dollars.

“One million is not enough?  How about one hundred BILLION” ?

– Dr Evil

THINK BIG … SCHEME BIGGER!

Health Insurance and inflation are always changing and, it is not something I do not 100% fully understand, yet. Honestly, I’m still learning as I go but, I have great advisors in my corner across the board that will help me stay on course:

Wilde Wealth Management  

Roberts Tax servicing

Brett LaMar EXPATS insurance

Feel free to also check out my overall insurance blog by CLICKING HERE.

 (Being under insured is something that I have never experienced).

An accident, medical emergency or prolonged illness can cost you far more than your health—it can wipe out everything you own as well.  One serious accident or illness can destroy a lifetime of savings in a hurry without proper insurance.

I am glad that stressful time without health insurance is coming to an end!

Because if you know me, I stress the fuck out over this stuff!

I had a massive learning experience on my health insurance …

I went the entire first part of 2026 without health insurance in the USA. 

Although, I still had travel insurance that would have covered me as I was in the Philippines, my American policy had actually been cancelled because of non-payment. 

I’m unsure if I am Shrek or just a donkey for allowing this to happen!

The premiums changed for 2026, and since I wasn’t checking my physical mail or spam emails properly while traveling, I completely missed the notices. 

It was a complete shock getting home from the Philippines on April 15th and finding out my policy was cancelled due to non payment.  The following six weeks before my new policy starting on June 1st, I kept a pretty low profile. 

I couldn’t afford to get into an accident and lowered my odds!

I tried not to think too much about possibly needing a doctor, although I really did need to refill my prescriptions. 

Stressful lesson learned!

Set up auto-pay and review my health insurance policy every December. 

There are also services now that will scan and email my physical mail while I travel, which honestly would have saved me a lot of this stress.

Ironically, I saved about $1,200 in premiums and never needed a hospital visit during that time. I also had travel insurance as a backup outside the USA.

Still… that’s not a money saving gamble anyone should be taking. 💰 

Somehow I dodged the bullet, saved paying premiums, and never ended up needing a hospital. But let’s be honest—that was less “financial strategy” and more “accidental gambling on my life and retirement.”

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What are you still doing in America?🫵

My daily Mesa, AZ home routine usually starts with some “Spa time” at Life Time Fitness.  Staying healthy matters more to me now than ever before.

You can read more on my health gimmicks blog:

CLICK HERE

The idea of hobbling around a beach in compression socks and flip-flops after giving up on my health is nightmare fuel. Watching people completely quit on themselves physically is one of the biggest reminders I have to never give up!

The Life Time gym crowd supports every demographic! 

Massive gym, pickleball, basketball, rock climbing wall, waterslides. Indoor and outdoor swim lanes, steam, sauna and my favorite, the cold plunge.

There are a lot of retired folks like me who hit the gym in the afternoons. 

A few weeks ago, I met an older gentleman in his mid 70s and I see daily. I told him about my travels and that my American dream is over due to Politics.

He now asks me the same question every single day: 

“What are you still doing here America”?

 

Her reminds me of a guy I follow on Instagram. He is always on point sharing the same point of view to wait for the perfect time.

Give Diogo Jared a follow too!!

My grumpy LTF buddy keeps telling me that life is way too short not to do what makes you happy.

It is like he is reading my blog!

The problem is… I honestly don’t know how to answer his question?!

Some days, I don’t even know what I’m still doing here either.

Other days, I am content with my laid back life with my PT Arizona, Mexico Asia lifestyle.

Maybe I’m just a little too chickenshit to push all my chips into one pile.  I like having the option of calling AZ, Mexico and the Philippines PT homes.

I get the feeling my LTF buddy wishes he went “all in” a long time ago too.  I can tell he has his regrets looking back at life like the rest of us. He can barely walk, overweight and I have not seen him smile.

We can learn so much from older folks retirement advice!

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I’m a little crazy but, the world’s insane!

We all have our own version of crazy.

ChatGPT just happens to make me a little better-looking while I’m sharing mine.

I simply throw my crazy out onto the front lawn here at NorthAmericanDarrell.com.

Most people keep theirs hidden under the bed while blowing smoke and pretending everything is perfect.

I’m just trying to have fun playing the cards I was dealt. I also just tend to double down on crazy along the way. 

if he walks like a duck and talks like a duck… he’s probably one blog away from quacking up. 😂

I get a laugh when I hear this song!

knowin’ I’m a little crazy but, the worlds insane!!

OH, once you get to know me

I’m a coyote in a field of wolves

I’m a house on a hill where the lightning strikes 

Kids ride by scared on their bikes 

I’m screaming at a TV that ain’t ears

On anti-depressants and lukewarm beers 

I do it every night but the news don’t change

Guess I’m a little crazy but the world’s insane

Yeah, the only thing keeping these tracks on the train 

Knowin’ I’m a little crazy but, the worlds insane!!

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Cebu, Philippines – 2027 budget!

Travel planning is something I’ve always enjoyed. I spend countless hours researching ways to save money, but once I arrived in 2026, that carefully planned three-month budget quickly went out the window as I was still not prepared.

It was paradise and I was having too much fun!

I also found that many EXPATS I met operate on budgets far bigger than mine.  

Just like me, they busted their ass their entire life and are now living the good life on their terms!  Our budgets just did not align and I had some debt when I got home.

I just know better that I cannot keep up with the Joneses!

Lesson learned; even if the post-mortem cost analysis ended up being tough to comprehend when I got home. I just needed to get off my high horse!

So my 2027 strategy is already in motion:

• January 1st, 2027 arrival using points; $85 out of pocket
• Prepay January through April rent: $1,800 total
• ~$300 USD per week loaded onto a prepaid debit card
• Use cash and avoid using credit cards
• Most importantly… focus on one Filipina at a time which killed my budget 😅

I will spend a month in Cebu in the Summer of 2026 to test my 2027 longer term plan. I would expect the need to tweak this plan again when I get home.

In my opinion, dating works pretty much the same in most parts of the world. 

To make a relationship work long term, you need to be able to provide stability and support for your partner.  Since I have basically lived the Gypsy life, it was not the answer longer term on both ends of the relationship.

Sex life also needs to be on point so both don’t go elsewhere.

Everything is just upfront and a lot more obvious where you stand in the Philippines. I talk about his because I learned it is a big part of budgeting. 

I have “dated” several women there trying to better understand of the landscape.  

When I put my wallet away, I could tell that that it was all about the money with most of them.  If they messaged me back, I knew they wanted what they had.  I just remind them not to ask me for money and I will take care of them.

 On the other hand …

Can you imagine paying ~$250 for a date in other parts of the world?

Now, can you imagine dating someone that may not have the same luxuries that we enjoy every single day?  A comfortable bed, AC, three square meals a day and a hot shower are just a few examples of some of the challenges in the Philippines..

I hear dating stories all the time of these situations:

Having her first margarita on a date!

Going to a movie and had popcorn for the first time! She ate an entire large bag and was so sick afterwards.  She was in heaven and gorged. 🍿

Visiting their home; hose for running water, outhouses, dirt floors …

I want to be clear, I am not judging as these are real life dating stories.  

The ironic part is that most of the Filipinas seem happier than western women.

In general, their life is not based entirely on material items!

It just takes time to ensure that everything is in the open just like all relationships should be anywhere in the world.  We all know guys that lost it all in a divorce due to being used.

Sorting it out might be the hardest part to move forward as they are so kind.

A buddy once said: 

“I can’t believe you essentially pay for sex”.

I asked him:

“Mortgage on her dream home, new iPhone every year, designer handbag, car payments, maxed credit card bills and being on first name basis with your Amazon driver is “free”?

All the bull shit aside, I just need to focus on my life and budget!

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Taking a run at early retirement!

I have planned for retirement as long as I can remember!

I distinctly remember walking into the Royal Bank in Calgary meeting with a retirement planner the same week I started my Telecom career in 1996.

I remember opening an RRSP (Registered retirement savings plan) which is equivalent to an American 401K. 

Tax sheltered money was explained for the first time at 24!

I remember asking, “I have to wait until 62 to retire”?  He laughed and said it will be a lot older by the time you are ready to retire.  It is now 67+ for full retirement!

My next question, what do I need to do to retire early?  

Diversify was the distinct answer!

This is something everyone should be doing at a young age. 

Compound interest is the key to making money work for you long term.

If you read my blogs, you will notice that I bring up my Mom. I learned so much from her (good and bad) and often use her as an example.

She worked so hard, endured so much loss but absolutely nailed retirement. 

She was a snowbird for almost 20 years until she passed at 84.

For me, it ultimately came down to diversification—just like I had been told that day in Calgary over 30 earlier.

di·ver·si·fi·ca·tion

The process of becoming more diverse or spreading risk across multiple areas rather than relying on a single source.  Financial advisors tell us not to put all our eggs in one basket.

10-18% of my paycheck directly into a tax sheltered retirement for retirement.

Take advantage of the full Company match as it is free money.

Bought and and sold rental properties for early pre-retirement.

No mortgage.

Planned a modest pre-retirement and retirement life.

I also never had children or married as marriage is the number one cause of divorce. So many men pay alimony and child support and have lost everything.

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2025/26 Edmonton Oilers – RIP 😞

Let’s just say my 2026 spring plans didn’t go as planned. 

There also may have been a tear/Oil drop in my coffee this morning after my Edmonton Oilers lost in five games in the first round of the NHL playoffs.

The last two springs had set a bit of a tradition—I’d come home from my travels just in time for a long run of Edmonton Oilers playoff hockey. With back-to-back Finals appearances, I’d grown used to games every other night, stretching deep into June.

I lived in Edmonton for a dynasty making me a fanatic for life!

5 Stanley Cups in 7 years!

The Edmonton Oilers won the Stanley Cup five times in their franchise history, all within a seven-year span during their 1980s dynasty: 1984, 1985, 1987, 1988, and 1990.

Here is a breakdown of the dynasty:

Lost to 4X Cup Champions New York Islanders 1983:

Defeated New York Islanders1984: 

Defeated Philadelphia Flyers1985

Lost to Calgary – own goal 1986

Defeated Philadelphia Flyers 1987

Defeated Boston Bruins 1988

Lost to Gretzky’s LA Kings 1989

Defeated Boston Bruins 1990

All five championships were won after joining the NHL in 1979.

They have been close a few more times:

Lost in game 7 to Carolina 2006

Lost in game 7 to Florida 2024

Lost to Florida in game 5 2025

Lost this year in the first round to Anaheim 2026

 

Edmonton is always a different city during Edmonton Oilers playoff hockey. 

Spring is in the air, the energy is high, and the party basically ran non-stop for two months. It is a shame it was cut short this year!

Game nights are locked in, and on off nights, everyone turns into an armchair coach or GM. And of course—no matter what’s happening—fans can always find something to complain about running players out of town.

Well, the fans got what they wanted. They pushed too many players out of town who might have made a difference in 2026 and beyond.

Worse yet, the replacements didn’t measure up—2026 wasn’t even close to the 2024 or 2025 teams some people complained about.

I used to say, “Enjoy the game,” because you never know when it might be their last real run. After all, we waited almost 20 years for another shot at the Cup.

The craziest part?  Win or lose:

Every season, it’s the same story with Edmonton Oilers fans calling for change:

#TradeXYZ
#SignXYZ
#FireXYZ

New management basically ripped apart teams that were a goal (2006/2024) and 2 games (2025) away from winning it all!

I am no different, I blame President of Hockey operations Jeff Jackson and Dennis Sundar for pretending to be the smartest people in the room.

Let’s just say that these latest changes have the Edmonton Oilers Stanley Cup winning window is closing faster than my blogging career. 😂

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June 2,1935 – July 1, 2019💔

You don’t realize how much your mother anchors your world until she’s gone. 

After that, everything changes. The world keeps moving, but it never feels quite the same without her in it.

There are so many memories and moments of relentless loss.  There are also so many things that I wish that I could say so many things just one more time.  

I just thought she would live a lot longer! 

So naive as she was 84.

That analogy couldn’t have been more correct when it comes to me. Since losing my mom, everything has changed, and life has never been the same.

I used to ask her “Are you bragging or complaining”?

I am complaining Mom!

Towards the end, my Mom had a way of being memorable to people she met.

Good and bad as she did tell a fair share of people to kiss her ass.

She also found a way to be just a wee bit annoying. 😇

 

Awesome, arrogance, and annoying – we really do take after our Mom! 😁

So many memories I could share!

 

After I left Canada; I wanted a tattoo of a Canadian Leaf.  She never wanted to be left out so she got a tattoo of a butterfly on her ankle for a daughter she lost in a fire.  

Darlene had a butterfly tattoo. 

I eventually covered up my shitty leaf tattoo and Mom got a second butterfly tattoo on her BIG TOE.  She lost her toenail and always hated it so she got a tattoo there! 😂

“Live life to the fullest” was her saying!

My Mom did not have an easy life. She endured more loss and heartbreak than any one person should ever have to face.

She lost a husband/my Dad (suicide), a daughter (mentioned above) and grandson (fire), a son (car accident). She also lost her closest grandson Ryan to another car accident. I say favorite as Mom always stuck for Ryan when no one else would.  I was old enough to see the pain of her losing Ryan and it hurt her so badly.

