What are you still doing here?🫵

05/18/2026

by Darrell

My daily routine usually starts with the “Spa time” at Life Time because staying healthy matters more to me now than ever before.

The idea of hobbling around a beach in compression socks and flip-flops after giving up on my health is nightmare fuel.

Watching people completely quit on themselves physically is one of the biggest reminders I have to keep moving.

The gym crowd covers every category imaginable.

There are lots of retired folks like me who hit the gym in the afternoons. A few weeks ago, I met a guy named Nick, and after hearing about my travels, he now asks me the same question every single day:

“What are you still doing here in America?” 😂

He keeps telling me that life is way too short not to do what makes you happy.

The problem is… I honestly don’t know how to answer his question anymore.

Some days, I don’t even know what I’m still doing here either.

Maybe I’m just a little too chickenshit to push all my chips into the middle of the table right now. I get the feeling he wishes he went “all in” a long time ago too and has regrets.

I’m a little crazy but, the world’s insane!

05/15/2026

by Darrell

We all have our own version of crazy.

ChatGPT just happens to make me a little better-looking while I’m doing mine.

I simply throw my crazy out onto the front lawn here at NorthAmericanDarrell.com.

Most people keep theirs hidden under the bed while blowing smoke and pretending everything is perfect.

Me? I’m just having fun playing the cards I was dealt—and trying not to roll craps too many times. I just love to double down on crazy fun along the way.

Around here;

if he walks like a duck and talks like a duck… he’s probably one blog away from being fully quacked up. 😂

I get a laugh when I hear this song!

knowin’ I’m a little crazy but, the worlds insane!!

I’m a coyote in a field of wolves

I’m a house on a hill where the lightning strikes

Kids ride by scared on their bikes

I’m screaming at the TV and it’s got no ears

On anti-depressants and lukewarm beers

Yeah, the only thing keeping these tracks on the train

Knowin’ I’m a little crazy but, the worlds insane!!

Cebu, Philippines – 2027 budget planning!

05/11/2026

by Darrell

Travel planning is something I’ve always enjoyed. I spend countless hours researching ways to save money, but once I arrived in 2026, that carefully planned three-month budget quickly went out the window as I was still not prepared.

It was paradise and I was having too much fun!

I also found that many EXPATS I met operate on budgets far bigger than mine.

Just like me, they busted their ass their entire life and are now living the good life on their terms! Our budgets just did not align and I had some debt when I got home.

I just know better that I cannot keep up with the Joneses!

Lesson learned; even if the post-mortem cost analysis ended up being tough to comprehend when I got home. I just needed to get off my high horse!

So my 2027 strategy is already in motion:

• January 1st, 2027 arrival using points; $85 out of pocket
• Prepay January through April rent: $1,800 total
• ~$300 USD per week loaded onto a prepaid debit card
• Use cash and avoid using credit cards
• Most importantly… focus on one Filipina at a time 😅

I will spend a month in Cebu in the Summer of 2026 to test my 2027 longer term plan. I would expect the need to tweak this plan again when I get home.

In my opinion, dating works pretty much the same in most parts of the world.

To make a relationship work long term, you need to be able to provide stability and support for your partner. Since I have basically lived the Gypsy life, it was not the answer longer term on both ends of the relationship.

Sex life also needs to be on point so both don’t go elsewhere.

Everything is just upfront and a lot more obvious where you stand in the Philippines.

I have “dated” several women there trying to better understand the landscape.

When I put my wallet away, I could tell that that it was all about the money with most of them. If they messaged me back, I knew they wanted what they had. I just remind them not to ask me for money and I will take care of them.

On the other hand …

Can you imagine paying $250 for a date?

Now, can you imagine dating someone that may not have the same luxuries that we enjoy every single day? A comfortable bed, AC, three square meals a day and a hot shower are just a few examples of some of the challanges.

I hear dating stories all the time of these situations:

Having her first margarita on a date!

Going to a movie and had popcorn for the first time! She ate an entire large bag and was so sick afterwards. She was in heaven and gorged. 🍿

Visiting their home; hose for running water, outhouses, dirt floors …

I want to be clear, I am not judging as these are real life dating stories.

The ironic part is that most of the Filipinas seem happier than western women.

In general, their life is not based entirely on material items!

It just takes time to ensure that everything is in the open just like all relationships should be anywhere in the world. Sorting it out might be the hardest part to move forward.

A buddy once said:

“I can’t believe you essentially pay for sex”.

I asked him:

“Mortgage on her dream home, new iPhone every year, designer handbag, car payments, maxed credit card bills and being on first name basis with your Amazon driver is “free”?

All the bull shit aside, I just need to focus on my life and budget!

2025/26 Edmonton Oilers – RIP 😞

05/03/2026

by Darrell

Let’s just say my 2026 spring plans didn’t go as planned.

There also may have been a tear/Oil drop in my coffee this morning after my Edmonton Oilers lost in five games in the first round of the NHL playoffs.

The last two springs had set a bit of a tradition—I’d come home from my travels just in time for a long run of Edmonton Oilers playoff hockey. With back-to-back Finals appearances, I’d grown used to games every other night, stretching deep into June.

I lived in Edmonton for a dynasty making me a fanatic for life!

5 Stanley Cups in 7 years!

The Edmonton Oilers won the Stanley Cup five times in their franchise history, all within a seven-year span during their 1980s dynasty: 1984, 1985, 1987, 1988, and 1990.

Here is a breakdown of the dynasty:

Lost to 4X Cup Champions New York Islanders 1983:

Defeated New York Islanders1984:

Defeated Philadelphia Flyers1985

Lost to Calgary – own goal 1986

Defeated Philadelphia Flyers 1987

Defeated Boston Bruins 1988

Lost to Gretzky’s LA Kings 1989

Defeated Boston Bruins 1990

All five championships were won after joining the NHL in 1979.

They have been close a few more times:

Lost in game 7 to Carolina 2006

Lost in game 7 to Florida 2024

Lost to Florida in game 5 2025

Lost this year in the first round to Anaheim 2026

Edmonton is always a different city during Edmonton Oilers playoff hockey.

Spring is in the air, the energy is high, and the party basically ran non-stop for two months. It is a shame it was cut short this year!

Game nights are locked in, and on off nights, everyone turns into an armchair coach or GM. And of course—no matter what’s happening—fans can always find something to complain about running players out of town.

Well, the fans got what they wanted. They pushed too many players out of town who might have made a difference in 2026 and beyond.

Worse yet, the replacements didn’t measure up—2026 wasn’t even close to the 2024 or 2025 teams some people complained about.

I used to say, “Enjoy the game,” because you never know when it might be their last real run. After all, we waited almost 20 years for another shot at the Cup.

The craziest part? Win or lose:

Every season, it’s the same story with Edmonton Oilers fans calling for change:

#TradeXYZ
#SignXYZ
#FireXYZ

New management basically ripped apart teams that were a goal (2006/2024) and 2 games (2025) away from winning it all!

I am no different, I blame President of Hockey operations Jeff Jackson and Dennis Sundar for pretending to be the smartest people in the room.

Let’s just say that these latest changes have the Edmonton Oilers Stanley Cup winning window is closing faster than my blogging career. 😂

Jeep roof off – AZ blue sky & cool weather!

04/27/2026

by Darrell

I have been home in Arizona for ten days after spending almost four months traveling.

The weather has been fantastic as it is normally over 110F/30C this time of year

“Warming expected over the next 6 days”.

No kidding!

I will enjoy it as this amazing weather is normally taken by my Airbnb guests all winter long. These are averages, I expect the summer will be a lot hotter.

Travel budget review! Whoopsie💸

04/26/2026

by Darrell

Every time I come home from a long trip, I spend the first couple of weeks reviewing my budget. The goal is to see where I could’ve saved money—and after three months in the Philippines, let’s just say I gave myself plenty of expenses to review.

I signed up for an budgeting app called “Rocket money” and its pretty apparent that I overspent on every single category three months straight

I could use Count Dracula right about now!

I am always able to recover but the time has come to stick to a budget.

The part that makes me comfortable is that my AZ expenses are low. The Philippines also makes it a lot easier to budget than most Countries I have visited.

Here is a quick look at my income plan for 2026/27:

Mesa Airbnb: $10K – $15K income.

Investments: $24K – $36K distributions.

(~$3K a month / ~$36K budget)

I will have -$50K available as a buffer.

It sure feels good to be home in AZ watching sports!

Here is my 2026/27 AZ Airbnb expenses:

$320 HOA

$109 utilities

$60 internet and TV

$60 home insurance

My AZ property will run for about ~$500 a month.

(HOA, internet, utilities and insurance)

Running my Airbnb comes with extra expenses.

I rent a storage unit to keep my belongings while the place is occupied. I also maintain a place monthly in Rocky Point, Mexico (four hour shuttle/drive).

I always have somewhere to store my stuff. I also have a place to stay when rented and I’m not traveling. Plus, I also have a pad in Mexico 365 days a year!

My rent in Cebu, Philippines is $450 so accomodations is basically a wash.

I lower my Jeep insurance cost to offset travel insurance. I also put my gym membership on hold as new members pay $190 a month.

Travel insurance is less than $5 USD a day depending on deductable.

You can read my travel insurance blog by CLICKING HERE.

You can checkout your travel health insurance cost using my agent by CLICKING HERE:

I get that question a lot—how did you retire young? Honestly, I just send people to my blog if they’re curious how I’ve made this lifestyle work.

I’ve made plenty of mistakes along the way, but that’s where most of the lessons learned.

The truth is, it didn’t happen overnight—and it definitely wasn’t all luck.

All the hard work, planning with a sprinkle of luck feels good!

My 2026 three month trip to the Philippines taught me so much about my future travel budget. After years or roaming the globe, I have found a place that I to return to yearly.

You can read about my setup in Cebu by CLICKING HERE.

That is huge win for me but the numbers speak for themselves:

~$600 round trip flight or points to get from AZ to the Philippines.

$425 month rent in an amazing area of Cebu.

$250 – $300 weekly budget / ~$1000 monthly

My goal has always been $2K for my travels.

Realistically,, I will need $3K to cover home and my travels.

Unfortunately, I have had $3K+ months traveling within the Philippines.

I will need to pay more attention to stay on budget now that I have a solid plan.

If not, do you want fries with that? 😳

Home sweet AZ home! 🌵

04/23/2026

by Darrell

After three and a half months of travel—and hosting three Airbnb guests along the way—I returned home to Mesa, Arizona, on April 15, 2026. There’s something especially satisfying about coming home after being gone that long.

I was lucky enough to have my sister and brother-in-law visit from Canada right after I got back. Even through the haze of jet lag, their company was exactly what I needed—and the timing was perfect with the Toronto Blue Jays in town and Oiler playoff hockey starting.

I went to the first two games with them, and they rounded out the series by catching the last game on Sunday afternoon with a big win.

My sister has never been a big traveler, but she’s definitely caught the bug. She’s now been to Las Vegas twice, Mexico, Arizona in the last six months—and she’s headed to Paris in May.

Dropping them off at the train station felt strange. She’s such a confident traveler—navigating airports, figuring out the city train system to get to the games, and even making her way back to the airport on her own.