I just remember her saying graveside: “Its not fair, it’s just not fair” 😭

I often wonder how she found the strength to keep going.  

I always told myself that someday I would try to make it up to her after she put me through Collage. I was probably the only twenty something year old that had a packed lunch everyday! 😂

I wish I knew how lucky I was to have her here in AZ all those years.

(Just knowing she was three hours away in Yuma meant the world).

When Mom was close to retirement, she used all of her accumulated sick leave to come visit me while I was working in California. Little did I know that first visit would turn her into quite the traveler.

She once took a five-day bus trip from Edmonton to Atlanta to visit me. 

She visited several other cities where I worked, including throughout Southern California, Las Vegas, Nashville, Myrtle Beach, Acapulco, and Mexico City. 

She loved to explore and spend my money while on expenses! 😇

She made 16 trips from Edmonton to Yuma as a snowbird, The above picture I posted was her last year.  I wish I knew that when I posted it.

Every year I would ask, “Do you want to take the bus or fly to Yuma?” She would always reply, “Take the bus… but if there’s a cheap flight.”

I knew exactly what that meant: book the flight and don’t forget to request a wheelchair. 

She didn’t really need a wheelchair, but it escorted to her next gate and helped with her luggage to get to me waiting. I always asked if she pushed the wheelchair. 

So many more stories I can tell …

When I moved to the United States, I dated a flight attendant who was able to get my Mom on flights for next to nothing. I still laugh when I think about her getting upgraded to First Class and acting like such a big shot. 

She was convinced everyone sitting up there was famous. She would ask for first class everytime going forward. 

I could tell stories about her for days—and someday I probably will.

There isn’t a day that goes by that I don’t think about her. The hardest time of year is late Spring. The six-week stretch right now between Mother’s Day, her birthday on June 2nd, and the anniversary of her passing on July 1st.

I was the MC at my niece Amber’s wedding. Since they considered a destination wedding in Mexico, I had one request: anyone who came up to speak had to wear a sombrero.

Most people wore it because they had to.

My Mom wore it like felt like she’d finally achieved her lifelong dream.  Becoming Mayor of Algodones, Mexico where she visited weekly while in Yuma.

Hug your Mom, even if she sometimes drives you bat shit crazy!

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An auto biography with Chat GPT? ⌨️

I have always wanted to write an autobiography and starting NorthAmericanDarrell.com was a great start!  

In January 2025, I just started writing about my travels and my crazy life adventures in general. Setting up my website layout, navigating technology and my suspect writing skills are a work in progress but, I have come a long way.

My biggest challenge would be taking criticism and keep writing if not one reads. 

Admittedly, i am definitely no Einstein when it comes to creativity and, I am not great at taking criticism.

I just enjoying telling stories about my life but, some people are envious.  EXPATs and like minded travelers tend to give positive feedback while the stool pigeons judge.

I even reached out to a book publishing company that put an outline together and would edit my book along the way for me; $2500 USD+.

“A Legend in my own mind – A Macumentary”

You can read my blog on that process by CLICKING HERE.

It turns out publishing companies also use ChatGPT so why can’t I?!

I asked “ChatGPT plus – the paid version” if it would help me write my autobiography:

(It basically spit out the same outline as the publisher);

Absolutely. Based on your website, blogs, travel stories, humor, philosophy, and personal history, you already have the foundation for a very readable autobiography. (NorthAmericanDarrell)

Your story is bigger than “travel.” It’s really about:

Freedom

Early retirement

Reinvention

Solo travel

geoarbitrage

risk-taking

identity

refusing the traditional script

humor mixed with anxiety and self-awareness

That combination is what makes it compelling.

A strong autobiography for you would probably read somewhere between:

travel memoir

financial freedom story

comedy/self-deprecating reflection

anti-traditional life philosophy

Honestly, your voice is already the strongest part. The humor and honesty are what normally make people keep reading. 

 

Here’s the outline, structure and summary I’d recommend:


North American Darrell

Legend in My Own Mind

A Mockumentary About Freedom, Travel, Geo arbitrage and, Poor Decisions


PART 1 — THE MAKINGS OF A SOLO TRAVELER

Growing up in the ’80s

Simpler life

First exposure to travel

California, Vegas, Acapulco

Falling in love with movement

NAIT, Bars & Telecommunications

School struggles

Ezzies

Northern Telecom interview

First real paycheck

Discovering corporate America


PART 2 — CHASING THE AMERICAN DREAM

Texas Women & Travel Addiction

Richardson HQ

Work visas

Flight attendant relationship

Constant travel

Becoming “North American Darrell”

Houses, Careers & Layoffs

Northern Telecom

PayPal

Building wealth

Freedom50 mindset

Layoffs in 2014 and 2024

Realizing traditional life wasn’t for you


PART 3 — FREEDOM 50

Arizona, Mexico & Airbnb

Mortgage-free condo

Rocky Point

Airbnb strategy

Geoarbitrage

Slow Travel Philosophy

Cheap flights

Hostels

Budget travel

Asia vs Europe

Living longer in places

“Poor decisions and absolute freedom”


PART 4 — THE PHILIPPINES

Relationships & Reality

Dating abroad

Limerence

Financial imbalance

Learning hard lessons

Emotional honesty

Happiness & Simplicity

Why people with less often seem happier

Materialism

Western expectations

Gratitude


PART 5 — THE COST OF FREEDOM

Health Insurance

Retiring before Medicare

Fear of illness

No guaranteed income

Market stress

Freedom vs security

Gym, Aging & Identity

Fear of giving up physically

Staying active

Compression socks and beaches

Longevity mindset


PART 6 — LEGEND IN MY OWN MIND

Why the Blog Exists

Travel is not that expensive

Living life to the fullest

Blogging as therapy

Nobody reading it… and not caring anymore

YouTube

AI

Humor

Reinvention

Final Philosophy

Travel while you still can

Life is short

Take the shot

Don’t die wondering

“Trying not to roll craps”


The key thing:
DO NOT over-polish it.

Your audience will connect with:

raw honesty

self-awareness

humor

contradictions

admitting fear

admitting mistakes

weird/random observations

That’s your brand. (NorthAmericanDarrell)

You already have enough material for:

a full autobiography

a travel memoir

a blog-to-book conversion

audiobook narration

YouTube storytelling series

And honestly?
The title “Legend in My Own Mind” is excellent. 

 

It fits perfectly as you start to add to the below summary.

North American Darrell

‘A Legend in My Own Mind’

A Mockumentary About Freedom, Travel, Geo arbitrage and Poor Decisions

Absolutely. Based on your website, blogs, travel stories, humor, philosophy, and personal history, you already have the foundation for a very readable autobiography.

Your story is bigger than “travel.” It’s really about freedom, early retirement, reinvention, solo travel, geoarbitrage, risk-taking, identity, refusing the traditional script, and humor mixed with anxiety and self-awareness.

That combination is what makes it compelling.

A strong autobiography for you would probably read somewhere between a travel memoir, a financial freedom story, a comedy filled with self-deprecating reflection, and an anti-traditional life philosophy.

Honestly, your voice is already the strongest part. The humor and honesty are what make people keep reading.


PART 1 — THE MAKINGS OF A SOLO TRAVELER

The story begins in Edmonton, Alberta, growing up in the early ’80s when life felt simpler. Bikes, streetlights, no internet, and no cell phones. Then came the first exposure to travel: California, Las Vegas, and Acapulco. Those early trips created a lifelong obsession with movement, freedom, and escape.

After high school came NAIT, bars, telecommunications, and figuring life out the hard way. School struggles, nights at Ezzies, and somehow landing an interview with Northern Telecom despite not exactly being a model student. That first real paycheck changed everything and opened the door to corporate America.


PART 2 — CHASING THE AMERICAN DREAM

The next chapter moves into Texas, corporate travel, and full-blown travel addiction. Richardson headquarters, work visas, airports, hotels, rental cars, and a relationship with a flight attendant that made constant travel even easier.

This is where “North American Darrell” was born.

There were houses, careers, investments, relocations, and years spent building wealth while chasing the Freedom50 dream. Northern Telecom. PayPal. Layoffs in 2014 and again in 2024. Twenty-five-plus years of service erased with a few meetings and severance packages.

That period becomes the turning point where the realization finally hits: the traditional life path was never really the right fit.


PART 3 — FREEDOM 50

Arizona, Mexico, Airbnb income, and slow travel become the foundation of a completely different lifestyle.

A mortgage-free condo in Arizona becomes home base alongside Rocky Point, Mexico. Geoarbitrage enters the picture: learning how to live well while spending less by choosing where and how to live.

Travel changes too. Cheap flights, long stays, budget travel, hostels, Airbnb experiments, and discovering that Asia often makes far more financial sense than Europe.

The philosophy becomes simple: freedom over status.

Poor decisions and absolute freedom.


PART 4 — THE PHILIPPINES

The Philippines becomes more than a destination. It becomes an emotional education.

Relationships abroad, dating culture, limerence, financial imbalance, emotional honesty, and learning hard lessons become central themes. Some funny. Some painful. Most expensive.

At the same time, there’s a growing realization that people with far less materially often seem happier than many westerners. Simplicity, gratitude, and perspective begin changing how life itself is viewed.

The blogs become less about destinations and more about understanding people, expectations, loneliness, aging, relationships, and identity.


PART 5 — THE COST OF FREEDOM

Retiring before Medicare without a pension introduces an entirely new reality.

Health insurance, financial uncertainty, market stress, fear of illness, and the realization that one bad medical emergency can destroy a lifetime of savings.

Freedom suddenly has responsibilities attached to it.

At the same time comes the obsession with staying physically healthy. The gym becomes routine. Aging becomes real. Fear of becoming the guy walking around beaches in compression socks and flip-flops after giving up physically becomes motivation.

Health, freedom, purpose, access to a doctor, and enough money to survive all become interconnected.


PART 6 — LEGEND IN MY OWN MIND

Eventually, the blog itself becomes part therapy session, part comedy routine, and part autobiography unfolding in real time.

The humor, self-awareness, bad decisions, AI cartoons, YouTube shorts, random observations, and brutally honest reflections all become part of the brand.

Nobody may fully understand it except the person living it.

And maybe that’s the point.

The final philosophy is simple:

Travel while you still can.

Life is shorter than most people want to admit.

Take the shot.

Do the thing.

Don’t die wondering what might have happened.

And above all else…

Try not to roll craps along the way.

Dance like no one is watching or reading!

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Jeep roof off – AZ blue sky & cool weather!

I have been home in Arizona for ten days after spending almost four months traveling.

The weather has been fantastic as it is  normally over 110F/30C this time of year

“Warming expected over the next 6 days”. 

No kidding!

I will enjoy it as this amazing weather is normally taken by my Airbnb guests all winter long. These are averages, I expect the summer will be a lot hotter.

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Travel budget review! One MILLION …

One MILLION Philippine pesos = ~$16,000 USD

Easily five to six plus months living in the Philippines, it lasted me four months.

I mismanaged my home expenses and overspent in Paradise!💃

(Property/income taxes, health insurance and Jeep/condo repairs).

Every time I come home from a long trip, I spend the first couple of weeks reviewing my budget. The goal is to see where I could’ve saved money—and after three months in the Philippines, let’s just say I gave myself plenty of expenses to review.

I signed up for an budgeting app called “Rocket money” and its pretty apparent that I overspent on every single category three months straight

I could use Count Dracula right about now!

I am always able to recover but the time has come to stick to a budget.  

The part that makes me comfortable is that my AZ expenses are low. The Philippines also makes it a lot easier to budget than most Countries I have visited.

Here is a quick look at my income plan for 2026/27:

Mesa Airbnb: $10K – $15K income.

Investments: $24K – $36K distributions.

(~$3K a month / ~$36K budget)

I will have -$50K available as a buffer.

It sure feels good to be home in AZ watching sports!

Here is my 2026/27 AZ Airbnb expenses:

$320 HOA

$109 utilities 

$60 internet and TV

$60 home insurance

My AZ property will run for about ~$500 a month.

(HOA, internet, utilities and insurance)

Running my Airbnb comes with extra expenses. 

I rent a storage unit to keep my belongings while the place is occupied.  I also maintain a place monthly in Rocky Point, Mexico (four hour shuttle/drive).

I always have somewhere to store my stuff. I also have a place to stay when rented and I’m not traveling. Plus, I also have a pad in Mexico 365 days a year!

My rent in Cebu, Philippines is $450 so accomodations is basically a wash.

I lower my Jeep insurance cost to offset travel insurance. I also put my gym membership on hold as new members pay $190 a month.

Travel insurance is less than $5 USD a day depending on deductable.

You can read my travel insurance blog by CLICKING HERE.

You can checkout your travel health insurance cost using my agent by CLICKING HERE:

I get that question a lot—how did you retire young? Honestly, I just send people to my blog if they’re curious how I’ve made this lifestyle work.

I’ve made plenty of mistakes along the way, but that’s where most of the lessons learned.

The truth is, it didn’t happen overnight—and it definitely wasn’t all luck.

All the hard work, planning with a sprinkle of luck feels good!

My 2026 three month trip to the Philippines taught me so much about my future travel budget. After years or roaming the globe, I have found a place that I to return to yearly.

You can read about my setup in Cebu by CLICKING HERE.

That is huge win for me but the numbers speak for themselves:

~$600 round trip flight or points to get from AZ to the Philippines.

$425 month rent in an amazing area of Cebu.

$250 – $300 weekly budget / ~$1000 monthly

My goal has always been $2K for my travels.

Realistically,, I will need $3K to cover home and my travels.  

Unfortunately, I have had $3K+ months traveling within the Philippines.

I will need to pay more attention to stay on budget now that I have a solid plan.

If not, do you want fries with that? 😳

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Home sweet AZ home! 🌵

After three and a half months of travel—and hosting three Airbnb guests along the way—I returned home to Mesa, Arizona, on April 15, 2026. There’s something especially satisfying about coming home after being gone that long.

I was lucky enough to have my sister and brother-in-law visit from Canada right after I got back. Even through the haze of jet lag, their company was exactly what I needed—and the timing was perfect with the Toronto Blue Jays in town and Oiler playoff hockey starting.

I went to the first two games with them, and they rounded out the series by catching the last game on Sunday afternoon with a big win.

My sister has never been a big traveler, but she’s definitely caught the bug. She’s now been to Las Vegas twice, Mexico, Arizona in the last six months—and she’s headed to Paris in May.

Dropping them off at the train station felt strange. She’s such a confident traveler—navigating airports, figuring out the city train system to get to the games, and even making her way back to the airport on her own.

It was also the start of the NHL playoffs, and we got to watch the first game together. We’ve always been big fans of the Edmonton Oilers, so that made it even more special.

Here is a taste of Edmonton Oilers playoff hockey!

As much as I love traveling, there’s something about coming home and resetting that feels just right. I’m planning to stay close for the next month and get my feet back under me.

Not for too long though—my Rocky Point, Mexico pad is already calling.

Until then, No Mas travel …

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Philippines Immigration!💸

I won’t do the same stupid thing twice with Philippines immigration.

I’ve always believed in the importance of strong immigration systems—not just in America, but around the world. It’s something I’ve spoken about often, and with conviction.

Going through the immigration process in the Philippines has made me realize that I didn’t fully understand it the way I thought I did. And that realization has been frustrating. Not because the system is necessarily wrong—but because I assumed I already knew enough to avoid an unnecessary extension while spending unnecessary money.

The truth is, every country handles immigration differently. What seems simple from the outside can quickly become complicated when you’re the one navigating the process. Paperwork, fees, timelines—it all adds up, and not always in ways you expect.

And there’s a cost to that lack of understanding.

We all pay for our mistakes. In this case, it’s not just mistakes—it’s ignorance. And systems like these don’t let that slide. Whether it’s time, money, or added stress, nothing comes free when you’re learning the hard way.

It’s a humbling experience, but also an important one.

Because it’s one thing to talk about immigration from a distance—and another to live it as …

 “nothing in life is free”.

Here’s how it actually works and there is no lap dance workaround …

When you enter the Philippines, you’re granted a free 30-day visa on arrival.

After that, you need to extend.

Your first renewal gives you a 29-day extension, which costs around $80 USD.

(This was where I made my mistake, I thought it was 30-days)

Once that period ends, you can apply for either a 30-day or 60-day extension—and that jumps to about $175 USD.  This is needed even if you need only needed one more day like me.

Step by step, extension by extension, the process becomes more involved—and more expensive so ensure you take advantage of the full visa and not just one day.

The key to all of this is simple: count your days—and plan your out of Country Road trips and  home flights accordingly.

That’s where I went wrong and you can CLICK HERE for more on Philiippines immigration. 

Below is the current extension and fee summary:

QUICK SUMMARY:

  • Eligibility: 30 and 59-day visa-exempt nationalities and 9A tourist visa holders
  • Duration of extension: 1 or 2 months per extension, up to 36 months for visa-exempt nationalities and 24 months for the rest
  • Extension Fee:
    • The first 29 days for visa-exempt travelers: 4,060 PHP
    • First time after 59 days of stay: 9,830 PHP for 2 months
    • Second time after 59 days: 5,080 PHP for 2 months
    • Beyond 6 months of stay: 5,270 PHP for 2 months

In my case, I didn’t realize that the second extension is 29 days, not 30. And that one-day difference cost me.

Here’s how it played out.

I arrived in the Philippines on January 23rd, 2026.

My initial 30-day visa would have expired on February 25th. Based on that timeline, I knew I would need two extensions—a 29-day extension and then a 30-day extension—bringing my total stay to 89 days.

But I had a plan to avoid that second, more expensive extension.

Instead of staying continuously, I decided to leave the country briefly and re-enter. The idea was simple: reset the clock with a new free 30-day visa, then apply for one 29-day extension. That way, I could avoid the third—and most expensive—visa until later.

So I booked a birthday trip.

I flew to Hong Kong on February 10th and returned on February 12th. On paper, it seemed like a smart move but, I needed to stay one more day.

But here’s the mistake: I assumed the second extension worked the same as the first free—30 days upon entry.

It isn’t – It’s 29 days.

That one incorrect assumption left me short by a single day.

My 29-day extension ended on April 13th. My flight out of the Philippines was scheduled for April 15th.

A day late and now $175 short …

That meant I had no choice: either pay a fine at the airport and deal with the hassle there, or purchase another visa extension.

In the end, I paid for it!!

One extra day turned into a $175 USD mistake.

That new extension now carries me through May 16th—all because I was off by one day.

Lesson learned: in immigration, one day matters more than you think.

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Bantayan Island Philippines!😍

I made it back to the spectacular Santa Fe Beach on Bantayan Island in the Philippines during the first week of April 2026. 

I visited in 2024 during my first trip to the Philippines, and it was one of my favorite road trips.

It was a memorable 36-hour adventure.

Once again, this beach proved to be another one of the most beautiful in the Philippines.

It was even better than I remembered, which is a recurring statement.

Unfortunately, I made the mistake of visiting during one of the busiest weekends of the year—Holy Week.

What should have been a quick escape to paradise turned into a lesson in bad planning… and even worse execution.

And the crazy part? I always seem to land on my feet!

I arrived in an absolute, hands-down, ten-bell, five-star paradise—Santa Fe Beach on Bantayan Island. 

As long as I came out alive, it was an amazing road trip from Cebu.

The tide pool and sandbar in front of my beach hotel was amazing!

Logistically, it’s actually a simple—and surprisingly easy—trip from Cebu.

~$2 taxi to the North SM bus terminal.

~$4 three-hour ride up to the northern tip of Cebu Island.

~$10 90-minute ferry over to Bantayan Island.

And finally, a quick, couple-dollar tuk-tuk ride straight to Sante Fe beach from the Bantayan ferry terminal.

I paid ~$30 a night for a simple,, clean room at YooneeBeach Resortrt.  This was during Holy Week,, which was double the normal price. CLICK HERE to review and book this simple, yet amazing resort.

(Much fancier and more expensive beach hotels can be found by CLICKING HEE).

Coming home, I took an ~$8 faster van. It was a perfect connection with the ferry getting me home in 6 hours.

Easy. Affordable. Almost effortless.

At least… that’s how it’s supposed to go …

If this sounds awesome—and it actually was
just not without self-inflicted sideshows that could seemingly only happen to me.

Let me try to lay it out as it actually happened.

First—picture Holy Week travel.

Think Thanksgiving traffic in the U.S, but scooters, tuk tuks, buses, ferries, and Cebu’s insane traffic exacerbated.

Crowds. Delays. Prices up. Everything is moving more slowly than it should. Which I did not think was possible in the Philippines.

That’s where things started to go sideways.

The first speed bump? The bus ride.

What should have been a three-hour trip turned into over five hours, with two rest stops and heavy traffic the entire way.

Not ideal, but still manageable.

The real problem came next.

Because of the delay, we rolled into the port at 5:45 PM…

…and missed the last ferry by 15 minutes.

That’s when I knew—I had officially screwed up.

So instead of arriving in paradise that night, I found myself sitting in the ferry terminal… waiting for the next available boat at 1 AM.

Arrival time: 3 AM.

And just to make things more interesting?

I hadn’t booked a hotel.

Why would I? I figured I’d just walk back into the same amazing beach spot I stayed at in 2024.

Did I mention this was the busiest weekend of the year?

Yeah.

Then—because life always balances things out—I met an amazing Filipina woman sitting in the terminal. She sat next to me,e which always blows me away here.

We ended up talking for five hours, which honestly made the time fly by.
She was fun, easy to talk to, and even invited me to hang out with her cousins and visit a lagoon the next day.

For a moment, I thought… Okay, things are turning around.

She was genuinely great.

And that’s where that storyline paused.

It was time to board the ferry.

We had beds on the overnight ferry so we could finally relax …

Anyway…

We finally arrived.

Her cousin lined me up with an overpriced hotel and gave me a ride there on her scooter, while her friends took her on another scooter. They even helped me check in.

And somehow, after all that… we were about to head to the beach at 3 AM.

That’s when I bailed!

She called—I missed it.

I tried calling her the next day… nothing.

And just like that, an amazing encounter was over due to my ignorance.

Which is too bad, because Santa Fe on Bantayan Island really is incredible, and I could have used a tour guide.  

But that moment set the tone for the whole trip.

Relax.

Drink beer and rum.
And maybe… take a break from being so damn awkward!

The setting?

Unreal.

Crystal-clear water. Soft white sand. Hardly a cloud in the sky.

It’s 10 AM the next morning… $2 beers are already flowing while watching the hockey game, and I slip in a bloody Mary/Caesar with breakfast… and for a brief moment, it feels like life is finally back under control.

At least… temporarily as the Oilers lost and I misplaced my tablet.

Luckily, the staff at the hotel had it waiting for me when I returned for it.

Sometimes traveling, everything feels like a complete disaster…

I am not self-aware of the situation, or confident,

I still catch that break to get me back on track!

Plus, I am also always learning about myself from the mistakes I make along the way.

Another amazing adventure, traveling, and life lessons in the books/blogs!

Living Life to the Fullest, one adventure and mistake at a time!

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Happiness is spending time at the beach!

My entire adult life, I’ve chased time at the beach.

If I’m being honest, I couldn’t even begin to list all the incredible beaches I’ve visited around the world. What I do know is this—whenever I choose a destination, there’s almost always a beach involved… or at least one close enough to find.

It’s never really been optional. It’s just part of how I travel—and how I live.

For the past eight years, I’ve even kept a small studio rented in Rocky Point, Mexico. Anytime I felt that familiar pull, I knew I could be on the beach within four hours—door to sand.

You can read my blog on my Rocky Point casita by CLICKING HERE.

That beach feeling… it never really goes away for me.

It just gets stronger.

Below is a picture I took on Siargao Island, Philippines, in March 2026. It was a $60 RT flight from my home base in Cebu.

Have you ever considered that you might actually be doing beach life wrong!?

Not because you don’t love the ocean—but because you’ve been sold the same destinations your entire life.

Florida. California. Mexico …

And sure… all-inclusive vacations are great!

But they’re not even close to the best experience IMNSHO!

(IMNSHO – In my not so humble opinion) 🤓

I’ve spent years chasing beaches around the world—Australia, Bermuda, Costa Rica, Greece, Italy, Hawaii—and what I discovered in SE Asia changed everything:

The most beautiful beaches aren’t the most popular ones…
They’re just the ones most people never consider going to.

And here’s the part nobody talks about—

What if you could wake up to clearer water, softer sand, and crowds that are basically nonexistent…

While spending 50–75% less than you would in California, Florida, or even Mexico.

Same ocean experience.
Better adventures.
Way lower cost, longer term.

At some point, you have to ask yourself:

Are you traveling for convenience…Or for something unforgettable?

Here is another picture I took at Alona beach, on the island of Bohol, Philippines which is a two hour ferry trip from my homebase in Cebu.

Below is Santa Fe beach in Bantayan Island, Philippines which is about 6 hours away from my homebase in Cebu.  I visited during the first week of April for the second time.  Like all the other beaches I’ve shared in this blog, it is also amazing.

Most beaches in Southeast Asia are some of the most incredible I’ve seen in my life.

Places like the Philippines, Thailand, and even Vietnam offer clearer water, softer sand, and scenery that feels almost untouched compared to what most people are used to.

My Philippines homebase in Cebu, Philippines—there are many other short, inexpensive flight, ferry, or bus trips away—open up access to islands and coastlines that completely change your expectations of what a beach should look like.

And yet, most people will still book the same yearly trip to Mexico!?
Spending similar money for a completely repetitive experience.

Not bad—just not even close to the best.

Here’s what my numbers look like for my next trip in August 2026.

Flight from Los Angeles to Manila: $600 round trip

Monthly rent: $425 (that’s about $15 a day)

Perfect weather with a side of rainy season to cool off!

Island hopping: $15–$50 to access some of the most beautiful beaches you’ve ever seen 

I know… Mexico is a shorter flight.

You’ve got limited time. Limited vacation days. And more importantly, limited money.

That’s real. And honestly, you might be right.

But let’s look at this from a different angle to prepare you for a longer vacation and/or retirement.  Maybe even early retirement!?