It was also the start of the NHL playoffs, and we got to watch the first game together. We’ve always been big fans of the Edmonton Oilers, so that made it even more special.

Here is a taste of Edmonton Oilers playoff hockey!

As much as I love traveling, there’s something about coming home and resetting that feels just right. I’m planning to stay close for the next month and get my feet back under me.

Not for too long though—my Rocky Point, Mexico pad is already calling.

Until then, No Mas travel …

Philippines Immigration!💸

04/13/2026

by Darrell

I won’t be the same stupid thing twice with Philippines immigration.

I’ve always believed in the importance of strong immigration systems—not just in America, but around the world. It’s something I’ve spoken about often, and with conviction.

Going through the immigration process in the Philippines has made me realize that I didn’t fully understand it the way I thought I did. And that realization has been frustrating. Not because the system is necessarily wrong—but because I assumed I already knew enough to avoid an unnecessary extension while spending unnecessary money.

The truth is, every country handles immigration differently. What seems simple from the outside can quickly become complicated when you’re the one navigating the process. Paperwork, fees, timelines—it all adds up, and not always in ways you expect.

And there’s a cost to that lack of understanding.

We all pay for our mistakes. In this case, it’s not just mistakes—it’s ignorance. And systems like these don’t let that slide. Whether it’s time, money, or added stress, nothing comes free when you’re learning the hard way.

It’s a humbling experience, but also an important one.

Because it’s one thing to talk about immigration from a distance—and another to live it as …

“nothing in life is free”.

Here’s how it actually works and there is no lap dance workaround …

When you enter the Philippines, you’re granted a free 30-day visa on arrival.

After that, you need to extend.

Your first renewal gives you a 29-day extension, which costs around $80 USD.

(This was where I made my mistake, I thought it was 30-days)

Once that period ends, you can apply for either a 30-day or 60-day extension—and that jumps to about $175 USD. This is needed even if you need only needed one more day like me.

Step by step, extension by extension, the process becomes more involved—and more expensive so ensure you take advantage of the full visa and not just one day.

The key to all of this is simple: count your days—and plan your out of Country Road trips and home flights accordingly.

That’s where I went wrong and you can CLICK HERE for more on Philiippines immigration.

Below is the current extension and fee summary:

QUICK SUMMARY:

Eligibility: 30 and 59-day visa-exempt nationalities and 9A tourist visa holders
Duration of extension: 1 or 2 months per extension, up to 36 months for visa-exempt nationalities and 24 months for the rest
Extension Fee:
- The first 29 days for visa-exempt travelers: 4,060 PHP
- First time after 59 days of stay: 9,830 PHP for 2 months
- Second time after 59 days: 5,080 PHP for 2 months
- Beyond 6 months of stay: 5,270 PHP for 2 months

In my case, I didn’t realize that the second extension is 29 days, not 30. And that one-day difference cost me.

Here’s how it played out.

I arrived in the Philippines on January 23rd, 2026.

My initial 30-day visa would have expired on February 25th. Based on that timeline, I knew I would need two extensions—a 29-day extension and then a 30-day extension—bringing my total stay to 89 days.

But I had a plan to avoid that second, more expensive extension.

Instead of staying continuously, I decided to leave the country briefly and re-enter. The idea was simple: reset the clock with a new free 30-day visa, then apply for one 29-day extension. That way, I could avoid the third—and most expensive—visa until later.

So I booked a birthday trip.

I flew to Hong Kong on February 10th and returned on February 12th. On paper, it seemed like a smart move but, I needed to stay one more day.

But here’s the mistake: I assumed the second extension worked the same as the first free—30 days upon entry.

It isn’t – It’s 29 days.

That one incorrect assumption left me short by a single day.

My 29-day extension ended on April 13th. My flight out of the Philippines was scheduled for April 15th.

A day late and now $175 short …

That meant I had no choice: either pay a fine at the airport and deal with the hassle there, or purchase another visa extension.

In the end, I paid for it!!

One extra day turned into a $175 USD mistake.

That new extension now carries me through May 16th—all because I was off by one day.

Lesson learned: in immigration, one day matters more than you think.

Bantayan Island Philippines!😍

04/06/2026

by Darrell

I made it back to the spectacular Santa Fe Beach on Bantayan Island in the Philippines during the first week of April 2026.

I visited in 2024 during my first trip to the Philippines, and it was one of my favorite road trips.

It was a memorable 36-hour adventure.

Once again, this beach proved to be another one of the most beautiful in the Philippines.

It was even better than I remembered, which is a recurring statement.

Unfortunately, I made the mistake of visiting during one of the busiest weekends of the year—Holy Week.

What should have been a quick escape to paradise turned into a lesson in bad planning… and even worse execution.

And the crazy part? I always seem to land on my feet!

I arrived in an absolute, hands-down, ten-bell, five-star paradise—Santa Fe Beach on Bantayan Island.

As long as I came out alive, it was an amazing road trip from Cebu.

The tide pool and sandbar in front of my beach hotel was amazing!

Logistically, it’s actually a simple—and surprisingly easy—trip from Cebu.

~$2 taxi to the North SM bus terminal.

~$4 three-hour ride up to the northern tip of Cebu Island.

~$10 90-minute ferry over to Bantayan Island.

And finally, a quick, couple-dollar tuk-tuk ride straight to Sante Fe beach from the Bantayan ferry terminal.

I paid ~$30 a night for a simple,, clean room at YooneeBeach Resortrt. This was during Holy Week,, which was double the normal price. CLICK HERE to review and book this simple, yet amazing resort.

(Much fancier and more expensive beach hotels can be found by CLICKING HEE).

Coming home, I took an ~$8 faster van. It was a perfect connection with the ferry getting me home in 6 hours.

Easy. Affordable. Almost effortless.

At least… that’s how it’s supposed to go …

If this sounds awesome—and it actually was…
just not without self-inflicted sideshows that could seemingly only happen to me.

Let me try to lay it out as it actually happened.

First—picture Holy Week travel.

Think Thanksgiving traffic in the U.S, but scooters, tuk tuks, buses, ferries, and Cebu’s insane traffic exacerbated.

Crowds. Delays. Prices up. Everything is moving more slowly than it should. Which I did not think was possible in the Philippines.

That’s where things started to go sideways.

The first speed bump? The bus ride.

What should have been a three-hour trip turned into over five hours, with two rest stops and heavy traffic the entire way.

Not ideal, but still manageable.

The real problem came next.

Because of the delay, we rolled into the port at 5:45 PM…

…and missed the last ferry by 15 minutes.

That’s when I knew—I had officially screwed up.

So instead of arriving in paradise that night, I found myself sitting in the ferry terminal… waiting for the next available boat at 1 AM.

Arrival time: 3 AM.

And just to make things more interesting?

I hadn’t booked a hotel.

Why would I? I figured I’d just walk back into the same amazing beach spot I stayed at in 2024.

Did I mention this was the busiest weekend of the year?

Yeah.

Then—because life always balances things out—I met an amazing Filipina woman sitting in the terminal. She sat next to me,e which always blows me away here.

We ended up talking for five hours, which honestly made the time fly by.
She was fun, easy to talk to, and even invited me to hang out with her cousins and visit a lagoon the next day.

For a moment, I thought… Okay, things are turning around.

She was genuinely great.

And that’s where that storyline paused.

It was time to board the ferry.

We had beds on the overnight ferry so we could finally relax …

Anyway…

We finally arrived.

Her cousin lined me up with an overpriced hotel and gave me a ride there on her scooter, while her friends took her on another scooter. They even helped me check in.

And somehow, after all that… we were about to head to the beach at 3 AM.

That’s when I bailed!

She called—I missed it.

I tried calling her the next day… nothing.

And just like that, an amazing encounter was over due to my ignorance.

Which is too bad, because Santa Fe on Bantayan Island really is incredible, and I could have used a tour guide.

But that moment set the tone for the whole trip.

Relax.

Drink beer and rum.
And maybe… take a break from being so damn awkward!

The setting?

Unreal.

Crystal-clear water. Soft white sand. Hardly a cloud in the sky.

It’s 10 AM the next morning… $2 beers are already flowing while watching the hockey game, and I slip in a bloody Mary/Caesar with breakfast… and for a brief moment, it feels like life is finally back under control.

At least… temporarily as the Oilers lost and I misplaced my tablet.

Luckily, the staff at the hotel had it waiting for me when I returned for it.

Sometimes traveling, everything feels like a complete disaster…

I am not self-aware of the situation, or confident,

I still catch that break to get me back on track!

Plus, I am also always learning about myself from the mistakes I make along the way.

Another amazing adventure, traveling, and life lessons in the books/blogs!

Living Life to the Fullest, one adventure and mistake at a time!

Happiness is spending time at the beach!

04/02/2026

by Darrell

My entire adult life, I’ve chased time at the beach.

If I’m being honest, I couldn’t even begin to list all the incredible beaches I’ve visited around the world. What I do know is this—whenever I choose a destination, there’s almost always a beach involved… or at least one close enough to find.

It’s never really been optional. It’s just part of how I travel—and how I live.

For the past eight years, I’ve even kept a small studio rented in Rocky Point, Mexico. Anytime I felt that familiar pull, I knew I could be on the beach within four hours—door to sand.

You can read my blog on my Rocky Point casita by CLICKING HERE.

That beach feeling… it never really goes away for me.

It just gets stronger.

Below is a picture I took on Siargao Island, Philippines, in March 2026. It was a $60 RT flight from my home base in Cebu.

Have you ever considered that you might actually be doing beach life wrong!?

Not because you don’t love the ocean—but because you’ve been sold the same destinations your entire life.

Florida. California. Mexico …

And sure… all-inclusive vacations are great!

But they’re not even close to the best experience IMNSHO!

(IMNSHO – In my not so humble opinion)

I’ve spent years chasing beaches around the world—Australia, Bermuda, Costa Rica, Greece, Italy, Hawaii—and what I discovered in SE Asia changed everything:

The most beautiful beaches aren’t the most popular ones…
They’re just the ones most people never consider going to.

And here’s the part nobody talks about—

What if you could wake up to clearer water, softer sand, and crowds that are basically nonexistent…

While spending 50–75% less than you would in California, Florida, or even Mexico.

Same ocean experience.
Better adventures.
Way lower cost, longer term.

At some point, you have to ask yourself:

Are you traveling for convenience…Or for something unforgettable?

Here is another picture I took at Alona beach, on the island of Bohol, Philippines which is a two hour ferry trip from my homebase in Cebu.

Below is Santa Fe beach in Bantayan Island, Philippines which is about 6 hours away from my homebase in Cebu. I visited during the first week of April for the second time. Like all the other beaches I’ve shared in this blog, it is also amazing.

Most beaches in Southeast Asia are some of the most incredible I’ve seen in my life.

Places like the Philippines, Thailand, and even Vietnam offer clearer water, softer sand, and scenery that feels almost untouched compared to what most people are used to.

My Philippines homebase in Cebu, Philippines—there are many other short, inexpensive flight, ferry, or bus trips away—open up access to islands and coastlines that completely change your expectations of what a beach should look like.