Let’s make it even more real and let this sink in for a second.

You can fly halfway around the world…
live comfortably for a month…
and explore multiple islands…

For about what most people spend on a single week in Mexico.

Flights. Hotels. Restaurants. Drinks. Excursions.

$2,000–$4,000… gone in seven days.

Or—

You take that same budget and completely change the experience.

The Philippines has many things to offer the visitor: a mixture of the old and the new, a diversity of art and culture,e and a warm, friendly people. Blessed by nature, the Philippines has something to offer every sportsman too . . . extraordinary dive sites, forests to roam, mountains to climb, caves to explore.

Wake up every day with access to over 7,000 islands stretching the length of the Philippines—and trade the same old vacation for something unforgettable.

Slow down. Breathe. Actually live there.

That’s the shift most people never even consider—
not just for a vacation, but for upgrading their entire lifestyle… even their retirement.

They’re not choosing a worse experience…

They’re choosing a shorter one—
at a higher price.

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Cebu, Philippines – the city life!

“Settling into my condo in Cebu Business Park has been fantastic! The building features an incredible gym with views over a beautiful pool, and best of all, everything I need is just a short walk away at the mall.

“Cebu Center Mall is just a three-minute walk from my condo and offers a wide variety of stores and restaurants, many of which you’d find in Canada and the United States.”

“There’s a movie theater, a grocery store, and an incredible food court offering just about anything you could crave from back home—along with some fantastic local gems.

A few of my go-to spots for a taste of home include TGIF, Chili’s, and Texas Roadhouse, perfect for enjoying some classic American comfort food and a cold beer.

The mall also has nearly every store you can imagine, from familiar international brands to local Philippine versions, which are often much more affordable for off-brand options.”

⬆️Above is a tour of the mall⬆️

⬇️Below is Cebu City life after 6 PM⬆️

“City life at a fraction of the cost, beautiful weather year-round, and just ten minutes from the ferry terminal—ready to whisk me away to countless stunning islands.

I have already booked two trips back; one month in the summer and four more months to kick off 2027.  It is such an amazing place to spend four months every year.

I often find myself quoting my mom in these blogs. I miss her every day.

‘If they don’t like it, they can kiss my ass!’

I’d always laugh and ask, ‘Are you bragging or complaining, Mom?’
And she’d say, ‘If it’s the truth, it’s not bragging.’

I am 100% tell the truth in my blogs plus a bit of bragging too!

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ShenanAgain in the Philippines!

There’s something peculiar about living in the Philippines, and the word I keep coming back to is shenanigans. Not because anything is outright dishonest—far from it—but because so many everyday experiences carry a subtle sense that things aren’t unfolding quite the way you expect, and ignorance is bliss.

It’s hard to explain at first. Nothing is necessarily wrong, yet something feels slightly off-script. 

Processes that seem like they should be simple somehow develop extra steps, like ordering, food for example. Instructions shift depending on who you ask and you might get 5 different answers. Timelines stretch, contract, and occasionally disappear altogether. You start to wonder: is this how it’s meant to work, or is everyone just improvising?

Over time, you begin to realize that what feels like inconsistency is actually a different kind of rhythm. Life here often runs less on rigid systems and more on flexibility, relationships, and quiet negotiation. There’s an unspoken understanding that not everything needs to be exact to still work. “Close enough” is often exactly enough.

Communication, too, plays its part. Direct answers can be rare, replaced instead with softer, more indirect responses. A firm “no” may become a “maybe,” and a “maybe” might quietly mean “probably not.” It’s not deception—it’s a cultural preference for harmony over confrontation. But for an outsider, it can add to that lingering sense of uncertainty.

Answers are often relayed through facial gestures:

🙁 Frown means no

🤨 Raised eyebrows could mean yes but, that’s all you see

😗Puckered lips means, look that direction

And yet, beneath the surface, things do work. Not always in the way you expect, and not always on your timeline, but they move forward nonetheless. What initially feels like disorder slowly reveals itself as adaptability—a system shaped not by strict rules, but by people finding ways to make things work despite limitations.

So yes, “shenanigans” is still the word that comes to mind. But it’s not a criticism. It’s more of an observation, even a kind of appreciation. Because once you settle into it, you start to see that this apparent chaos has its own logic—one that values resilience, patience, and a uniquely human way of getting things done.

I’ve always been a people-watcher when I travel, quietly observing the rhythms, habits, and little human moments that unfold in unfamiliar places. And if there’s anywhere that rewards that curiosity, it’s the Philippines. There’s a constant flow of stories playing out in real time—some heartwarming, some baffling, and some that leave you shaking your head in disbelief.

What’s especially fascinating is watching how people’s journeys evolve… or in some cases, unravel. You’ll see confident arrivals slowly give way to confusion, overconfidence turning into costly missteps, and assumptions clashing with reality in ways that are as eye-opening as they are predictable.

One obvious pattern that stands out is how quickly emotion can override judgment. 

There’s a kind of romanticized optimism that takes hold—a belief that this place, or the people they meet here, are somehow different, more genuine, more meaningful than anywhere else. And while the Philippines is undeniably warm and welcoming, that idealized lens can sometimes lead people to ignore the usual caution they’d exercise back home and more importantly, common sense.

It’s not so much about naivety as it is about being caught up in the moment. The environment, the attention, the sense of escape—it all blends into something that feels personal and significant. But from the outside, as an observer, you can often see the disconnect forming long before they do.

And that’s what makes it so compelling to watch. Not in a cynical way, but in a deeply human one. Travel has a way of amplifying who we are—our hopes, our blind spots, our desire to connect. Here in the Philippines, those qualities don’t just show up… they tend to play out in full view.

It’s a reminder that while the setting may change, human nature rarely does. And sometimes, the most interesting journey isn’t the one on the map, but the one unfolding in people’s expectations versus reality.

One of the more uncomfortable things you notice, especially if you spend a lot of time observing people, is how easily perception and reality can drift apart.

You’ll sometimes see older travelers pairing up with much younger women, carrying themselves with a kind of renewed confidence—almost as if they’ve stepped into a different version of their lives. On the surface, it can look like happiness, even reinvention. But from the outside, it often feels more complicated than that.

There’s frequently an unspoken transaction at play. Companionship, attention, and affection on one side; financial support, stability, or opportunity on the other. Neither party is necessarily unaware, but the balance of expectations isn’t always equal. One person may be grounded in practical realities, while the other leans into a more romantic interpretation of what’s happening.

That gap—between what is hoped for and what is actually being offered—can be difficult to watch. Not because connection itself is a bad thing, but because it sometimes rests on assumptions that don’t quite hold up under scrutiny longer term.

It’s less about judging the individuals involved and more about recognizing a pattern that shows up in many places, not just here. Travel, distance, and unfamiliar environments have a way of amplifying desires—for connection, validation, or even a sense of importance. And in that heightened state, it becomes easier to overlook the more pragmatic side of human relationships.

In the end, it’s a reminder that people often see what they want to see, especially when it feels good to believe it. And sometimes, the line between genuine connection and mutual convenience is thinner than either side might admit.

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Summer in the Philippines – why not!?

If you’re anything like me—and most people—you care what others think. It’s human nature. We’re wired to want acceptance, to feel like we belong somewhere and always looking for the perfect moment to get off the hamster wheel of life.

But what happens when you’re chasing that acceptance in the wrong places… from the wrong people or worse yet, let that moment pass?

What if getting to that place—the one where you actually feel contentment—was cheaper than you think? 

I just booked a flight back to Cebu for a month this summer for $600 USD return on Singapore Airlines which is amazing!

Sure, I’ll still need to grab a commuter flight, but the heavy lifting is already done. ✈️

What if you could start doing things again that you never thought possible?

Wearing shorts, flip-flops, and a t-shirt every single day.

Choosing from hundreds of stunning islands to visit, each one better than the last.

Finding someone to spend your time with that accepts you the way you are now.

And taking care of your body and mind without breaking the bank sparking your fountain of youth—you can read more about that in my self-care blog by CLICKING HERE.

What if you actually laughed more than you worried again?

Not just once in a while—but every single day.

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Death, overthinking & Limerence!

I have wanted to write some personal background stories since day one of NorthAmericanDarrell.com 

Since this will eventually be an autobiography, I want to start getting a bit personal!

You can read my blog on my “Mockumentary” ambitions:

CLICK HERE for publisher option

CLICK HERE for ChatGPT option

 

“NorthAmericanDarrell – A Mockumentary”

If you could pack up right now and leave…

Where would you go?

I was introduced to death younger than most people!

Dad; Suicide

Sister and her Son (nephew); Fire

My only Brother; Car accident

All of this happened at a young age while I was trying to figure out life!

I rarely admit it but, death 100% shaped the person that I had become.

I admittedly spend too much time looking for perfection due to loss!

“Paralysis by analysis” with no perfect moments!

Ironically, I am infinitely far from perfect myself!

Deaf in one ear, blind in one eye, broken trap door physically. Capable of being an train wreck emotionally with sprinkling of general anxiety disorder.

Overthinking everything and an inability to commit!

One term I came across was Limerence. 

The more I read about it, the more a few things in my life started making a lot more sense on how my mind is wired on relationships.

When I meet someone, I almost immediately start planning the future!

I put the cart so far ahead of the horse, so quickly, it is ridiculous!

I have tried therapy; I always felt like I was the second craziest one in the room with them all wanting me to dig up my extremely painful my past.

Honestly, I tried their recommendations and its not going to happen.

Too long ago, too much pain and it needs to stay under the rug.

My ‘workaround’ is doing my best to take care of myself physically and financially which often takes care of the emotional part.

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Philippines – Health gimmicks!💸

Spending time in the Philippines is kind of like living in the Twilight Zone, as nothing really makes sense.

Young, beautiful women prefer older men with their money and security, while some of the best-looking “women” are transgender, which can make for horrible drinking games!

Trying health gimmicks to stay feeling younger is a big part of life as we age. There is no better place to do it than here in the Philippines, where prices are lower. 

I have already blogged about my first experiences; you can CLICK HERE to read it

I keep finding more inspiration through our local crew!

This is Matthew, a local expat I see most mornings at our neighborhood coffee shop.

For the longest time, we never really talked. But he’s one of those guys you notice right away. The kind of person who quietly owns the room with confidence without even trying.

Once we finally started chatting, I realized he’s also one of the most impressive people I’ve met here.

Matthew is 15 years older than me, a cancer survivor, and I’m pretty sure he could knock me on my ass in just about any athletic competition… except maybe a drinking game.

He plays pickleball several times a week and recently introduced me to a place called Summit Recovery, a wellness and recovery spot I hadn’t heard about before.

It is just like my LTF gym/spa routine at home in AZ, and now I’m intrigued.

Matthew goes there every weekday at noon for something called contrast therapy, and I’m hoping to start joining him—not just for the recovery benefits, but also for the chance to sit around and talk about life.

What Is Contrast Therapy?

Contrast therapy alternates between heat and extreme cold to stimulate circulation and recovery.

At Summit Recovery, that means moving between:

🔥 Sauna

♨️ Hot tub

🧊 Ice-cold plunge

💆 Massage

🦵 Compression recovery boots

The rapid switch between hot and cold creates a powerful change in blood flow, which helps:

Flush out toxins

Reduce muscle soreness

Increase circulation

Improve joint mobility

Speed up recovery time

It’s one of the most popular recovery methods used by athletes and wellness enthusiasts, and apparently also a tough expat hanging around my local coffee shop in Cebu, Philippines.

Honestly, if it helps me keep up with Matthew… I’m in.

I guess you could say I’ve tried just about every wellness gimmick in town.

The funny thing is, when you’re living here, experimenting is part of the fun. Almost every treatment, class, or recovery therapy costs a fraction of what it would back home.

So why not give it a shot?

Some things turn out to be incredible. Others… well… make for a funny blog later as there is one born every minute (sucker) and I look goofy before and after! 🤓

Either way, it’s all part of the adventure of living and trying to stay healthy while traveling. 💪🌴✈️

The RF ultrasonic slimming treatment took about 16 minutes and cost $10 USD per session.

A lifetime worth of chubby cheeks getting some love! 😂

RF ultrasonic cavitation is non-invasive body contouring treatment that combines ultrasound waves to break down fat cells with radio frequency to tighten and firm the skin.

Quick, simple, and another one of those things I figured was worth trying while living here.

But the real standout was the anti-aging package below.

For just $12 (4 pack price), you get a 90-minute session, which is pretty incredible when you consider what similar treatments cost back home. Ninety minutes of cream, masks, and steam are designed to help an old man’s skin recharge.

At these prices, it’s hard not to keep experimenting with all the wellness options around town.

Plus, I get to pretend that I am taking great care of myself all the time!

I just tested these three treatments as I try to keep up with my local hero, Matthew.

Honestly, I never would have imagined myself trying things like this back home. But when the prices are this affordable, it’s hard not to get curious.

At these prices… I will keep trying! 

If our beautiful Filipinas do their best to look great, it is the least I can do to try to put lipstick on a pig!  😂

Worst case, it makes for a great travel story for a few bucks!

Best case, I might actually feel comfortable in the same room as Matthew. 💪😄

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Philippines visa renewal-Bohol Island!

I have always been a big believer in strict immigration and visa processes. Countries have every right to control who enters and how long they stay.

If you’re curious about my own experience going through the United States immigration system, you can read about it in my blog by CLICKING HERE.

Because of that experience, I’ve developed a real appreciation for countries that take immigration enforcement seriously.

During my trip to the Philippines early in 2026, I took a quick 36-hour island hop from Cebu to Bohol. If you’d like to read about that short adventure, you can check out the full story by CLICKING HERE.

But the real cherry on top of an already amazing trip was how smoothly I was able to renew my tourist visa.

Sometimes, the smallest victories while traveling end up being the most satisfying.

The Panglao regional immigration office is just a short tuk-tuk ride from Alona Beach, where I was staying. Once I submitted my application, the entire process took about 30 minutes.

Quick, simple, and painless.

The only issue turned out to be my own math skills, as my visa expires two days before I leave the country on April 15, 2026

I had taken a quick trip to Hong Kong for my 54th birthday, returning to the Philippines on February 12th for my first renewal. Since the first actual visa renewal is only 29 days, I apparently miscalculated somewhere along the way.

Let’s just say I’ve been taking some friendly abuse for not being able to count properly.

The good news is my options are all perfectly fine… they just could have been avoided.

Option 1:
Take another quick trip out of the country—Vietnam, Hong Kong, Thailand, Japan, etc. When you re-enter the Philippines, you automatically receive another 30-day visa on arrival.

Option 2:
Extend the visa for 60 days, which costs about $200 USD.

Option 3:
Do absolutely nothing and risk paying the overstay fine at the airport, which is only about $20 USD per day… though that does mean rolling the dice with immigration.

None of these options is a disaster, but a little better math on my part would have saved me the decision.

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Panglao, Philippines – Alona Beach!

I spent about 36-hours on the island of Bohol to get away from the city on March 11th, 2026.  It was my second time here, as I spent a few days there in 2024, which you can read about by CLICKING HERE.

Sometimes when you return to a place you loved, it doesn’t quite live up to the memory. But this time, the opposite happened.

As soon as I arrived back at Alona Beach, I remembered exactly why it stood out to me the first time.

The beach has that perfect mix of clear turquoise water, soft white sand, and a relaxed island vibe that makes it incredibly easy to slow down and just enjoy being there.

And within minutes of walking along the shoreline, it all came back to me.

I stayed at the very modest Alona Guest House, paying about $18 USD a night.

It was exactly what I always look for when I’m island hopping: clean, comfortable, and inexpensive.
Honestly, when I’m traveling like this, the room is just a place to sleep and shower. I’m rarely there long enough to need anything fancy.

But during the day, I found a great way to upgrade the experience.

Just down the beach is the beautiful Henann Resort Alona Beach, which offers day passes for around $25 USD.

For that price, you can spend the day enjoying the resort — and it’s pretty incredible.

Most of my time there was spent in the pool, relaxing on a lounge chair, and floating over to the swim-up bar. It felt like a luxury vacation… without the luxury hotel price.

The day pass also included an excellent buffet, which made the deal even better.

If you prefer the full resort experience, rooms start around $200 USD per night.

But for me, this was the perfect travel hack: budget room + luxury resort day pass.

And I have to say — it’s one of the nicest resorts I’ve ever experienced in my life. 🌴🍹

I also treated myself to an amazing surf-and-turf beach dinner right along Alona Beach.

Fresh seafood, steak, the sound of the waves, and a warm tropical evening — it’s hard to beat that combination.

Add in a few rum and Cokes, and the whole experience came to about $40 USD.

For a beachfront dinner like that, in a place this beautiful, it felt like an incredible deal.

Moments like that are exactly why quick island escapes like this are so worth it. 🌴🍹

Before wrapping up my short—but incredibly sweet—trip, I also took care of renewing my stay in the country for another 29 days. From what I’ve experienced so far, the process seems much easier on the smaller islands, and after this visit, I’d have to agree. Everything felt a little more relaxed and straightforward than dealing with the same process in a large city.

If you’re curious about how the process works, you can read more about renewing a visa in the Philippines—along with a few lessons I learned along the way in my blog—by CLICKING HERE.

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Hikari drip – anti aging IV treatment! 💪🏻

When I turned 54 on February 10, 2026, I started taking advantage of the affordable personal care treatments offered in the Philippines. One of my favorites is a weekly anti-aging IV drip, administered by a nurse and costing about $30 USD per session.

The Hikari drip IV offers a range of benefits, including skin lightening, anti-aging effects, and immune system support, primarily due to its high concentration of glutathione and other antioxidants.

Key Benefits of Hikari Drip:

Skin Lightening and Brightening:
The Hikari drip is known for its skin-lightening properties, primarily due to glutathione, which inhibits melanin production. This can lead to a brighter and more even skin tone, reducing hyperpigmentation and dark spots.

Anti-Aging Properties:
The formulation includes ingredients like Vitamin C and collagen, which are essential for maintaining skin elasticity and firmness. These components help reduce the appearance of fine lines and wrinkles, promoting a youthful complexion.

Immune System Support:
The antioxidants present in the Hikari drip, such as glutathione and Vitamin C, play a crucial role in boosting the immune system. They help neutralize free radicals, which can damage cells and lead to various health issues.

Detoxification:
Glutathione is often referred to as the “master antioxidant” and is vital for detoxifying the body. It aids in liver function and helps eliminate harmful substances, contributing to overall health and wellness.

Rapid Absorption:
Administered intravenously, the Hikari drip allows for 100% absorption of nutrients directly into the bloodstream, bypassing the digestive system. This ensures that the body receives the maximum benefits of the ingredients quickly and effectively.

Conclusion
The Hikari drip is marketed as a comprehensive beauty and wellness treatment, combining skin-enhancing and health-promoting properties. While many users report positive results, it is essential to consult with a healthcare professional before starting any new treatment, especially intravenous therapies, to ensure safety and appropriateness for individual health needs.

There are potential side effects to consider:

Heart problems, kidney problems, and liver damage
Hikari Premium side effects:

The Hikari Premium Japan Glutathione supplement has been associated with several side effects, including heart problems, kidney problems, and liver damage. 

These serious side effects highlight the potential risks of using glutathione supplements, especially when taken in high doses or without proper medical supervision. 

It is crucial to be aware of these risks and to consult with a healthcare provider before using any glutathione supplement.

I’m not sure if it’s simply a placebo effect, but each time the drip finishes I seem to feel better. I’ll continue to monitor for any potential side effects with my doctor and move forward carefully.

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Dating in the Philippines – who’s your daddy?!

Many older men come to Southeast Asia looking for love after relationships back home didn’t work out.

Every story is different—and to be fair, plenty of those past relationship failures involve mistakes on the men’s side as well. The bottom line is that they are not together anymore and are happier!

As a single man who has never been married and has no kids, it’s fair to say I’ve often been the common denominator in relationships that didn’t work out.

This blog is written from a man’s perspective and life experiences.

So, buckle up, if you’re a fragile liberal buttercup!

Life here in the Philippines is simply different. People tend to value the essentials more—health, family, loyalty, time together, and making the most of what you have, as there are often very few material items.

And that alone can create a completely different world of expectations.

Most of my closest friends and family married their high school sweethearts, which is so awesome.

They started from the ground floor together—figuring life out as they went, building careers, homes, and raising great families along the way. Almost all of them are still together, too!

Sometimes they make tongue-in-cheek comments about how my life turned out. In many ways, they can’t relate.

“How can you live without kids?”
“You need to get laid more.”
“No one wants to live a life like you.”
“You need to adapt to her needs.”

Some of it is joking, some of it is probably fair criticism.

But they’ve shared one life path. Through the ups and downs, there’s never been much background noise—just the two of them building a life around one lifetime lover.

And sometimes I wonder… is that happiness, contentment, settling, or a little of each?

I feel it may also be a bit of ignorance of never knowing a different path like mine.

When people ask why things worked out that way for me.

Even though I am not Religious, I say it was “God’s Plan”.

That takes a bit of heat off an uncomfortable truth.

I would have been divorced three times, and, thankfully, marriage was not forced!

That is why, most days, I am thankful for how my life worked out so far …

 

Dating in the Philippines, it is a whole new life adventure.

A lot of guys have had luck dating on Tinder, so why not right, RIGHT?!  

I literally have matched with the majority of the local Tinder population, and at the time of this post, I have over a hundred likes and tons of messages to sift through after a couple of weeks.

Tinder people on these dating sites all have different objectives.

Personally, I’m just looking for a genuine connection with someone I can move forward with during my time in the Philippines and hopefully beyond.

The challenge is sorting through everything else. A good portion of profiles turn out to be transgender, others are clearly working as prostitutes, and a fair number are just plain scammers or people with very different intentions.

That leaves a smaller percentage of people who are actually looking for the same thing I am.

I’ve also been contacted by more than a few absolute weirdos along the way. At one point, I even added a line to my profile trying to filter them out…

I am ONLY interested in WOMEN! NO TRANS or Lady Boys!

That idea didn’t 100% work, so I’m switching tactics.

Business cards.

Used-car-salesman style!

“Now available: **1972 Cadillac—low mileage, classic model, surprisingly well maintained.” 😂

If someone catches my eye, hand them a card—or if you notice them first, just ask if they’re single… and, you know, not packing a surprise. 😲

Honestly, it’s kind of nice for us older guys to get the kind of attention we’d probably never get back home.

If these business cards still do not make sense, watch the videos above and skim my Tinder profile again—you’ll comprehend that it can be tough out there.

I am just a shy guy wanting to get a conversation started and knowing what is under the hood!

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Siagaro, Philippines Island!🏝️

I took a four-day road trip to Siargao, one of the nicest islands in the Philippines. 

It was a $60 40-minute round trip flight from Cebu on a Dash-8 twin-prop plane.

The Dash 8 is primarily manufactured by De Havilland Canada, which introduced the aircraft in 1984. I had a chuckle, Canada’s chance to take me out!

It had been a while since I last flew on a propeller aircraft.

There’s something about seeing those spinning blades just outside the window that always makes the journey feel a little more adventurous, bumpy, and a little more vulnerable, thinking of the blades stopping mid-flight.

As soon as I landed in Siargao, the island rhythm kicked in. Vans were already lined up outside the airport, ready to scatter arriving travelers to different corners of paradise. 

I hopped into one bound for General Luna — the island’s lively heart — about a 40-minute ride that cost 300 Philippine pesos (roughly $6 USD).

General Luna pulses with youthful energy. It’s where sun-kissed days roll seamlessly into electric nights — famous for its powdery beaches, world-class surf breaks, and a nightlife scene that keeps the music going long after sunset. 

If you’re chasing that perfect mix of ocean adventure and social buzz, this is where Siargao truly comes alive.

I spent the day wandering up and down the main strip of General Luna, soaking in the surf shops, beach bars, and cafés buzzing with energy. Before long, it became clear that this pocket of Siargao thrives on youthful momentum — backpackers swapping stories, surfers chasing the next swell, and groups gearing up for another lively night out. All young, all good looking – square peg! 🤏🏻

Alright, that’s it… I’m outta here – damn kids, get off my island! 🏝️😂

By evening, I knew I was craving a slower rhythm. The next morning, I arranged for a tuk-tuk to take me north toward the quieter stretch of Tropico — ready to trade neon lights and party playlists for palm trees, open roads, and a more tranquil side of island life.

The contrast was immediate. Where General Luna buzzed with energy, Tropico felt almost suspended in time — so quiet it bordered on surreal. The roads were emptier, the shoreline more untouched, and the only soundtrack was wind through palm trees and waves folding onto the sand.

I settled into an old farmhouse that had been thoughtfully converted into an Airbnb, blending rustic charm with breezy coastal comfort. Weathered wood, wide-open windows, and uninterrupted ocean views made it feel both simple and luxurious. It was, without a doubt, one of the most beautiful beach Airbnbs I’ve ever stayed in — the kind of place that makes you slow down, breathe deeper, and forget what day it is.

After spending 24 blissful hours doing absolutely nothing but soaking up tropical paradise, I made my way back to General Luna for one final island day.

Wanting to see a different side of the area, I hired a tuk-tuk driver for a couple of hours and set off on a laid-back tour beyond the usual stops. We discovered quiet stretches of coastline untouched by the crowds — hidden pockets of sand and sea that felt like a private hidden escapes that only the locals enjoy.

Honestly, I’m not sure how anyone ranks one beach over another here. Each one felt like a perfect 10 — powdery sand, swaying palms, and water in every shade of blue imaginable. 🌊🌴

Thank you, General Luna, and Tropico Siargao — for the sun-soaked mornings, the slow island afternoons, and the kind of beauty that lingers long after you leave.

This little corner of paradise has left its mark on me, and I already know this isn’t goodbye — it’s simply see you again. I’ll be back to wander your palm-lined roads and explore more of your breathtaking island soon. 🌴✨

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Feeling young again on the cheap!

Since landing in the Philippines on January 23, 2026, I’ve accidentally (and thankfully) fallen into an elite squad of EXPAT legends.

You know the type.