And yet, most people will still book the same yearly trip to Mexico!?
Spending similar money for a completely repetitive experience.

Not bad—just not even close to the best.

Here’s what my numbers look like for my next trip in August 2026.

Flight from Los Angeles to Manila: $600 round trip

Monthly rent: $425 (that’s about $15 a day)

Perfect weather with a side of rainy season to cool off!

Island hopping: $15–$50 to access some of the most beautiful beaches you’ve ever seen

I know… Mexico is a shorter flight.

You’ve got limited time. Limited vacation days. And more importantly, limited money.

That’s real. And honestly, you might be right.

But let’s look at this from a different angle to prepare you for a longer vacation and/or retirement. Maybe even early retirement!?

Let’s make it even more real and let this sink in for a second.

You can fly halfway around the world…
live comfortably for a month…
and explore multiple islands…

For about what most people spend on a single week in Mexico.

Flights. Hotels. Restaurants. Drinks. Excursions.

$2,000–$4,000… gone in seven days.

Or—

You take that same budget and completely change the experience.

The Philippines has many things to offer the visitor: a mixture of the old and the new, a diversity of art and culture,e and a warm, friendly people. Blessed by nature, the Philippines has something to offer every sportsman too . . . extraordinary dive sites, forests to roam, mountains to climb, caves to explore.

Wake up every day with access to over 7,000 islands stretching the length of the Philippines—and trade the same old vacation for something unforgettable.

Slow down. Breathe. Actually live there.

That’s the shift most people never even consider—
not just for a vacation, but for upgrading their entire lifestyle… even their retirement.

They’re not choosing a worse experience…

They’re choosing a shorter one—
at a higher price.

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Cebu, Philippines – the city life!

03/30/2026

by Darrell

“Settling into my condo in Cebu Business Park has been fantastic! The building features an incredible gym with views over a beautiful pool, and best of all, everything I need is just a short walk away at the mall.

“Cebu Center Mall is just a three-minute walk from my condo and offers a wide variety of stores and restaurants, many of which you’d find in Canada and the United States.”

“There’s a movie theater, a grocery store, and an incredible food court offering just about anything you could crave from back home—along with some fantastic local gems.

A few of my go-to spots for a taste of home include TGIF, Chili’s, and Texas Roadhouse, perfect for enjoying some classic American comfort food and a cold beer.

The mall also has nearly every store you can imagine, from familiar international brands to local Philippine versions, which are often much more affordable for off-brand options.”

Above is a tour of the mall

Below is Cebu City life after 6 PM

“City life at a fraction of the cost, beautiful weather year-round, and just ten minutes from the ferry terminal—ready to whisk me away to countless stunning islands.

I have already booked two trips back; one month in the summer and four more months to kick off 2027. It is such an amazing place to spend four months every year.

I often find myself quoting my mom in these blogs. I miss her every day.

‘If they don’t like it, they can kiss my ass!’

I’d always laugh and ask, ‘Are you bragging or complaining, Mom?’
And she’d say, ‘If it’s the truth, it’s not bragging.’

I am 100% tell the truth in my blogs plus a bit of bragging too!

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ShenanAgain in the Philippines!

03/26/2026

by Darrell

There’s something peculiar about living in the Philippines, and the word I keep coming back to is shenanigans. Not because anything is outright dishonest—far from it—but because so many everyday experiences carry a subtle sense that things aren’t unfolding quite the way you expect, and ignorance is bliss.

It’s hard to explain at first. Nothing is necessarily wrong, yet something feels slightly off-script.

Processes that seem like they should be simple somehow develop extra steps, like ordering, food for example. Instructions shift depending on who you ask and you might get 5 different answers. Timelines stretch, contract, and occasionally disappear altogether. You start to wonder: is this how it’s meant to work, or is everyone just improvising?

Over time, you begin to realize that what feels like inconsistency is actually a different kind of rhythm. Life here often runs less on rigid systems and more on flexibility, relationships, and quiet negotiation. There’s an unspoken understanding that not everything needs to be exact to still work. “Close enough” is often exactly enough.

Communication, too, plays its part. Direct answers can be rare, replaced instead with softer, more indirect responses. A firm “no” may become a “maybe,” and a “maybe” might quietly mean “probably not.” It’s not deception—it’s a cultural preference for harmony over confrontation. But for an outsider, it can add to that lingering sense of uncertainty.

Answers are often relayed through facial gestures:

Frown means no

Raised eyebrows could mean yes but, that’s all you see

Puckered lips means, look that direction

And yet, beneath the surface, things do work. Not always in the way you expect, and not always on your timeline, but they move forward nonetheless. What initially feels like disorder slowly reveals itself as adaptability—a system shaped not by strict rules, but by people finding ways to make things work despite limitations.

So yes, “shenanigans” is still the word that comes to mind. But it’s not a criticism. It’s more of an observation, even a kind of appreciation. Because once you settle into it, you start to see that this apparent chaos has its own logic—one that values resilience, patience, and a uniquely human way of getting things done.

I’ve always been a people-watcher when I travel, quietly observing the rhythms, habits, and little human moments that unfold in unfamiliar places. And if there’s anywhere that rewards that curiosity, it’s the Philippines. There’s a constant flow of stories playing out in real time—some heartwarming, some baffling, and some that leave you shaking your head in disbelief.

What’s especially fascinating is watching how people’s journeys evolve… or in some cases, unravel. You’ll see confident arrivals slowly give way to confusion, overconfidence turning into costly missteps, and assumptions clashing with reality in ways that are as eye-opening as they are predictable.

One obvious pattern that stands out is how quickly emotion can override judgment.

There’s a kind of romanticized optimism that takes hold—a belief that this place, or the people they meet here, are somehow different, more genuine, more meaningful than anywhere else. And while the Philippines is undeniably warm and welcoming, that idealized lens can sometimes lead people to ignore the usual caution they’d exercise back home and more importantly, common sense.

It’s not so much about naivety as it is about being caught up in the moment. The environment, the attention, the sense of escape—it all blends into something that feels personal and significant. But from the outside, as an observer, you can often see the disconnect forming long before they do.

And that’s what makes it so compelling to watch. Not in a cynical way, but in a deeply human one. Travel has a way of amplifying who we are—our hopes, our blind spots, our desire to connect. Here in the Philippines, those qualities don’t just show up… they tend to play out in full view.

It’s a reminder that while the setting may change, human nature rarely does. And sometimes, the most interesting journey isn’t the one on the map, but the one unfolding in people’s expectations versus reality.

One of the more uncomfortable things you notice, especially if you spend a lot of time observing people, is how easily perception and reality can drift apart.

You’ll sometimes see older travelers pairing up with much younger women, carrying themselves with a kind of renewed confidence—almost as if they’ve stepped into a different version of their lives. On the surface, it can look like happiness, even reinvention. But from the outside, it often feels more complicated than that.

There’s frequently an unspoken transaction at play. Companionship, attention, and affection on one side; financial support, stability, or opportunity on the other. Neither party is necessarily unaware, but the balance of expectations isn’t always equal. One person may be grounded in practical realities, while the other leans into a more romantic interpretation of what’s happening.

That gap—between what is hoped for and what is actually being offered—can be difficult to watch. Not because connection itself is a bad thing, but because it sometimes rests on assumptions that don’t quite hold up under scrutiny longer term.

It’s less about judging the individuals involved and more about recognizing a pattern that shows up in many places, not just here. Travel, distance, and unfamiliar environments have a way of amplifying desires—for connection, validation, or even a sense of importance. And in that heightened state, it becomes easier to overlook the more pragmatic side of human relationships.

In the end, it’s a reminder that people often see what they want to see, especially when it feels good to believe it. And sometimes, the line between genuine connection and mutual convenience is thinner than either side might admit.

Summer in the Philippines – why not!?

03/20/2026

by Darrell

If you’re anything like me—and most people—you care what others think. It’s human nature. We’re wired to want acceptance, to feel like we belong somewhere and always looking for the perfect moment to get off the hamster wheel of life.

But what happens when you’re chasing that acceptance in the wrong places… from the wrong people or worse yet, let that moment pass?

What if getting to that place—the one where you actually feel contentment—was cheaper than you think?

I just booked a flight back to Cebu for a month this summer for $600 USD return on Singapore Airlines which is amazing!

Sure, I’ll still need to grab a commuter flight, but the heavy lifting is already done. ✈️

What if you could start doing things again that you never thought possible?

Wearing shorts, flip-flops, and a t-shirt every single day.

Choosing from hundreds of stunning islands to visit, each one better than the last.

Finding someone to spend your time with that accepts you the way you are now.

And taking care of your body and mind without breaking the bank sparking your fountain of youth—you can read more about that in my self-care blog by CLICKING HERE.

What if you actually laughed more than you worried again?

Not just once in a while—but every single day.

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Philippines – Health gimmicks!💸

03/15/2026

by Darrell

Spending time in the Philippines is kind of like living in the Twilight Zone, as nothing really makes sense.

Young, beautiful women prefer older men with their money and security, while some of the best-looking “women” are transgender, which can make for horrible drinking games!

Trying health gimmicks to stay feeling younger is a big part of life as we age. There is no better place to do it than here in the Philippines, where prices are lower.

I have already blogged about my first experiences; you can CLICK HERE to read it

I keep finding more inspiration through our local crew!

This is Matthew, a local expat I see most mornings at our neighborhood coffee shop.

For the longest time, we never really talked. But he’s one of those guys you notice right away. The kind of person who quietly owns the room with confidence without even trying.

Once we finally started chatting, I realized he’s also one of the most impressive people I’ve met here.

Matthew is 15 years older than me, a cancer survivor, and I’m pretty sure he could knock me on my ass in just about any athletic competition… except maybe a drinking game.

He plays pickleball several times a week and recently introduced me to a place called Summit Recovery, a wellness and recovery spot I hadn’t heard about before.

It is just like my LTF gym/spa routine at home in AZ, and now I’m intrigued.

Matthew goes there every weekday at noon for something called contrast therapy, and I’m hoping to start joining him—not just for the recovery benefits, but also for the chance to sit around and talk about life.

What Is Contrast Therapy?

Contrast therapy alternates between heat and extreme cold to stimulate circulation and recovery.

At Summit Recovery, that means moving between:

Sauna

Hot tub

Ice-cold plunge

Massage

Compression recovery boots

The rapid switch between hot and cold creates a powerful change in blood flow, which helps:

Flush out toxins

Reduce muscle soreness

Increase circulation

Improve joint mobility

Speed up recovery time

It’s one of the most popular recovery methods used by athletes and wellness enthusiasts, and apparently also a tough expat hanging around my local coffee shop in Cebu, Philippines.

Honestly, if it helps me keep up with Matthew… I’m in.

I guess you could say I’ve tried just about every wellness gimmick in town.

The funny thing is, when you’re living here, experimenting is part of the fun. Almost every treatment, class, or recovery therapy costs a fraction of what it would back home.

So why not give it a shot?

Some things turn out to be incredible. Others… well… make for a funny blog later as there is one born every minute (sucker) and I look goofy before and after!

Either way, it’s all part of the adventure of living and trying to stay healthy while traveling.

The RF ultrasonic slimming treatment took about 16 minutes and cost $10 USD per session.

A lifetime worth of chubby cheeks getting some love!

RF ultrasonic cavitation is a non-invasive body contouring treatment that combines ultrasound waves to break down fat cells with radio frequency to tighten and firm the skin.

Quick, simple, and another one of those things I figured was worth trying while living here.

But the real standout was the anti-aging package below.

For just $12 (4 pack price), you get a 90-minute session, which is pretty incredible when you consider what similar treatments cost back home. Ninety minutes of cream, masks, and steam are designed to help an old man’s skin recharge.

At these prices, it’s hard not to keep experimenting with all the wellness options around town.

Plus, I get to pretend that I am taking great care of myself all the time!

I just tested these three treatments as I try to keep up with my local hero, Matthew.

Honestly, I never would have imagined myself trying things like this back home. But when the prices are this affordable, it’s hard not to get curious.

At these prices… I will keep trying!

If our beautiful Filipinas do their best to look great, it is the least I can do to try to put lipstick on a pig!

Worst case, it makes for a great travel story for a few bucks!

Best case, I might actually feel comfortable in the same room as Matthew.

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Philippines visa renewal-Bohol Island!

03/13/2026

by Darrell

I have always been a big believer in strict immigration and visa processes. Countries have every right to control who enters and how long they stay.

If you’re curious about my own experience going through the United States immigration system, you can read about it in my blog by CLICKING HERE.

Because of that experience, I’ve developed a real appreciation for countries that take immigration enforcement seriously.

During my trip to the Philippines early in 2026, I took a quick 36-hour island hop from Cebu to Bohol. If you’d like to read about that short adventure, you can check out the full story by CLICKING HERE.

But the real cherry on top of an already amazing trip was how smoothly I was able to renew my tourist visa.

Sometimes, the smallest victories while traveling end up being the most satisfying.

The Panglao regional immigration office is just a short tuk-tuk ride from Alona Beach, where I was staying. Once I submitted my application, the entire process took about 30 minutes.

Quick, simple, and painless.

The only issue turned out to be my own math skills, as my visa expires two days before I leave the country on April 15, 2026.

I had taken a quick trip to Hong Kong for my 54th birthday, returning to the Philippines on February 12th for my first renewal. Since the first actual visa renewal is only 29 days, I apparently miscalculated somewhere along the way.

Let’s just say I’ve been taking some friendly abuse for not being able to count properly.

The good news is my options are all perfectly fine… they just could have been avoided.

Option 1:
Take another quick trip out of the country—Vietnam, Hong Kong, Thailand, Japan, etc. When you re-enter the Philippines, you automatically receive another 30-day visa on arrival.

Option 2:
Extend the visa for 60 days, which costs about $200 USD.

Option 3:
Do absolutely nothing and risk paying the overstay fine at the airport, which is only about $20 USD per day… though that does mean rolling the dice with immigration.

None of these options is a disaster, but a little better math on my part would have saved me the decision.

Panglao, Philippines – Alona Beach!

03/13/2026

by Darrell

I spent about 36-hours on the island of Bohol to get away from the city on March 11th, 2026. It was my second time here, as I spent a few days there in 2024, which you can read about by CLICKING HERE.

Sometimes when you return to a place you loved, it doesn’t quite live up to the memory. But this time, the opposite happened.

As soon as I arrived back at Alona Beach, I remembered exactly why it stood out to me the first time.

The beach has that perfect mix of clear turquoise water, soft white sand, and a relaxed island vibe that makes it incredibly easy to slow down and just enjoy being there.

And within minutes of walking along the shoreline, it all came back to me.

I stayed at the very modest Alona Guest House, paying about $18 USD a night.

It was exactly what I always look for when I’m island hopping: clean, comfortable, and inexpensive.
Honestly, when I’m traveling like this, the room is just a place to sleep and shower. I’m rarely there long enough to need anything fancy.

But during the day, I found a great way to upgrade the experience.

Just down the beach is the beautiful Henann Resort Alona Beach, which offers day passes for around $25 USD.

For that price, you can spend the day enjoying the resort — and it’s pretty incredible.

Most of my time there was spent in the pool, relaxing on a lounge chair, and floating over to the swim-up bar. It felt like a luxury vacation… without the luxury hotel price.

The day pass also included an excellent buffet, which made the deal even better.

If you prefer the full resort experience, rooms start around $200 USD per night.

But for me, this was the perfect travel hack: budget room + luxury resort day pass.

And I have to say — it’s one of the nicest resorts I’ve ever experienced in my life.

I also treated myself to an amazing surf-and-turf beach dinner right along Alona Beach.

Fresh seafood, steak, the sound of the waves, and a warm tropical evening — it’s hard to beat that combination.

Add in a few rum and Cokes, and the whole experience came to about $40 USD.

For a beachfront dinner like that, in a place this beautiful, it felt like an incredible deal.

Moments like that are exactly why quick island escapes like this are so worth it. 🌴🍹

Before wrapping up my short—but incredibly sweet—trip, I also took care of renewing my stay in the country for another 29 days. From what I’ve experienced so far, the process seems much easier on the smaller islands, and after this visit, I’d have to agree. Everything felt a little more relaxed and straightforward than dealing with the same process in a large city.

If you’re curious about how the process works, you can read more about renewing a visa in the Philippines—along with a few lessons I learned along the way in my blog—by CLICKING HERE.

Hikari drip – anti aging IV treatment! 💪🏻

03/07/2026

by Darrell

When I turned 54 on February 10, 2026, I started taking advantage of the affordable personal care treatments offered in the Philippines. One of my favorites is a weekly anti-aging IV drip, administered by a nurse and costing about $30 USD per session.

The Hikari drip IV offers a range of benefits, including skin lightening, anti-aging effects, and immune system support, primarily due to its high concentration of glutathione and other antioxidants.

Key Benefits of Hikari Drip:

Skin Lightening and Brightening:
The Hikari drip is known for its skin-lightening properties, primarily due to glutathione, which inhibits melanin production. This can lead to a brighter and more even skin tone, reducing hyperpigmentation and dark spots.

Anti-Aging Properties:
The formulation includes ingredients like Vitamin C and collagen, which are essential for maintaining skin elasticity and firmness. These components help reduce the appearance of fine lines and wrinkles, promoting a youthful complexion.

Immune System Support:
The antioxidants present in the Hikari drip, such as glutathione and Vitamin C, play a crucial role in boosting the immune system. They help neutralize free radicals, which can damage cells and lead to various health issues.

Detoxification:
Glutathione is often referred to as the “master antioxidant” and is vital for detoxifying the body. It aids in liver function and helps eliminate harmful substances, contributing to overall health and wellness.

Rapid Absorption:
Administered intravenously, the Hikari drip allows for 100% absorption of nutrients directly into the bloodstream, bypassing the digestive system. This ensures that the body receives the maximum benefits of the ingredients quickly and effectively.

Conclusion
The Hikari drip is marketed as a comprehensive beauty and wellness treatment, combining skin-enhancing and health-promoting properties. While many users report positive results, it is essential to consult with a healthcare professional before starting any new treatment, especially intravenous therapies, to ensure safety and appropriateness for individual health needs.

There are potential side effects to consider:

Heart problems, kidney problems, and liver damage
Hikari Premium side effects:

The Hikari Premium Japan Glutathione supplement has been associated with several side effects, including heart problems, kidney problems, and liver damage.

These serious side effects highlight the potential risks of using glutathione supplements, especially when taken in high doses or without proper medical supervision.

It is crucial to be aware of these risks and to consult with a healthcare provider before using any glutathione supplement.

I’m not sure if it’s simply a placebo effect, but each time the drip finishes I seem to feel better. I’ll continue to monitor for any potential side effects with my doctor and move forward carefully.

Dating in the Philippines – who’s your daddy?!

03/05/2026

by Darrell

Many older men come to Southeast Asia looking for love after relationships back home didn’t work out.

Every story is different—and to be fair, plenty of those past relationship failures involve mistakes on the men’s side as well. The bottom line is that they are not together anymore and are happier!

As a single man who has never been married and has no kids, it’s fair to say I’ve often been the common denominator in relationships that didn’t work out.

This blog is written from a man’s perspective and life experiences.

So, buckle up, if you’re a fragile liberal buttercup!

Life here in the Philippines is simply different. People tend to value the essentials more—health, family, loyalty, time together, and making the most of what you have, as there are often very few material items.

And that alone can create a completely different world of expectations.

Most of my closest friends and family married their high school sweethearts, which is so awesome.

They started from the ground floor together—figuring life out as they went, building careers, homes, and raising great families along the way. Almost all of them are still together, too!

Sometimes they make tongue-in-cheek comments about how my life turned out. In many ways, they can’t relate.

“How can you live without kids?”
“You need to get laid more.”
“No one wants to live a life like you.”
“You need to adapt to her needs.”

Some of it is joking, some of it is probably fair criticism.

But they’ve shared one life path. Through the ups and downs, there’s never been much background noise—just the two of them building a life around one lifetime lover.

And sometimes I wonder… is that happiness, contentment, settling, or a little of each?

I feel it may also be a bit of ignorance of never knowing a different path like mine.

When people ask why things worked out that way for me.

Even though I am not Religious, I say it was “God’s Plan”.

That takes a bit of heat off an uncomfortable truth.

I would have been divorced three times, and, thankfully, marriage was not forced!

That is why, most days, I am thankful for how my life worked out so far …

Dating in the Philippines, it is a whole new life adventure.

A lot of guys have had luck dating on Tinder, so why not right, RIGHT?!

I literally have matched with the majority of the local Tinder population, and at the time of this post, I have over a hundred likes and tons of messages to sift through after a couple of weeks.

Tinder people on these dating sites all have different objectives.

Personally, I’m just looking for a genuine connection with someone I can move forward with during my time in the Philippines and hopefully beyond.

The challenge is sorting through everything else. A good portion of profiles turn out to be transgender, others are clearly working as prostitutes, and a fair number are just plain scammers or people with very different intentions.

That leaves a smaller percentage of people who are actually looking for the same thing I am.

I’ve also been contacted by more than a few absolute weirdos along the way. At one point, I even added a line to my profile trying to filter them out…

I am ONLY interested in WOMEN! NO TRANS or Lady Boys!

That idea didn’t 100% work, so I’m switching tactics.

Business cards.

Used-car-salesman style!

“Now available: **1972 Cadillac—low mileage, classic model, surprisingly well maintained.”

If someone catches my eye, hand them a card—or if you notice them first, just ask if they’re single… and, you know, not packing a surprise.

Honestly, it’s kind of nice for us older guys to get the kind of attention we’d probably never get back home.

If these business cards still do not make sense, watch the videos above and skim my Tinder profile again—you’ll comprehend that it can be tough out there.

I am just a shy guy wanting to get a conversation started and knowing what is under the hood!

Siagaro, Philippines Island!🏝️

03/04/2026

by Darrell

I took a four-day road trip to Siargao, one of the nicest islands in the Philippines.

It was a $60 40-minute round trip flight from Cebu on a Dash-8 twin-prop plane.