The “I know a guy” guys.
Need a visa tip? They know a guy.
Need a mechanic? They know a guy.
Need a couch, a lawyer, a dentist, or someone to explain why your WiFi is emotionally unstable? They know a guy.

There’s a group chat with nearly 100 people in it — and whatever you need, someone responds within minutes.

¿The admin Julio?
All-knowing.
All-seeing.
Probably asleep but still somehow replying.

Some of the best referrals have come from the crew — especially on the Men’s Health front. A little “base maintenance” to keep the engine tuned and the warranty extended.

Let’s just say the group believes in aging… strategically. 💃🏻

And of course, it’s not all responsible adulting.

There’s a healthy (and by healthy, I mean questionable) dose of shenanigans mixed in.🥳

Because what’s the point of building a support network if you’re not also building stories, you probably shouldn’t put in writing?

Support.
Referrals.
Cardio.
Maintenance.
Mild chaos.

Honestly, it’s the perfect balance of everything!

If it flies, f#cks, or floats… chances are, it can be found or fixed in our chat.

Need advice, a hookup, or just a kick in the right direction? Someone’s got you covered.

Seriously, whatever you need to get back on track — whether it’s wings, wings of another kind, or literally floating on a boat — the crew has it.

It’s like a Swiss Army knife… but with more sarcasm and less risk of cutting yourself.

I am also considering NRD and even stem therapy down the road if needed.

Here are the potential benefits and links for each treatment:

NAD+ and resveratrol work synergistically to support cellular energy, DNA repair, and longevity by activating sirtuins and enhancing metabolic function. ~$250 per does but cheaper buying bulk.

Nicotinamide Adenine Dinucleotide (NAD+) is a vital coenzyme essential for energy production, DNA repair, and cellular metabolism. According to Dr. David Sinclair of Harvard Medical School, NAD+ levels drop by over 50% by age 50, leading to fatigue, metabolic decline, and cellular dysfunction—restoring NAD+ through therapy counteracts these effects for natural rejuvenation.

Boosts Energy and Mental Clarity

RejuvaNAD+ helps restore NAD+ levels, promoting increased energy, sharper focus, and enhanced memory.

Promotes Cellular Health and Longevity

With RejuvaNAD+, you can support cellular repair and regeneration, helping to slow down the aging process and maintain a youthful appearance.

Accelerates Physical Recovery

Whether from exercise or daily wear and tear, RejuvaNAD+ aids in faster recovery and reduced downtime.

 

Stem cell therapy in the Philippines $3,750 per treatment

Overview of Stem Cell Therapy
Stem cell therapy, also known as regenerative medicine, leverages the unique ability of stem cells to self-renew and differentiate into various cell types such as blood, muscle, or nerve cells. These cells can be autologous (from the patient) or allogeneic (from a donor), and they are often manipulated in a laboratory to specialize into the type of cells needed for treatment. Once prepared, the cells are introduced into the body through injection, intravenous infusion, or local delivery to the affected area.

With all this newfound energy, I decided to channel it …

I signed up for boxing lessons.

Cardio? Yes.
Anger Management Therapy? Also, yes.
Cost? A very reasonable $8 a session.

Now, does it look graceful?
Absolutely not.

Does it look goofy and uncoordinated?
Absolutely

But there is something deeply satisfying about throwing a punch and hearing that thwack echo back at you like,

“Yep. That one landed.”

It may not look like a highlight reel from Floyd Mayweather Jr.…

But landing a combination feels incredible.

As always. It is a work in progress, so far, I feel so much better.

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Being North American Darrell

Trying to choose allegiance to just one country has always been tough for me—which is why I call myself North American Darrell.

I was born in Canada, live in the United States, and I also have a studio vacation studio in Rocky Point, Mexico since 2017.  In four short hours, I can be “home” in Mexico from my Mesa, Arizona home base.

After bouncing between places for so long and traveling the world, I stopped thinking of identity as a single flag and started seeing it as a mix of experiences. 

When I travel and people ask where I’m from, I usually say Canada—which is true. It also tends to keep things simple and keeps conversations focused on travel instead of politics. Because let’s be honest: once politics enters the chat, the vibe changes fast no matter where you are in the world when Trump is involved.

Over time, I’ve learned something important about traveling internationally: people don’t actually care where you’re from nearly as much as they care how you show up. Kindness, curiosity, and respect travel a lot better than passports do.

So, these days, I stick with what works:
I’m North America Darrell
I travel often.
And I try to leave places better than I found them.

It just avoids a lot of unneeded drama!

The bottom line, I’m proud to be American now and that should be okay as I love Canada and Mexico too!  I have also fallen in love with many other Countries and would move to them all if I could.

I’ve spent more of my life in the United States than anywhere else. Life has a way of planting roots where you least expect it, and over time those roots start to feel just as real as the ones you were born with.

The complicated part has always been sports—especially when it comes to Team Canada.

Ever since I was a kid, whenever Team Canada played, it didn’t matter what sport it was—I was watching. Hockey, Olympics, world events… it was never just a game. It was identity, history, pride, and memory all wrapped into one jersey.

That’s why reactions can run so deep when politics are front and center!

When you grow up seeing certain athletes as symbols of your country, they stop feeling like individuals and start feeling like shared cultural property. 

Take Wayne Gretzky for example—arguably the greatest hockey player of all time. To many Canadians, he wasn’t just a player; he was part of the national story.

And when someone represents something bigger than themselves for long enough, people don’t just admire them—they feel connected to them. Maybe even a little possessive or in this case, extremely possessive.

The truth is that identity isn’t a single flag. It’s a collection of influences, loyalties, and experiences layered over time.

Wayne Gretzky was a great Canadian but also, a great American!

He reshaped the NHL expansion and American grass roots hockey like no one else!

Wayne Gretzky was once the biggest name in Team Canada hockey. He wasn’t just a player—he was part of the country’s identity. He played, he coached, and he later served as a general manager in some of the most important tournaments in hockey Canada history. For many Canadians, he wasn’t just great.

He was Canadian!

Everything changed on August 9, 1988. I was 16 years old.

That was the day the illusion cracked—the day sports stopped being just a game and started teaching me something about loyalty, identity, and how quickly being Canadian can become complicated.

Some moments in sports history don’t just affect teams.
They stick with you personally, like a timestamp on your own life.

That was one of them as it was the day hockey changed forever in America!

Little did I know, I would experience the same change, just like another Canadian legend! 😂

Some people were disappointed and even angry when I moved on from Canada.

At one point, friends even joked—half seriously, extremely angry—that I wasn’t allowed to cheer for Team Canada anymore. I too had betrayed Canada in their extremely warped perception!

Apparently, there are rules about loyalty that nobody tells you until you break them.

It felt strangely similar to how some people reacted to Wayne Gretzky after his turning point. 

Not because the situations were the same, but because the emotion behind them were. When someone you associate with a place makes a different choice, it can feel personal—even if it isn’t.

Again, Canadians are angry, and it will get worse as it not “our game anymore” angle resurfaces after losing to the United States in the 2026 Olympics in Mens and Women’s hockey.  Both games could have easily gone either way as it is a game of inches.

Trust me when I say, it hurts me more than anyone, I have to hear it every day from Americans who do not understand hockey.

You can read my immigration journey by CLICKING HERE.

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Cebu, Philippines – EXPAT home!?

Trying to find a place to stay longer term is a challenge, to say the least. I realize more and more that I will have to settle, as nowhere is perfect. 

I moved into a new area of town in Cebu today to change it up.  The condo complex and area I stayed in the first time I visited and again for the last month had become mundane.

I needed a new routine and found it in my new pad, as it is in a different part of the city.

It is also a much nicer studio, and the building has a gym and a nicer pool as well.  Plus, it is right across the street from a great mall.

I really think I am onto something longer term here!

🤔

I know I have said it before and I always “jump around”, but, 

I am really feeling good about settling here and started making plans.

How amazing does that gym and pool look?  It is super amazing!!

I may have finally found My Seasonal Home Base in paradise?!

Why Cebu is a perfect January–April Anchor for me!

After years of traveling, testing cities, chasing “maybe this is the one,” I’ve finally started to comprehend something: Cebu is my place — at least from January through the end of April.

And that realization feels like a massive win.

I just extended my lease through April 15th, 2026 — making it almost a three-month stay.

I’ve also booked the same condo for January–April 2027 four month stay.

That’s not a trial run anymore. That’s commitment.

And honestly? It feels right.

🌴 Why Cebu and the Philippines Work for me:

📍 Cebu City is English-speaking
💰 $450/month rent
🏙️ Amazing studio in a great area
🌞 Perfect January–April cool weather window

For $450 a month, I get a clean, modern studio in a lively, walkable area. Good infrastructure. Solid WiFi. Cafés. Gyms. Grab rides. Amazing inexpensive bars and restaurants. 

Everything I actually use is walking distance.

It’s also affordable without feeling like I’m sacrificing quality of life.

And more importantly, it feels stable.

That word matters more than I ever expected.

After years of constant movement, having a place I can return to — the same unit, same neighborhood, same rhythm — changes everything psychologically.

Cebu isn’t just cheap.

It’s comfortable.


🇵🇭 A Launchpad to 200+ Islands

One of the biggest advantages of Cebu is its positioning within the Philippines.

From Cebu, I can take a $30 one-way flight, ferry, or bus to places like:

Panglao

Siquijor

El Nido

Coron

Bohol

There are over 200 habitable tropical islands in this country.

That means unlimited inexpensive road trips and island escapes — without giving up my base.

The difference now?

I’m not traveling to escape.

I’m traveling from home.

And then I come back.


✈️ Asia Is Still Within Reach

Cebu also puts me within striking distance of the rest of Asia.

For roughly $100+ one-way, I can be in:

Bangkok

Hanoi

Hong Kong

Kuala Lumpur

Bali

Tokyo

The key realization is this:

I loved those places.

I still love those places.

But I don’t need to live in all of them.

I can visit — and return to Cebu.

That subtle shift feels powerful.


The Real Win: A Seasonal Operating System

This isn’t just about rent or flights.

It’s about designing a year-round life rhythm.

May-December: Mesa, AZ / Rocky Point, Mexico

utilizing my AYCF (all you can fly) passes on Volaris and Frontier Airlines.

 

January–April: Cebu with road trips:

Warm weather.

Lower cost of living.

Living like a local.

Short adventure bursts when I want/need them.

Instead of constantly searching for “the perfect place,” I now have:

A predictable seasonal anchor

Lower decision fatigue

A familiar environment

The ability to build momentum year after year

Booking 2026 and 2027 isn’t just logistics.

It’s confidence.

After all the experimenting, all the flights, all the temporary apartments — I finally found a place that checks the boxes without draining me.

And at $450 a month?

That’s leverage.

Cebu isn’t just another stop.

It’s home — at least for this chapter of the year.

And that feels like a massive win.

Another major win in the Philippines is the personal care aspect.  

I can get inexpensive over-the-counter care for minor issues and lean on my travel insurance for anything serious.

I have also found that weekly self-care is so important. The cost is affordable enough to have each of the following done at least once a week and more often if needed. ➡️ 🧓🏻

Massages 

Spa time (Tokyo example below)

Face masks help the old man’s skin

Fat-burning shots

Vitamin IV to replenish the immune system

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Hong Kong #Freedom54 birthday fun!

Getting to Hong Kong during this adventure was incredible. I honestly didn’t know what to expect—I assumed it might feel like Tokyo—but it turned out to be completely different.

Hong Kong has its own rhythm, its own intensity, its own personality. In some ways, it felt like a glimpse into what visiting mainland China might be like, just with its own unique twist of skyline, density, and nonstop motion.

One thing there definitely wasn’t a shortage of? Anime.

It was everywhere—shops, ads, displays—so naturally, I joined in on the action.

When a city leans into its vibe that hard, the only correct move is to lean with it.

That reel honestly felt pretty accurate—you really do have to compete for every square inch when there are that many people everywhere.

Even though it was crowded, it was still an unforgettable place to celebrate #Freedom54.

The energy, the motion, the sheer intensity of it all—it’s the kind of place that overwhelms you and impresses you at the same time.

Not peaceful.

Not quiet.

But it was an absolutely memorable once-in-a-lifetime experience.

The number of people in Hong Kong was high, and the overload was everywhere I went.  The current population in 2026 is 7,378,602, according to Google. 

With these 7.3 million residents in a 1,114-square-kilometre (430 sq. mi) territory, Hong Kong is the fourth-most densely populated region in the world behind Macau (a gambling Island off HK), Singapore, and Monaco.

One of the most surprising things for me was the outlying islands.  I took the ferry from mainland Hong Kong to Hong Kong Island, which is even bigger and has more people.

It was an incredible visit—but I don’t feel the need to go back.

It’s one of those places that’s undeniably impressive, worth seeing, and packed with energy… but also a little too crowded.

It was the kind of destination you’re glad you experienced once, soaked in fully, and can now appreciate from a distance.

Some places become favorites.
Others become great memories.

This one’s a great memory.

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Birthdays – getting older is tough!

The number goes up, but at least the stories keep getting better.

This absolute GEM still makes me laugh, mostly because… not much has changed.

February is peak season in Arizona, so my Airbnb is rented every year. 

Translation: I’m forced to travel. 🥳

As a result, I’ve spent the last few birthdays in some pretty incredible places—and this year is no exception.

(Thailand, Vietnam, Cambodia)

This year’s birthday destination? 

Hong Kong.
3 days, 2 nights; $225 USD RT flight, $50 a night pad!!

Aging is inevitable.
Dropping new pins is optional—but highly recommended around here!

🙌🏻📍🌍

Booking flights is like playing chess while most people are still playing checkers.

To bounce between Cebu and Hong Kong, I booked three one-way tickets instead of a single round-trip—and the math worked in my favor:

Cebu → Manila: $20

Manila → Hong Kong: $70

Hong Kong → Cebu: $135

Not glamorous. Not obvious to most.
But flexible, intentional, and cheaper than forcing a “normal” itinerary.

That’s the game:
Stop thinking in straight lines and start thinking strategically.

I tried to pick a destination that was actually high on my bucket list, and Hong Kong landed exactly where it should, near the top!

Bonus: it doubles as a visa run, since I have to leave the Philippines every 30 days. Inexpensive, efficient, and exciting—my favorite combo.

Winner winner—Peking chicken dinner. 🍗 🥢

Honestly, it’s been a pretty solid run so far, and I still have two more months to explore on this adventure.

Not bad for someone who claims to be grumpy and bored all the time.

01/15Tokyo, Japan

01/23Cebu, Philippines

02/10Hong Kong

02/19Siquijor, Philippines

02/29Siargao, Philippines

03/07 – Cebu lease expires → TBD

04/15- home to Mesa, AZ
 

Possible next moves before 04/15 (because why not):
Stay in Cebu, Seoul, Phuket, Bali, Da Nang… 

We’ll see where boredom strikes next!

I really shouldn’t complain—this trip has been incredible so far.

Now, excuse me while I yell at the clouds due to my missed meds! 😂

Welcome to #Freedom54! 🥳

And … Get off my lawn, damn kids! 

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02/01/2024 – Mandatory meeting!👋🏻

Today, February 1st, 2026, marks two years that I have been “taking a run at retirement”.  I refer to it that way, as I am not sure how it will all work out. 

So far, so good, as I blog from Cebu, Philippines.

Three weeks after completing my 7th year with PayPal, I got a “mandatory meeting invite” on February 1st, 2024.

This was the second time; my career was also abruptly cut short after 18-years with Northern Telecom/Nortel/Ericsson.  

Hindsight is always 20/20; both situations worked out for the best long term. 25 years was enough for me, and it was time to take a run at retirement!  

All those years of hard work, strategizing, overthinking, and so many mistakes!

The travel dream was finally coming to fruition.

Aside from finances, which I blogged about HERE, health insurance is one of the biggest drivers for early retirement. 

I found a great setup through trial and error for insurance, as I also blogged about HERE.

Again, so far so good! 🤞🏻

Soon after getting laid off, I started planning NorthAmericanDarrell.com, and my YouTube channel, which you can check out by clicking HERE.  Please consider following my channel!

I had always wanted to share my past, present, and future travel experiences. 

A solo traveler, vlogger, YouTuber, Geoarbitrage with a dry sense of humor.

“Freedom 50” turned into a “Freedom 55” after the COVID market correction, and ultimately “Freedom 52” traveling lifestyle.

Just another example, life cannot always be planned.

“Freedom 54” is just around the corner!

Cheers to another year living the dream! 🙌🏻

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Cebu, Philippines – Moalboal! 🚌

I preach about setting up shop for the long term, building routines, becoming a regular… and then, not long after, I’m on a road trip. 

The contradiction is the sweet spot for me.

The way I see it, as long as your slow-travel home base comes with low rent, everything else stays in bounds. 

Cheap rent makes spontaneity affordable. You’re not “breaking the budget”—you’re spending the surplus your lifestyle was designed to fit my inability to stay put. 

Thanks, Mom!!.

Slow travel for me isn’t always about staying still.

It’s about building a base so light that motion never feels financially irresponsible, paying for two places at once.

Here is a tour of my $450 a month Cebu condo I shared in 2024 during my first visit to the Philippines.

The road trip opportunities are exactly what I envisioned when I returned to the same condo in late January 2026.  

The rent was still $450 a month, and the road-trip opportunities in the area are endless, both within the Philippines and throughout Asia.  

After a few days of arriving, I woke up this morning at three AM with insomnia, hopped on a bus, and three hours later I was in Moalboal, Cebu, drinking beer on beautiful Sandy Beach.

That beats a trip to the bathroom!

The bus trip was under $10 while, while a basic room was less than $25 USD per night.

That low price included a wake-up call! 

🐓📢🛌🏻

The beach was as good as it gets—beer cold as ice and scenery so spectacular it felt illegal. Every direction was a postcard for a travel magazine or an amazing blog for inexpensive travel …

The first road trip worked out perfectly, and I’ve already got three absurdly cheap flights booked for February.

Hong Kong, 9th visa run; $225 ✈️

Dumaguete / Siquijor, 19th; $60 ✈️🚢

Siargao, Philippines, 29th; $60 ✈️

Slow travel, bending the rules while living life to the fullest!

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Cebu, Philippines – It’s HOT!♨️😎

Schawetty 🥎⚾

I talk about “slow travel” all the time, but it’s not just a vibe—it’s a filter. 

The right place has to check a lot of boxes. Otherwise, it’s just a stop, not a home base, and here is what Cebu offers:

Affordability is non-negotiable:

$450 a month for rent

Meals under $5 USD

Movies cost around $5

Cheap road trips:

Uber/Grab/local bus are super inexpensive

Flights around Asia for under $100 (often less)

Ferries to nearby islands for under $20

Convenience matters too:

My Cebu IT Park neighborhood is open 24/7/365.
Meals. Movies. Groceries. Coffee. Everything.

Cebu hits the numbers, life stops feeling like a meter is running.

It’s built for call-center workers who operate around the clock, which means I can live normally at any hour.  

No planning my life around business hours.

That’s the slow-travel sweet spot:

Productive Day One.

One-hour chair massage — $5

Movie ticket — $5

Favorite Korean BBQ – $3

Favorite noodle spot – $2

Old food photos (food was gone, quickly!)

And the big win?

I locked in a long-term, optional lease, giving me the option to settle in the long term.

Slow travel isn’t just about wandering—it’s about setting up a life that checks as many boxes as possible.

Day one delivered.

$5 Hour long seated massage!
$5 Lazy boy movie seating! 🍿
Photo frommy last visit to Cebut!
Photo frommy last visit to Cebut!

It’s been less than two days, so I’m trying to keep my expectations in check—but I’ve already started laying the groundwork for what’s next.

Two road trips are on the board.
Siquijor ferry to rope swing adventure? Locked in.
And Hong Kong for my birthday? Flight booked

That’s the beauty of this place: you settle in, get comfortable, and still leave room for spontaneous trips. 

Home base on one end. Adventure, on the other hand. 

Everything is inexpensive, keeping the options wide open!

$50 one way! Unsure how long iu will stay!!

Living life to the fullest in the Philippines!

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Thank-you Tokyo – I’ll be back! 😎

Tokyo came into my life at exactly the right time.

I spent the first two weeks of 2026 at my pad in Rocky Point, Mexico, and for the first time in a long while, I wasn’t feeling that usual spark to kick off a new year. Instead of forcing it, I moved up my Japan trip by two weeks—and that decision turned out to be perfect.

What I needed wasn’t more beach beers and tacos. 

I needed a reset.

So, I spent seven straight days in the spa at my Airbnb—soaking, sweating, cold plunging, repeating—shaking off some bad vibes from the year before and letting my head catch up with my feet. 

Just peace, and a slow return to my center.

It was exactly what the doctor ordered—but, true to form, once I started feeling better, I also got antsy again.

Tokyo had been absolutely incredible, but it reminded me a lot of Milan, Italy—too many well-dressed, impossibly good-looking people. I feel like a square peg in a very fashionable round hole.

That’s when an opportunity to go back to Cebu, Philippines, dropped into my lap.

So I pivoted. I delayed the Kyoto/Okinawa portion of my trip and booked a $150 flight to Cebu on January 23rd. A week in Tokyo has already been enough to confirm what I suspected—it’s a fantastic place for shorter-term stays.

Even better, a friend offered me ten days of free accommodations in Cebu. Hard to say no to that. 

I’ve already written about why Cebu and why it sits near the top of my list, along with Vietnam, as a potential home base. This just gives me the chance to explore Cebu deeper to see if it is the long-term slow travel answer.

Why the Philippines again?

Because the Philippines is made up of 7,641 islands, and only about 2,000 are inhabited. A few of them already rank among my favorite islands I’ve ever visited.

Japan isn’t going anywhere.
But opportunity knocked—and I answered.

This was the on the other end of the line!  

I will forward all my calls!! 😎

As always, it feels like I’m getting away with something—but it’s really just good planning, a little flexibility, and a sprinkle of earned luck.

The magic isn’t in the price.
It’s in knowing when to move, when to stay, and how to let opportunity do some of the work for you.

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Tokyo nights – hustle, bustle and neon lights!

Neon Light Area – Tokyo

Tokyo’s neon-soaked Shinjuku district is the city’s beating heart of entertainment. Packed with glowing signs, towering billboards, and vibrant street scenes. It feels like stepping straight into a Bruce Lee movie!

The areas around Shinjuku Station and Kabukicho are especially famous, where every block is drenched in color and motion. These streets aren’t just visually striking—they’re a living expression of Tokyo’s nightlife and cultural energy.

Shinjuku isn’t just one of the places to see Tokyo’s neon lights.
It’s the BEST place.

As an admitted wuss (ironically from Canada) who hates the cold, this was the first time I actually went out into the wind and chill on purpose at night.

Totally worth it, but I don’t need to do that again.

The Tokyo Shinjuku entertainment district is on the same train line as my Airbnb, which means I can be dropped straight into neon chaos without overthinking it. One train, five stops, and suddenly I’m surrounded by lights, food, music, with Vegas like street energy.

It took me about 35 minutes station to station on the insane Japan rail system I blogged about HERE.

I arrived a couple of hours before dusk—perfect timing. I grabbed a $3 Starbucks and then followed it up with a massive $10 Hefeweizen, settling in to watch the city shift gears as the neon came to life.

For one of the busiest entertainment districts on the planet, it was surprisingly inexpensive—and the people-watching was next level. Tokyo doesn’t just light up at night; it transforms.

Seeing that progression in real time made the whole place feel alive in a way photos never quite capture.

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Travel investment summary! Bucket strategy!

I have blogged about this in the past. 

Since I constantly get the question, how can you prepare for early retirement, I wanted to get another blog out there for anyone interested. 

Travel conversations with me almost always end up circling back to money management.
Early-retirement conversations always do.

That’s not an accident. If you want to retire early—or even just live differently—you eventually have to talk about your financial reality with someone. And for most people, money is still weirdly taboo. 

That’s why I share mine.

Not to flex. Not to preach. But to give people a reference point. To show that this isn’t magic or luck or some secret society—it’s a series of choices that compound over time. Sometimes that perspective is encouraging. Sometimes it’s frustrating, because the variables aren’t equal:

I’m single

I’m not married

I don’t have to put kids through college

And yes—I’ve heard it all. Those differences are real. They matter. I understand why they changed the math.

But the point isn’t that everyone should copy my path. It’s that a path may actually exist.

 And that the first step toward any version of freedom is being willing to look at the numbers without flinching.

You can’t optimize what you refuse to acknowledge!

Here is the podcast version which can be found on my website www.NorthAmericanDarrell.com

NorthAmericanDarrell Podcast

Episode 8 — The Bucket Strategy

Welcome back to the NorthAmericanDarrell Podcast.

There’s an old saying I’ve always liked…

We buy things we don’t need…

To impress people we don’t like…

With money we don’t have.

[amused] Pretty much sums up a good chunk of society, doesn’t it?

For a while, I was guilty of it too.

But somewhere along the way, I started asking myself a different question.

What if I stopped measuring success by what I owned… and started measuring it by how much of my time I owned?

What would you choose?

A newer car sitting in the driveway?

Or another year where you didn’t have to punch a clock?

There isn’t a right answer.

But my answer changed as I got older.

And that’s where my retirement bucket strategy came in.

People occasionally ask me how I was able to take a run at early retirement after getting laid off at fifty-two.

It wasn’t one brilliant investment.

It definitely wasn’t because I predicted the future.

[laughs] If I could do that, this would be a very different podcast.

It was decades of saving, investing, owning property, making mistakes, recovering from those mistakes—and eventually organizing everything around one simple idea:

I needed enough money in one bucket to get me to the next bucket.

That’s it.

Think about your own situation for a second.

If you wanted to stop working before traditional retirement age…

What would have to pay your bills between your last paycheck and your first retirement check?

That’s the problem I needed to solve.

My circumstances obviously aren’t everybody’s circumstances.

I’m single.

I never married.

I don’t have children or college tuition to worry about.

Apparently, I’ve finally reached my true calling…

[laughs] Crazy Uncle Darrell.

Those things absolutely changed my financial equation.

But I’m not suggesting anyone copy my life.

I’m suggesting you look at your equation.