The Dash 8 is primarily manufactured by De Havilland Canada, which introduced the aircraft in 1984. I had a chuckle, Canada’s chance to take me out!

It had been a while since I last flew on a propeller aircraft.

There’s something about seeing those spinning blades just outside the window that always makes the journey feel a little more adventurous, bumpy, and a little more vulnerable, thinking of the blades stopping mid-flight.

As soon as I landed in Siargao, the island rhythm kicked in. Vans were already lined up outside the airport, ready to scatter arriving travelers to different corners of paradise.

I hopped into one bound for General Luna — the island’s lively heart — about a 40-minute ride that cost 300 Philippine pesos (roughly $6 USD).

General Luna pulses with youthful energy. It’s where sun-kissed days roll seamlessly into electric nights — famous for its powdery beaches, world-class surf breaks, and a nightlife scene that keeps the music going long after sunset.

If you’re chasing that perfect mix of ocean adventure and social buzz, this is where Siargao truly comes alive.

I spent the day wandering up and down the main strip of General Luna, soaking in the surf shops, beach bars, and cafés buzzing with energy. Before long, it became clear that this pocket of Siargao thrives on youthful momentum — backpackers swapping stories, surfers chasing the next swell, and groups gearing up for another lively night out. All young, all good looking – square peg! 🤏🏻

Alright, that’s it… I’m outta here – damn kids, get off my island!

By evening, I knew I was craving a slower rhythm. The next morning, I arranged for a tuk-tuk to take me north toward the quieter stretch of Tropico — ready to trade neon lights and party playlists for palm trees, open roads, and a more tranquil side of island life.

The contrast was immediate. Where General Luna buzzed with energy, Tropico felt almost suspended in time — so quiet it bordered on surreal. The roads were emptier, the shoreline more untouched, and the only soundtrack was wind through palm trees and waves folding onto the sand.

I settled into an old farmhouse that had been thoughtfully converted into an Airbnb, blending rustic charm with breezy coastal comfort. Weathered wood, wide-open windows, and uninterrupted ocean views made it feel both simple and luxurious. It was, without a doubt, one of the most beautiful beach Airbnbs I’ve ever stayed in — the kind of place that makes you slow down, breathe deeper, and forget what day it is.

After spending 24 blissful hours doing absolutely nothing but soaking up tropical paradise, I made my way back to General Luna for one final island day.

Wanting to see a different side of the area, I hired a tuk-tuk driver for a couple of hours and set off on a laid-back tour beyond the usual stops. We discovered quiet stretches of coastline untouched by the crowds — hidden pockets of sand and sea that felt like a private hidden escapes that only the locals enjoy.

Honestly, I’m not sure how anyone ranks one beach over another here. Each one felt like a perfect 10 — powdery sand, swaying palms, and water in every shade of blue imaginable.

Thank you, General Luna, and Tropico Siargao — for the sun-soaked mornings, the slow island afternoons, and the kind of beauty that lingers long after you leave.

This little corner of paradise has left its mark on me, and I already know this isn’t goodbye — it’s simply see you again. I’ll be back to wander your palm-lined roads and explore more of your breathtaking island soon. 🌴✨

Feeling young again on the cheap!

02/26/2026

by Darrell

Since landing in the Philippines on January 23, 2026, I’ve accidentally (and thankfully) fallen into an elite squad of EXPAT legends.

You know the type.

The “I know a guy” guys.
Need a visa tip? They know a guy.
Need a mechanic? They know a guy.
Need a couch, a lawyer, a dentist, or someone to explain why your WiFi is emotionally unstable? They know a guy.

There’s a group chat with nearly 100 people in it — and whatever you need, someone responds within minutes.

¿The admin Julio?
All-knowing.
All-seeing.
Probably asleep but still somehow replying.

Some of the best referrals have come from the crew — especially on the Men’s Health front. A little “base maintenance” to keep the engine tuned and the warranty extended.

Let’s just say the group believes in aging… strategically.

And of course, it’s not all responsible adulting.

There’s a healthy (and by healthy, I mean questionable) dose of shenanigans mixed in.🥳

Because what’s the point of building a support network if you’re not also building stories, you probably shouldn’t put in writing?

Support.
Referrals.
Cardio.
Maintenance.
Mild chaos.

Honestly, it’s the perfect balance of everything!

I have been taking advantage of a fraction of the cost (links below):

IV drip to load up on vitamins $30

Mounjaro® (tirzepatide) injection $15

Testosterone replacement therapy $15

Doctor consultations/blood work ~$20

Anti-aging mask $15

One hour chair massage $5

If it flies, f#cks, or floats… chances are, it can be found or fixed in our chat.

Need advice, a hookup, or just a kick in the right direction? Someone’s got you covered.

Seriously, whatever you need to get back on track — whether it’s wings, wings of another kind, or literally floating on a boat — the crew has it.

It’s like a Swiss Army knife… but with more sarcasm and less risk of cutting yourself.

I am also considering NRD and even stem therapy down the road if needed.

Here are the potential benefits and links for each treatment:

NAD+ and resveratrol work synergistically to support cellular energy, DNA repair, and longevity by activating sirtuins and enhancing metabolic function. ~$250 per does but cheaper buying bulk.

Nicotinamide Adenine Dinucleotide (NAD+) is a vital coenzyme essential for energy production, DNA repair, and cellular metabolism. According to Dr. David Sinclair of Harvard Medical School, NAD+ levels drop by over 50% by age 50, leading to fatigue, metabolic decline, and cellular dysfunction—restoring NAD+ through therapy counteracts these effects for natural rejuvenation.

Boosts Energy and Mental Clarity

RejuvaNAD+ helps restore NAD+ levels, promoting increased energy, sharper focus, and enhanced memory.

Promotes Cellular Health and Longevity

With RejuvaNAD+, you can support cellular repair and regeneration, helping to slow down the aging process and maintain a youthful appearance.

Accelerates Physical Recovery

Whether from exercise or daily wear and tear, RejuvaNAD+ aids in faster recovery and reduced downtime.

Stem cell therapy in the Philippines $3,750 per treatment

Overview of Stem Cell Therapy
Stem cell therapy, also known as regenerative medicine, leverages the unique ability of stem cells to self-renew and differentiate into various cell types such as blood, muscle, or nerve cells. These cells can be autologous (from the patient) or allogeneic (from a donor), and they are often manipulated in a laboratory to specialize into the type of cells needed for treatment. Once prepared, the cells are introduced into the body through injection, intravenous infusion, or local delivery to the affected area.

With all this newfound energy, I decided to channel it …

I signed up for boxing lessons.

Cardio? Yes.
Anger Management Therapy? Also, yes.
Cost? A very reasonable $8 a session.

Now, does it look graceful?
Absolutely not.

Does it look goofy and uncoordinated?
Absolutely

But there is something deeply satisfying about throwing a punch and hearing that thwack echo back at you like,

“Yep. That one landed.”

It may not look like a highlight reel from Floyd Mayweather Jr.…

But landing a combination feels incredible.

As always. It is a work in progress, so far, I feel so much better.

Being North American Darrell

02/23/2026

by Darrell

Trying to choose allegiance to just one country has always been tough for me—which is why I call myself North American Darrell.

I was born in Canada, live in the United States, and I also have a studio vacations base in Rocky Point, Mexico since 2018. In four short hours, I can be “home” in Mexico from my Mesa, Arizona home base.

After bouncing between places for so long and traveling the world, I stopped thinking of identity as a single flag and started seeing it as a mix of experiences.

When I travel and people ask where I’m from, I usually say Canada—which is true. It tends to keep things simple and keeps conversations focused on travel instead of politics. Because let’s be honest: once politics enters the chat, the vibe changes fast no matter where you are in the world when Trump is involved.

Over time, I’ve learned something important about traveling internationally: people don’t actually care where you’re from nearly as much as they care how you show up. Kindness, curiosity, and respect travel a lot better than passports do.

So, these days, I stick with what works:
I’m North America Darrell
I travel often.
And I try to leave places better than I found them.

It just avoids a lot of unneeded drama!

The bottom line, I’m proud to be American now and that should be okay as I love Canada and Mexico too! I have also fallen in love with many other Countries and would move to them all if I could.

I’ve spent more of my life in the United States than anywhere else. Life has a way of planting roots where you least expect it, and over time those roots start to feel just as real as the ones you were born with.

The complicated part has always been sports—especially when it comes to Team Canada.

Ever since I was a kid, whenever Team Canada played, it didn’t matter what sport it was—I was watching. Hockey, Olympics, world events… it was never just a game. It was identity, history, pride, and memory all wrapped into one jersey.

That’s why reactions can run so deep when politics are front and center!

When you grow up seeing certain athletes as symbols of your country, they stop feeling like individuals and start feeling like shared cultural property.

Take Wayne Gretzky for example—arguably the greatest hockey player of all time. To many Canadians, he wasn’t just a player; he was part of the national story.

And when someone represents something bigger than themselves for long enough, people don’t just admire them—they feel connected to them. Maybe even a little possessive or in this case, extremely possessive.

The truth is that identity isn’t a single flag. It’s a collection of influences, loyalties, and experiences layered over time.

Wayne Gretzky was a great Canadian but also, a great American!

He reshaped the NHL expansion and American grass roots hockey like no one else!

Wayne Gretzky was once the biggest name in Team Canada hockey. He wasn’t just a player—he was part of the country’s identity. He played, he coached, and he later served as a general manager in some of the most important tournaments in hockey Canada history. For many Canadians, he wasn’t just great.

He was Canadian!

Everything changed on August 9, 1988. I was 16 years old.

That was the day the illusion cracked—the day sports stopped being just a game and started teaching me something about loyalty, identity, and how quickly being Canadian can become complicated.

Some moments in sports history don’t just affect teams.
They stick with you personally, like a timestamp on your own life.

That was one of them as it was the day hockey changed forever in America!

Little did I know, I would experience the same change, just like another Canadian legend!

Some people were disappointed and even angry when I moved on from Canada.

At one point, friends even joked—half seriously, extremely angry—that I wasn’t allowed to cheer for Team Canada in the 2026 Olympics anymore. I too had betrayed Canada in their extremely warped perception!

Apparently, there are rules about loyalty that nobody tells you until you break them.

It felt strangely similar to how some people reacted to Wayne Gretzky after his turning point.

Not because the situations were the same, but because the emotion behind them were. When someone you associate with a place makes a different choice, it can feel personal—even if it isn’t.

Again, Canadians are angry, and it will get worse as it not “our game anymore” angle resurfaces.

Trust me when I say, it hurts me more than anyone, I have to hear it every day!

You can read my immigration journey by CLICKING HERE.

Cebu, Philippines – EXPAT home!?

02/16/2026

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Trying to find a place to stay longer term is a challenge, to say the least. I realize more and more that I will have to settle, as nowhere is perfect.

I moved into a new area of town in Cebu today to change it up. The condo complex and area I stayed in the first time I visited and again for the last month had become mundane.

I needed a new routine and found it in my new pad, as it is in a different part of the city.

It is also a much nicer studio, and the building has a gym and a nicer pool as well. Plus, it is right across the street from a great mall.

I really think I am onto something longer term here!

I know I have said it before and I always “jump around”, but,

I am really feeling good about settling here and started making plans.

How amazing does that gym and pool look? It is super amazing!!

I may have finally found My Seasonal Home Base in paradise?!

Why Cebu is a perfect January–April Anchor for me!

After years of traveling, testing cities, chasing “maybe this is the one,” I’ve finally started to comprehend something: Cebu is my place — at least from January through the end of April.

And that realization feels like a massive win.

I just extended my lease through April 15th, 2026 — making it almost a three-month stay.

I’ve also booked the same condo for January–April 2027 four month stay.

That’s not a trial run anymore. That’s commitment.

And honestly? It feels right.

Why Cebu and the Philippines Work for me:

Cebu City is English-speaking
$450/month rent
Amazing studio in a great area
Perfect January–April cool weather window

For $450 a month, I get a clean, modern studio in a lively, walkable area. Good infrastructure. Solid WiFi. Cafés. Gyms. Grab rides. Amazing inexpensive bars and restaurants.

Everything I actually use is walking distance.

It’s also affordable without feeling like I’m sacrificing quality of life.

And more importantly, it feels stable.

That word matters more than I ever expected.

After years of constant movement, having a place I can return to — the same unit, same neighborhood, same rhythm — changes everything psychologically.

Cebu isn’t just cheap.

It’s comfortable.

A Launchpad to 200+ Islands

One of the biggest advantages of Cebu is its positioning within the Philippines.

From Cebu, I can take a $30 one-way flight, ferry, or bus to places like:

Panglao

Siquijor

El Nido

Coron

Bohol

There are over 200 habitable tropical islands in this country.

That means unlimited inexpensive road trips and island escapes — without giving up my base.

The difference now?

I’m not traveling to escape.

I’m traveling from home.

And then I come back.

Asia Is Still Within Reach

Cebu also puts me within striking distance of the rest of Asia.

For roughly $100+ one-way, I can be in:

Bangkok

Hanoi

Hong Kong

Kuala Lumpur

Bali

Tokyo

The key realization is this:

I loved those places.

I still love those places.

But I don’t need to live in all of them.

I can visit — and return to Cebu.

That subtle shift feels powerful.

The Real Win: A Seasonal Operating System

This isn’t just about rent or flights.

It’s about designing a year-round life rhythm.

May-December: Mesa, AZ / Rocky Point, Mexico

utilizing my AYCF (all you can fly) passes on Volaris and Frontier Airlines.

January–April: Cebu with road trips:

Warm weather.

Lower cost of living.

Living like a local.

Short adventure bursts when I want/need them.

Instead of constantly searching for “the perfect place,” I now have:

A predictable seasonal anchor

Lower decision fatigue

A familiar environment

The ability to build momentum year after year

Booking 2026 and 2027 isn’t just logistics.

It’s confidence.

After all the experimenting, all the flights, all the temporary apartments — I finally found a place that checks the boxes without draining me.

And at $450 a month?

That’s leverage.

Cebu isn’t just another stop.

It’s home — at least for this chapter of the year.

And that feels like a massive win.

Another major win in the Philippines is the personal care aspect.

I can get inexpensive over-the-counter care for minor issues and lean on my travel insurance for anything serious.

I have also found that weekly self-care is so important. The cost is affordable enough to have each of the following done at least once a week and more often if needed.

Massages

Spa time (Tokyo example below)

Face masks help the old man’s skin

Fat-burning shots

Vitamin IV to replenish the immune system

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Hong Kong #Freedom54 birthday fun!

02/13/2026

by Darrell Buy me a beer Slow travel Travels Stories

Getting to Hong Kong during this adventure was incredible. I honestly didn’t know what to expect—I assumed it might feel like Tokyo—but it turned out to be completely different.

Hong Kong has its own rhythm, its own intensity, its own personality. In some ways, it felt like a glimpse into what visiting mainland China might be like, just with its own unique twist of skyline, density, and nonstop motion.

One thing there definitely wasn’t a shortage of? Anime.

It was everywhere—shops, ads, displays—so naturally, I joined in on the action.

When a city leans into its vibe that hard, the only correct move is to lean with it.

That reel honestly felt pretty accurate—you really do have to compete for every square inch when there are that many people everywhere.

Even though it was crowded, it was still an unforgettable place to celebrate #Freedom54.

The energy, the motion, the sheer intensity of it all—it’s the kind of place that overwhelms you and impresses you at the same time.

Not peaceful.

Not quiet.

But it was an absolutely memorable once-in-a-lifetime experience.

The number of people in Hong Kong was high, and the overload was everywhere I went. The current population in 2026 is 7,378,602, according to Google.

With these 7.3 million residents in a 1,114-square-kilometre (430 sq. mi) territory, Hong Kong is the fourth-most densely populated region in the world behind Macau (a gambling Island off HK), Singapore, and Monaco.

One of the most surprising things for me was the outlying islands. I took the ferry from mainland Hong Kong to Hong Kong Island, which is even bigger and has more people.

It was an incredible visit—but I don’t feel the need to go back.

It’s one of those places that’s undeniably impressive, worth seeing, and packed with energy… but also a little too crowded.

It was the kind of destination you’re glad you experienced once, soaked in fully, and can now appreciate from a distance.

Some places become favorites.
Others become great memories.

This one’s a great memory.

Birthdays – getting older is tough!

02/03/2026

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The number goes up, but at least the stories keep getting better.

This absolute GEM still makes me laugh, mostly because… not much has changed.

February is peak season in Arizona, so my Airbnb is rented every year.

Translation: I’m forced to travel.

As a result, I’ve spent the last few birthdays in some pretty incredible places—and this year is no exception.

(Thailand, Vietnam, Cambodia)

This year’s birthday destination?

Hong Kong.
3 days, 2 nights; $225 USD RT flight, $50 a night pad!!

Aging is inevitable.
Dropping new pins is optional—but highly recommended around here!

Booking flights is like playing chess while most people are still playing checkers.

To bounce between Cebu and Hong Kong, I booked three one-way tickets instead of a single round-trip—and the math worked in my favor:

Cebu → Manila: $20

Manila → Hong Kong: $70

Hong Kong → Cebu: $135

Not glamorous. Not obvious to most.
But flexible, intentional, and cheaper than forcing a “normal” itinerary.

That’s the game:
Stop thinking in straight lines and start thinking strategically.

I tried to pick a destination that was actually high on my bucket list, and Hong Kong landed exactly where it should, near the top!

Bonus: it doubles as a visa run, since I have to leave the Philippines every 30 days. Inexpensive, efficient, and exciting—my favorite combo.

Winner winner—Peking chicken dinner.

Honestly, it’s been a pretty solid run so far, and I still have two more months to explore on this adventure.

Not bad for someone who claims to be grumpy and bored all the time.

01/15 – Tokyo, Japan

01/23 – Cebu, Philippines

02/10 – Hong Kong

02/19 – Siquijor, Philippines

02/29 – Siargao, Philippines

03/07 – Cebu lease expires → TBD

04/15- home to Mesa, AZ

Possible next moves before 04/15 (because why not):
Stay in Cebu, Seoul, Phuket, Bali, Da Nang…

We’ll see where boredom strikes next!

I really shouldn’t complain—this trip has been incredible so far.

Now, excuse me while I yell at the clouds due to my missed meds!

Welcome to #Freedom54! 🥳

And … Get off my lawn, damn kids!

02/01/2024 – Mandatory meeting!👋🏻

01/31/2026

by Darrell Autobiography Buy me a beer Freedom 50 Personal History Slow travel Travel bucket list Travel memories Travels Deals Travels Stories Work experience

Today, February 1st, 2026, marks two years that I have been “taking a run at retirement”. I refer to it that way, as I am not sure how it will all work out.

So far, so good, as I blog from Cebu, Philippines.

Three weeks after completing my 7th year with PayPal, I got a “mandatory meeting invite” on February 1st, 2024.

This was the second time; my career was also abruptly cut short after 18-years with Northern Telecom/Nortel/Ericsson.

Hindsight is always 20/20; both situations worked out for the best long term. 25 years was enough for me, and it was time to take a run at retirement!

All those years of hard work, strategizing, overthinking, and so many mistakes!

The travel dream was finally coming to fruition.

Aside from finances, which I blogged about HERE, health insurance is one of the biggest drivers for early retirement.

I found a great setup through trial and error for insurance, as I also blogged about HERE.

Again, so far so good!

Soon after getting laid off, I started planning NorthAmericanDarrell.com, and my YouTube channel, which you can check out by clicking HERE. Please consider following my channel!

I had always wanted to share my past, present, and future travel experiences.

A solo traveler, vlogger, YouTuber, Geoarbitrage with a dry sense of humor.

“Freedom 50” turned into a “Freedom 55” after the COVID market correction, and ultimately “Freedom 52” traveling lifestyle.

Just another example, life cannot always be planned.

“Freedom 54” is just around the corner!

Cheers to another year living the dream!

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Cebu, Philippines – Moalboal! 🚌

01/29/2026

by Darrell Accommodations AirBnb Freedom 50 Personal History Philippines Travel bucket list Travels Deals

I preach about setting up shop for the long term, building routines, becoming a regular… and then, not long after, I’m on a road trip.

The contradiction is the sweet spot for me.

The way I see it, as long as your slow-travel home base comes with low rent, everything else stays in bounds.

Cheap rent makes spontaneity affordable. You’re not “breaking the budget”—you’re spending the surplus your lifestyle was designed to fit my inability to stay put.

Thanks, Mom!!.

Slow travel for me isn’t always about staying still.

It’s about building a base so light that motion never feels financially irresponsible, paying for two places at once.

Here is a tour of my $450 a month Cebu condo I shared in 2024 during my first visit to the Philippines.

The road trip opportunities are exactly what I envisioned when I returned to the same condo in late January 2026.

The rent was still $450 a month, and the road-trip opportunities in the area are endless, both within the Philippines and throughout Asia.

After a few days of arriving, I woke up this morning at three AM with insomnia, hopped on a bus, and three hours later I was in Moalboal, Cebu, drinking beer on beautiful Sandy Beach.

That beats a trip to the bathroom!

The bus trip was under $10 while, while a basic room was less than $25 USD per night.

That low price included a wake-up call!

🐓📢🛌🏻

The beach was as good as it gets—beer cold as ice and scenery so spectacular it felt illegal. Every direction was a postcard for a travel magazine or an amazing blog for inexpensive travel …

The first road trip worked out perfectly, and I’ve already got three absurdly cheap flights booked for February.

Hong Kong, 9th visa run; $225 ✈️

Dumaguete / Siquijor, 19th; $60 ✈️🚢

Siargao, Philippines, 29th; $60

Slow travel, bending the rules while living life to the fullest!

Cebu, Philippines – It’s HOT!♨️😎

01/25/2026

by Darrell AirBnb Asia Buy me a beer Cebu City Countries Freedom 50 Personal History Philippines Siquijor/Dumaguete islands Travel bucket list Travels Deals

Schawetty

I talk about “slow travel” all the time, but it’s not just a vibe—it’s a filter.