Maybe you have a pension.

Maybe you have a 401(k).

Maybe it’s an RRSP in Canada.

Maybe you own a house with a lot of equity.

Maybe you have rental income.

Maybe you’re starting later than you’d like.

The question isn’t:

“Can I do what Darrell did?”

The better question is:

“What could I do with what I have?”

That’s where buckets helped me.

My First Bucket — The Bridge

My first bucket is basically my bridge between working and traditional retirement.

Money from selling properties in North Carolina and Georgia eventually became accessible money I could live from without waiting for traditional retirement age.

Originally, I had these separated into two buckets.

Then life happened.

I was laid off at fifty-two—about three years earlier than I had planned.

So the plan changed.

I combined those buckets.

Today, I essentially pay myself a monthly paycheck from that money.

My Airbnb income helps supplement it.

Eventually, selling my Arizona condo could add to it.

And I try—sometimes successfully…

[laughs] sometimes not so successfully

to stay within my budget.

That’s my bridge.

What’s yours?

If you stopped working tomorrow, what income or savings would carry you through the first five or ten years?

And if the answer is “I don’t have one”

That’s useful information too.

Because now you know which bucket needs attention.

My Second Bucket — Retirement Investments

Waiting behind my bridge money are the retirement accounts I contributed to throughout my career.

My American 401(k).

My Canadian RRSP.

Paycheck after paycheck went into those accounts for decades.

And then compound interest did what compound interest does best…

It needed time.

My goal is to leave that money alone for as long as reasonably possible.

Why?

Because every year I can fund my lifestyle without unnecessarily draining those accounts gives them another year to potentially grow.

That’s one reason my current lifestyle matters so much.

Living for less isn’t only about spending less today.

It can also mean leaving tomorrow’s money alone longer.

Would moving somewhere less expensive change your retirement math?

Could downsizing?

Could eliminating a car?

Could renting instead of owning?

Could working one more year make a huge difference?

Or—here’s the question people sometimes forget—

could spending less allow you to work one year less?

That’s geoarbitrage.

And it’s becoming a pretty important part of my experiment.

My Third Bucket — Government Benefits

Then comes another bucket I hope not to touch until much later.

Government retirement benefits from Canada and the United States.

My goal, God willing, is to delay those as long as it makes sense—hopefully somewhere close to sixty-seven.

That gives my earlier buckets a very specific job:

Get Darrell to the next bucket.

[laughs] Preferably without requiring Darrell to get another job.

That’s the whole strategy.

It doesn’t mean I know exactly what my life looks like at sixty-seven.

I don’t.

Maybe I’m living primarily in Southeast Asia.

Maybe I’m still spending part of the year in Arizona.

Maybe I’ll look back at this podcast and laugh at how wrong I was about everything.

That’s okay.

A financial plan shouldn’t be a prison sentence.

It’s a roadmap that you keep updating when life changes.

Mine already has.

So What Are Your Buckets?

This is the part I think matters more than my numbers.

Forget my retirement for a minute.

What does yours look like?

What age would you actually like to stop working?

What would you need every month?

What’s available to you before traditional retirement age?

What’s waiting for you later?

Could something you already own become part of the bridge?

And maybe the biggest question…

How much is enough?

Because eventually I realized I wasn’t trying to become rich.

I was trying to become free.

That’s a very different target.

I also use a professional financial advisor because I don’t pretend to know everything.

I pay a mechanic when my vehicle needs expertise.

I go to a doctor when my body needs expertise.

So I’m comfortable paying someone qualified to help me manage something I’ve spent decades building.

The strategy itself isn’t magic.

And mine certainly isn’t the only version of a bucket strategy.

Search for it. Read about it. Talk to a qualified professional and figure out whether some version makes sense for you.

My buckets aren’t your buckets.

My timeline isn’t your timeline.

And my definition of retirement might not look anything like yours.

But maybe there’s one question worth taking away from this episode:

If your money could buy you more time instead of more stuff… which would you choose?

I know my answer now.

I’m choosing time.

I’m choosing experiences.

I’m choosing travel.

And I’m taking my own run at early retirement.

Will it work exactly the way I planned?

[amused] Ask me when I’m sixty-seven.

Until then…

I’m going to keep adjusting the buckets, watching the budget, and trying to enjoy the years those buckets were designed to give me.

Thanks for listening to the NorthAmericanDarrell Podcast.

Until the next episode…

Live life to the fullest.

  Bucket Saving Method
The bucket saving method is a financial strategy that involves dividing your savings into different “buckets” or categories based on specific financial goals. This method helps you prioritize your savings and allocate them effectively, ensuring you are on track to meet your financial objectives over time. Here’s how to implement the bucket saving method:
Identify Your Goals: Determine what you are saving for, whether it be an emergency fund, a vacation, a new car, or retirement. Each goal will likely have a different time horizon and require a tailored savings approach to achieve it.

Create Separate Buckets: 

For each goal, create a separate bucket or account. This could be a savings account, a CD, or a money market account.

Allocate Funds: 

Allocate a portion of your income to each bucket based on the specific goals. For example, you might direct a larger portion of your savings into a bucket dedicated to buying a home in the next few years, while contributing a smaller amount to a longer-term goal like retirement.

Adjust as Needed: 

As your financial priorities and circumstances change, adjust the allocations in each bucket to align with your evolving goals and needs.

Stay Motivated: 

By categorizing your savings, you can stay motivated and focused on your financial goals.

The bucket saving method is a powerful tool for managing your money and achieving your financial objectives. By organizing your savings into different buckets, you can better track your progress and ensure you have the necessary funds when needed. I have blogged about it in depth; you can read it by clicking HERE.

Interested? There are plenty of videos on YouTube you can access by clicking HERE:

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7-11 An Asian legend! Tokyo version!!🍥🍙

I was first introduced to 7-Eleven in Thailand, and ever since, it’s been a legendary five-star dining experience in my book.

People back home think of 7-11 as a place to buy gas, bad coffee, and regret. 🚽

In Asia? It’s a gourmet convenience store run by wizards. 🪄

Below is today’s lunch while listening to the Oilers game in Tokyo, Japan—$12.11 USD total, hot, fresh, and legitimately amazing. Just fresh local food, handed to you with a smile, and no tip required.

Where else can you eat well, watch hockey, and feel like you’re winning at life… from a convenience store?

Living life to the fullest—one sushi, ramen meal with a cold beer at a time. 🏒🥢

Two Kirin brewskis, ramen, sushi and chicken breast for the win!

They always say, “Don’t eat gas-station sushi.”
That advice was clearly written by someone who has never set foot in an Asian 7-11.

This stuff is better than most sit-down restaurants back home—and at about 25% of the price. Fresh rice, real fish, legit flavors. No price gouging. No regret. 🚽

I may or may not also carry a tube of wasabi in my pocket at all times.
Don’t judge me—you’re the one with tater tots in your cargo pants.

I might be wrong, but if you never tried it, I am guessing it might be you!

Milk and cookies before bed are for Santa.

North American Darrell finishes the night with 7-11 sushi, a cold beer, and the satisfaction of knowing that I absolutely won another travel day for pennies on the dollar.  

Life is good, and 7-11 sushi makes it even better! 😎

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Japanese bathhouse – Tokyo Airbnb

I blogged about my Tokyo accommodations in a blog that you can read by clicking HERE

After just two nights in this Airbnb, I extended for another week—and I may stretch it to three. The deciding factor? An all-male, no-cackling, blissfully quiet Japanese bathhouse spa on the top floor… included in the $25-a-night price.

At that point, it stops being lodging and starts feeling like a life upgrade to feel better.

A hot soak to loosen everything that travel tightens. Cold plunge to wake the soul back up. Sauna room to melt what’s left. Repeat as needed. No chatter, no scrolling—just heat, silence, and reset.

It’s become bookends for my days: explore, wander, eat, blog… then soak it all away before sleep, and having this built into my stay feels absurdly luxurious. It’s not just a spa visit—it’s a lifestyle upgrade.

I was a little concerned about the water filtration at first—but the good news is they do a full deep clean every few days. 

Crystal clear, spotless, and zero sketch factor. 

Grossness thoughts officially averted, kinda!

The routine is downright magical:

Shower 🚿

Hot tub ♨️

Cold plunge 🧊

Sauna 🥵

Repeat 🔁

Finish in the common area, doing absolutely nothing with a cold beer and some tunes. ☺️

It’s simple. It’s quiet. It resets everything—body, mind, shitty attitude.

If I’ve said it once, Mom said it a thousand times:

Live life to the fullest!

Sometimes it means sitting still, realizing you hacked your own happiness.

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Tokyo – Uber vs trains!🚘🚆

Ohtani selling hot dogs in the subway station.

I’m three days into traversing Tokyo, and it’s already become painfully obvious that Japan loves the Dodgers and that Uber and I are not in a long-term financial relationship.  Both are pretty annoying, to be honest!

In general, Tokyo isn’t expensive—it’s just allergic to lazy logistics. Every Uber/taxi ride feels like a polite, impeccably clean mugging. 

The city is basically daring me to learn its transit system, and after a few receipts, you realize it’s not a suggestion. It’s a survival strategy.

This place doesn’t financially reward Uber convenience. 

It rewards commuter train competence.

12.4 KM, 16 minutes for $39 USD
16.3 KM, 26 minutes for $48 USD
2.73 KM, 11 minutes $12.65 USD

The Uber system worldwide is so efficient that it’s borderline daring you to be lazy. You tap, ride, arrive—no drama, no chaos, just silent competence moving millions of people like it’s nothing. Every time I used it in the past, it felt good as the prices are low, but Tokyo is the total opposite.

I’ve taken the train a few times already, and it costs just a few dollars each trip. 🤑 

Suddenly, traveling the city feels infinite instead of expensive.

And then there’s me below in the station, standing in front of the map with a full deer in the headlights stare, trying to decode a web of lines that looks like a beautifully designed stress test. 

Equal parts awe, confusion, and 

“I absolutely need to learn the local transportation system.”

It’s humbling to look lost AF. 

It’s hilarious walking in circles.

But it’s way cheaper pretending I’m good at public transit.

Google Maps is doing the heavy lifting out here. Walking, driving, trains—it doesn’t matter how you move, it just makes you look relatively competent, which is a game-changer for me.

The train feature is the real hero here in Tokyo!

It tracks you in real-time, updates at every stop, and tells you exactly how close you are to your destination. No guessing. No panic. Just a calm little voice saying, “Not yet. Not yet. Okay, now.”

It turns a subway system that looks like abstract art into something you can actually use

All of these local rides are basically training wheels—once I grab my Japan Rail Pass, these short hauls getting to the bullet train become “free” as they are included in the $50 a day pass.

That’s when the country really opens up. Tokyo today, Kyoto tomorrow, Hiroshima the next at high speed—no Uber surge pricing, no second-guessing getting ripped off, just show up at the train station and go.

You can read my full breakdown of how I’m planning on using the Japan Rail Pass blog.

👉🏻 Click HERE to see the potential plan

It’s not just transportation. 

It’s financial leverage keeping me in the Tokyo Grand Theft transportation game!

Another problem, I suck at games too! 😐

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Tokyo pod hotel experience! 🛌🏻

After a brutal two days of travel, I finally landed at my hostel. It was an incredible setup—clean, modern, and exactly the kind of place you hope for after being folded into economy and airport seats for two days.

And then… plot twist.

There was a mix-up with the reservation, which meant I had to move. I was genuinely bummed. You know that fragile, exhausted state you’re in after long-haul travel, when one small inconvenience feels like a personal attack? Yeah. That.

Airbnb came through with a $50 credit, though, which softened the blow. So, I packed up, again, recalibrated, and headed off to a pod hotel in a completely different part of Tokyo.

Because if you’re going to be displaced, you might as well lean into the experience and try something wildly Japanese.

As always, things worked out, and there was no need to worry; you think I would learn, nope!

My new pod hotel turned out to be pretty damn cool. The pod itself is small—because of course it is—, but it’s clean, comfortable, and surprisingly cozy. Exactly what you need after wandering Tokyo all day.

The real magic, though, is upstairs.

There is a full Japanese bathhouse and spa on the top floor, and that alone makes the whole stay worth it.

Hot pool, cold plunge, sauna, quiet—pure reset mode. every. single. day for 14+ days!

Sometimes the stressful detours end up being the upgrade you really needed!

Check out this setup, all for less than $25 USD a night.

Cold plunge, hot tub and seated shower stations.
Sauna to sweat out the Saki and Sapporo!
Seated show stations.
Cold plunge
Common area with bad Japanses TV.

A sauna, hot tub, and cold plunge—plus a chill sitting area with a TV—make it the perfect way to unwind at the end of the night… or to justify an entire day off from galivanting.

Add in the insane selection of local and international restaurants just steps away, and it becomes dangerously easy to convince yourself that this is what balance looks like visiting Tokyo.

Ramen with a rice and tuna bowl with tea.
Piping hot spicy ramen and a local beer.
Amazing 7-11 sushi assortment!

I have only been here a couple of days, and I feel like I have been eating non-stop.  Another great reason I have a spa in my pad for the next week or two.

Eat. Soak,. Repeat.

14+ days!