The right place has to check a lot of boxes. Otherwise, it’s just a stop, not a home base, and here is what Cebu offers:

Affordability is non-negotiable:

$450 a month for rent

Meals under $5 USD

Movies cost around $5

Cheap road trips:

Uber/Grab/local bus are super inexpensive

Flights around Asia for under $100 (often less)

Ferries to nearby islands for under $20

Convenience matters too:

My Cebu IT Park neighborhood is open 24/7/365.
Meals. Movies. Groceries. Coffee. Everything.

Cebu hits the numbers, life stops feeling like a meter is running.

It’s built for call-center workers who operate around the clock, which means I can live normally at any hour.

No planning my life around business hours.

That’s the slow-travel sweet spot:

Productive Day One.

One-hour chair massage — $5

Movie ticket — $5

Favorite Korean BBQ – $3

Favorite noodle spot – $2

Old food photos (food was gone, quickly!)

And the big win?

I locked in a long-term, optional lease, giving me the option to settle in the long term.

Slow travel isn’t just about wandering—it’s about setting up a life that checks as many boxes as possible.

Day one delivered.

It’s been less than two days, so I’m trying to keep my expectations in check—but I’ve already started laying the groundwork for what’s next.

Two road trips are on the board.
Siquijor ferry to rope swing adventure? Locked in.
And Hong Kong for my birthday? Flight booked

That’s the beauty of this place: you settle in, get comfortable, and still leave room for spontaneous trips.

Home base on one end. Adventure, on the other hand.

Everything is inexpensive, keeping the options wide open!

Living life to the fullest in the Philippines!

Thank-you Tokyo – I’ll be back! 😎

01/22/2026

by Darrell

Tokyo came into my life at exactly the right time.

I spent the first two weeks of 2026 at my pad in Rocky Point, Mexico, and for the first time in a long while, I wasn’t feeling that usual spark to kick off a new year. Instead of forcing it, I moved up my Japan trip by two weeks—and that decision turned out to be perfect.

What I needed wasn’t more beach beers and tacos.

I needed a reset.

So, I spent seven straight days in the spa at my Airbnb—soaking, sweating, cold plunging, repeating—shaking off some bad vibes from the year before and letting my head catch up with my feet.

Just peace, and a slow return to my center.

It was exactly what the doctor ordered—but, true to form, once I started feeling better, I also got antsy again.

Tokyo had been absolutely incredible, but it reminded me a lot of Milan, Italy—too many well-dressed, impossibly good-looking people. I feel like a square peg in a very fashionable round hole.

That’s when an opportunity to go back to Cebu, Philippines, dropped into my lap.

So I pivoted. I delayed the Kyoto/Okinawa portion of my trip and booked a $150 flight to Cebu on January 23rd. A week in Tokyo has already been enough to confirm what I suspected—it’s a fantastic place for shorter-term stays.

Even better, a friend offered me ten days of free accommodations in Cebu. Hard to say no to that.

I’ve already written about why Cebu and why it sits near the top of my list, along with Vietnam, as a potential home base. This just gives me the chance to explore Cebu deeper to see if it is the long-term slow travel answer.

Why the Philippines again?

Because the Philippines is made up of 7,641 islands, and only about 2,000 are inhabited. A few of them already rank among my favorite islands I’ve ever visited.

Japan isn’t going anywhere.
But opportunity knocked—and I answered.

This was the on the other end of the line!

I will forward all my calls!!

As always, it feels like I’m getting away with something—but it’s really just good planning, a little flexibility, and a sprinkle of earned luck.

The magic isn’t in the price.
It’s in knowing when to move, when to stay, and how to let opportunity do some of the work for you.

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Tokyo nights – hustle, bustle and neon lights!

01/21/2026

by Darrell Buy me a beer Countries Travels Stories

Neon Light Area – Tokyo

Tokyo’s neon-soaked Shinjuku district is the city’s beating heart of entertainment. Packed with glowing signs, towering billboards, and vibrant street scenes. It feels like stepping straight into a Bruce Lee movie!

The areas around Shinjuku Station and Kabukicho are especially famous, where every block is drenched in color and motion. These streets aren’t just visually striking—they’re a living expression of Tokyo’s nightlife and cultural energy.

Shinjuku isn’t just one of the places to see Tokyo’s neon lights.
It’s the BEST place.

As an admitted wuss (ironically from Canada) who hates the cold, this was the first time I actually went out into the wind and chill on purpose at night.

Totally worth it, but I don’t need to do that again.

The Tokyo Shinjuku entertainment district is on the same train line as my Airbnb, which means I can be dropped straight into neon chaos without overthinking it. One train, five stops, and suddenly I’m surrounded by lights, food, music, with Vegas like street energy.

It took me about 35 minutes station to station on the insane Japan rail system I blogged about HERE.

I arrived a couple of hours before dusk—perfect timing. I grabbed a $3 Starbucks and then followed it up with a massive $10 Hefeweizen, settling in to watch the city shift gears as the neon came to life.

For one of the busiest entertainment districts on the planet, it was surprisingly inexpensive—and the people-watching was next level. Tokyo doesn’t just light up at night; it transforms.

Seeing that progression in real time made the whole place feel alive in a way photos never quite capture.

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7-11 An Asian legend! Tokyo version!!🍥🍙

01/19/2026

by Darrell Asia Buy me a beer Freedom 50 Slow travel Travel memories Travels Deals Travels Stories

I was first introduced to 7-Eleven in Thailand, and ever since, it’s been a legendary five-star dining experience in my book.

People back home think of 7-11 as a place to buy gas, bad coffee, and regret. 🚽

In Asia? It’s a gourmet convenience store run by wizards. 🪄

Below is today’s lunch while listening to the Oilers game in Tokyo, Japan—$12.11 USD total, hot, fresh, and legitimately amazing. Just fresh local food, handed to you with a smile, and no tip required.

Where else can you eat well, watch hockey, and feel like you’re winning at life… from a convenience store?

Living life to the fullest—one sushi, ramen meal with a cold beer at a time.

They always say, “Don’t eat gas-station sushi.”
That advice was clearly written by someone who has never set foot in an Asian 7-11.

This stuff is better than most sit-down restaurants back home—and at about 25% of the price. Fresh rice, real fish, legit flavors. No price gouging. No regret.

I may or may not also carry a tube of wasabi in my pocket at all times.
Don’t judge me—you’re the one with tater tots in your cargo pants.

I might be wrong, but if you never tried it, I am guessing it might be you!

Milk and cookies before bed are for Santa.

North American Darrell finishes the night with 7-11 sushi, a cold beer, and the satisfaction of knowing that I absolutely won another travel day for pennies on the dollar.

Life is good, and 7-11 sushi makes it even better!

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Japanese bathhouse – Tokyo Airbnb

01/18/2026

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I blogged about my Tokyo accommodations in a blog that you can read by clicking HERE.

After just two nights in this Airbnb, I extended for another week—and I may stretch it to three. The deciding factor? An all-male, no-cackling, blissfully quiet Japanese bathhouse spa on the top floor… included in the $25-a-night price.

At that point, it stops being lodging and starts feeling like a life upgrade to feel better.

A hot soak to loosen everything that travel tightens. Cold plunge to wake the soul back up. Sauna room to melt what’s left. Repeat as needed. No chatter, no scrolling—just heat, silence, and reset.

It’s become bookends for my days: explore, wander, eat, blog… then soak it all away before sleep, and having this built into my stay feels absurdly luxurious. It’s not just a spa visit—it’s a lifestyle upgrade.

I was a little concerned about the water filtration at first—but the good news is they do a full deep clean every few days.

Crystal clear, spotless, and zero sketch factor.

Grossness thoughts officially averted, kinda!

The routine is downright magical:

Shower

Hot tub

Cold plunge

Sauna

Repeat

Finish in the common area, doing absolutely nothing with a cold beer and some tunes.

It’s simple. It’s quiet. It resets everything—body, mind, shitty attitude.

If I’ve said it once, Mom said it a thousand times:

Live life to the fullest!

Sometimes it means sitting still, realizing you hacked your own happiness.

Tokyo – Uber vs trains!🚘🚆

01/18/2026

by Darrell Freedom 50 Slow travel Travel bucket list Travel memories Travels Stories

I’m three days into traversing Tokyo, and it’s already become painfully obvious that Japan loves the Dodgers and that Uber and I are not in a long-term financial relationship. Both are pretty annoying, to be honest!

In general, Tokyo isn’t expensive—it’s just allergic to lazy logistics. Every Uber/taxi ride feels like a polite, impeccably clean mugging.

The city is basically daring me to learn its transit system, and after a few receipts, you realize it’s not a suggestion. It’s a survival strategy.

This place doesn’t financially reward Uber convenience.

It rewards commuter train competence.

The Uber system worldwide is so efficient that it’s borderline daring you to be lazy. You tap, ride, arrive—no drama, no chaos, just silent competence moving millions of people like it’s nothing. Every time I used it in the past, it felt good as the prices are low, but Tokyo is the total opposite.

I’ve taken the train a few times already, and it costs just a few dollars each trip.

Suddenly, traveling the city feels infinite instead of expensive.

And then there’s me below in the station, standing in front of the map with a full deer in the headlights stare, trying to decode a web of lines that looks like a beautifully designed stress test.

Equal parts awe, confusion, and

“I absolutely need to learn the local transportation system.”

It’s humbling to look lost AF.

It’s hilarious walking in circles.

But it’s way cheaper pretending I’m good at public transit.

Google Maps is doing the heavy lifting out here. Walking, driving, trains—it doesn’t matter how you move, it just makes you look relatively competent, which is a game-changer for me.

The train feature is the real hero here in Tokyo!

It tracks you in real-time, updates at every stop, and tells you exactly how close you are to your destination. No guessing. No panic. Just a calm little voice saying, “Not yet. Not yet. Okay, now.”

It turns a subway system that looks like abstract art into something you can actually use.

All of these local rides are basically training wheels—once I grab my Japan Rail Pass, these short hauls getting to the bullet train become “free” as they are included in the $50 a day pass.

That’s when the country really opens up. Tokyo today, Kyoto tomorrow, Hiroshima the next at high speed—no Uber surge pricing, no second-guessing getting ripped off, just show up at the train station and go.

You can read my full breakdown of how I’m planning on using the Japan Rail Pass blog.

Click HERE to see the potential plan

It’s not just transportation.

It’s financial leverage keeping me in the Tokyo Grand Theft transportation game!

Another problem, I suck at games too! 😐

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Tokyo pod hotel experience! 🛌🏻

01/18/2026

by Darrell

After a brutal two days of travel, I finally landed at my hostel. It was an incredible setup—clean, modern, and exactly the kind of place you hope for after being folded into economy and airport seats for two days.

And then… plot twist.

There was a mix-up with the reservation, which meant I had to move. I was genuinely bummed. You know that fragile, exhausted state you’re in after long-haul travel, when one small inconvenience feels like a personal attack? Yeah. That.

Airbnb came through with a $50 credit, though, which softened the blow. So, I packed up, again, recalibrated, and headed off to a pod hotel in a completely different part of Tokyo.

Because if you’re going to be displaced, you might as well lean into the experience and try something wildly Japanese.

As always, things worked out, and there was no need to worry; you think I would learn, nope!

My new pod hotel turned out to be pretty damn cool. The pod itself is small—because of course it is—, but it’s clean, comfortable, and surprisingly cozy. Exactly what you need after wandering Tokyo all day.

The real magic, though, is upstairs.

There is a full Japanese bathhouse and spa on the top floor, and that alone makes the whole stay worth it.

Hot pool, cold plunge, sauna, quiet—pure reset mode. every. single. day for 14+ days!

Sometimes the stressful detours end up being the upgrade you really needed!

Check out this setup, all for less than $25 USD a night.

A sauna, hot tub, and cold plunge—plus a chill sitting area with a TV—make it the perfect way to unwind at the end of the night… or to justify an entire day off from galivanting.

Add in the insane selection of local and international restaurants just steps away, and it becomes dangerously easy to convince yourself that this is what balance looks like visiting Tokyo.

I have only been here a couple of days, and I feel like I have been eating non-stop. Another great reason I have a spa in my pad for the next week or two.

Eat. Soak,. Repeat.

14+ days!

Japan – February 2026! 🏯

01/12/2026

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Travel planning is such a fine line with me. Financially, I know I need to slow travel, BUT there is always so much to see and do everywhere I go do my best to balance it out.

I had already booked my flights and accommodations for the first month of my trip and planned to leave on January 30th.

Well, that changed as I left two weeks early!

January 15/16, 2026

Rocky Point to Phoenix to change over luggage.

Phoenix to Seattle

Seattle to Tokyo

January 16th – XX Tokyo

Northern Japan daytrips by bullet train.

Disneyland Japan

February 8th-22nd Kyoto/Osaka

Central Japan daytrips by bullet train.

Universal Japan

February 22nd-January 30th Okinawa

Living the Japanese island life!

March 1st – XX

Visit other islands in the Japanese Archipelago.

March XX – April 15th

Travel to Korea and finish the adventure in the Philippines.

The struggle is real when you’re trying to go with the flow and plan an itinerary. I’ve learned the hard way that you still need some outline—at least flights in and out—if you want things to make financial sense.

The problem? When travel days roll around, I’m always conflicted. I’m either ready to go, or I want to stay longer… and somehow, I’m ambivalent, either way and every time.

That’s the price of insanity; I guess, as there is never a middle ground with me.

Here is a 14-day itinerary that I will use as a guideline for my bullet train day trips.

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Here are the USD prices plans, leaning towards the 7-day pass:

7-day trip: $322

14-day $513

21 days $642

Click HERE to read my blog on Japan train travel.

Japan offers a wide variety of experiences for me to see:

Cultural

Natural wonders

Culinary

Seasonal.

There is a lot to see, but I can plan “train days” to see some and below is a breakdown:

Cultural Experiences

Visit Historic Temples and Shrines: Explore iconic sites like Fushimi Inari-taisha Shrine in Kyoto, known for its thousands of vermilion torii gates, and Senso-ji Temple in Tokyo, the city’s oldest temple.

Participate in a Tea Ceremony: Experience the traditional Japanese tea ceremony, which emphasizes harmony, respect, purity, and tranquility.

Attend a Sumo Wrestling Match: Witness the unique sport of sumo, which is deeply rooted in Japanese culture, at one of the tournaments held throughout the year.

Natural Wonders
Cherry Blossom Viewing: Visit during spring to enjoy the breathtaking cherry blossoms (sakura) in parks and gardens, a quintessential Japanese experience.

Hike in National Parks: Explore Japan’s stunning landscapes, such as the Japanese Alps or the trails around Mount Fuji, which offer breathtaking views and a chance to connect with nature.

Culinary Adventures
Savor Authentic Japanese Cuisine: Indulge in local dishes like sushi, ramen, and okonomiyaki. Cities like Osaka and Fukuoka are famous for their street food.

Visit Nishiki Market: Experience the vibrant atmosphere of this traditional market in Kyoto, where you can sample various local delicacies and shop for unique souvenirs.

Unique Attractions
Ghibli Museum: Immerse yourself in the world of Studio Ghibli at this enchanting museum in Mitaka, Tokyo, dedicated to the beloved animated films.

Universal Studios Japan: Enjoy thrilling rides and attractions based on popular movies and franchises, making it a fun destination for families.

Seasonal Activities
Winter Sports: Experience world-class skiing in Hokkaido or Nagano during the winter months, along with relaxing in hot springs (onsen).

Summer Festivals: Participate in lively summer festivals featuring fireworks, traditional dances, and food stalls, showcasing Japan’s vibrant culture.

Japan is a destination that caters to a wide range of interests, ensuring that every traveler can find something memorable to experience. Whether you’re drawn to its rich history, stunning nature, or delicious food, Japan promises an unforgettable adventure.

DO YOUR HAPPY DANCE!

Japan bullet train – CANCELLED!

01/10/2026

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There were definitely some zigs and zags in this plan …

I planned to leave for my Japan adventure on January 30th, 2026.

(I left on January 15th, pulling in the trip two weeks)

January 15th-23rd, Tokyo

(I left for Cebu, Philippines January 23rd as I blogged about HERE)

January 8th-22nd, Kyoto

January 22-January 30th, Okinawa

I plan to visit islands within the Japanese archipelago after that, but it’s still up in the air.

Since train travel in Japan is known to be the best in the world, I also plan to buy a pass.

(After Tokyo, the next destinations and train passes were posted indefinitely.)

A single train ride in Japan can easily run $100+ USD, which is exactly why the rail pass just makes sense. One long hop can cost as much as several days of unlimited travel.

A 7-day Japan Rail Pass is a power tool, not a casual purchase. Because the days have to be consecutive, it only really shines when you cluster your long-distance moves into a tight window.

The sweet spot looks something like this:

Base yourself in one city first (Tokyo, Osaka, Kyoto). Do your slow exploring on local transit

Then, “turn on” the pass and go into movement mode

For example, a 7-day run could cover something like:

Tokyo → Kyoto
Kyoto → Hiroshima
Hiroshima → Osaka
Osaka → Kanazawa
Kanazawa → Tokyo

Those individual legs can each be $80–$120+ on their own. Stack four or five of them inside one week, and the pass pays for itself fast.

I just need a solid plan before I pull the trigger.

Not a minute-by-minute itinerary—just a clear idea of:

where I’ll start

where I want to end

and which long hops you’ll make in between

Once that’s sketched out, choosing between a 7-day, 14-day, or no pass at all becomes pure math instead of guesswork.

Click HERE for more information on the pass options from the website:

In the meantime, below is a great summary:

Shinkansen: The Japanese bullet trains

Shinkansen bullet trains are the fastest way to discover Japan. Discover more about the high-speed trains and the 9 rail lines they cover.

Shinkansen bullet trains are the fastest and most convenient way of discovering Japan. The Japan Rail (JR) network is extensive, and the trains reach a top speed of 320 km/h (199 mph). This allows you to get to wherever you need in little time.

The nine Shinkansen lines take you in different directions around Japan. From Tokyo to the south runs the Tokaido Shinkansen line, connecting the capital with Osaka. The Sanyo Shinkansen line connects Osaka with Fukuoka and, from there, the Kyushu Shinkansen line runs through the island of Kyushu from north to south.

The other six lines either take you north or inland from Tokyo. These are the Akita, Hokkaido, Hokuriku, Joetsu, Tokoku, and Yamagata Shinkansen lines. The Hokkaido line takes you the furthest north, all the way to Hokkaido Island.

Using the Japan Rail Pass

The Japan Rail Pass gives you unlimited access to all Shinkansen high-speed trains.

The JR Pass also allows you to make seat reservations free of charge. You can make seat reservations at any JR Ticket Office or ticketing machine in any JR station.

A supplement is required for travel on the Nozomi and Mizuho express trains on the Tokaido, Sanyo, and Kyushu Shinkansen lines. This special complementary ticket can be bought at ticket machines or station counters in Japan, and it’s cheaper than riding a Nozomi or Mizuho train without the JR Pass.

The Hikari and Sakura bullet trains are the fastest trains you can board using the Japan Rail Pass without a supplement. They make just a few more stops than the Nozomi and Mizuho trains.

It’s worth noting that several of the JR Regional Passes also cover certain trips on Shinkansen bullet trains.

Types of bullet trains

On each of the Shinkansen lines,s there are fast trains, semi-fast trains, and local trains:

The fast trains only stop at the main stations

Semi-fast trains make a few more stops

Local trains stop at every station

For instance, on the Tokaido Shinkansen line (which links Tokyo to Osaka), the fast train makes 6 stops, the semi-fast train makes between 7 and 12 stops, and local trains stop at all 17.

Shinkansen lines

The Shinkansen railway network includes several lines that cover most of Japan and connect all the main cities.

Thanks to this great railway system, you can travel quickly and comfortably throughout the country without too much of a second thought.

Absolutely. No matter which pass I choose, Japan is one of those places where moving is part of the magic.

Whipping through the country on trains that feel like they’re gliding through the air, watching cities blur into mountains and coastlines, stepping off in places that feel completely different every few hours—that’s travel in its purest form.

Fast or slow, planned or improvised, Japan rewards curiosity.
And every stop is going to feel like a new world.

However, I plan it… It’s going to be awesome.

All aboard!

Eurorail-10 day pass CANCELLED!

01/09/2026

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I’ve bought three Euro rail passes so far.

2 of 3 have now been cancelled and refunded!

(Make sure you buy the cancellation insurance).

It has become obvious that Europe in general is not affordable for my adventures. I have turned my attention to the Philippines and Asia in general.

Here WAS the plan when I bought the THIRD pass before cancelling AGAIN:

The first two months/ten-day pass I canceled—I was burned out on Vietnam train travel.

The second, a one-month pass, I actually used, which immediately justified the obsession. (Portugal, Poland, the Czech Republic, Germany, Italy, Switzerland, France, and the UK)

And now I’m already planning number three, a ten-day over two-month pass for a late 2026 adventure.

At this point, it’s not even about spontaneity—it’s about saving stupid amounts of money with the possibility of dropping pins across 33 countries in Europe.

Trains beat planes in Europe, bags don’t cost extra, and the scenery alone makes it feel like I’m hacking travel.

Traveling with financial responsibility, but make it European.

The pass I used in 2025 turned out to be so awesome that when it went back on sale, I didn’t hesitate—I booked another one immediately.

When something actually delivers on its promise and fits your travel style, the decision makes itself.

I’m not entirely sure how it will all unfold—I just know that late 2026 is going to involve seeing a lot more amazing places by rail throughout Europe.

These rail passes go on sale 25% off fairly often, and when you run the numbers. It works out to less than $50 a day to ride the train for up to 24 hours at a time for ten days over two months.

My cheap ass took the train from Venice to Paris in a single day.
Fourteen-plus hours. Multiple connections. Less than $50.

Could I have flown? Of course.

But the quiet satisfaction of watching entire countries slide by looking out the window was mesmerizing.

Honestly, it wasn’t even that bad. Comfortable seat, snacks, scenery, and a beer cart.

I’m fairly certain I can push this to 16+ hours next time just to prove a point.

At this stage, European rail isn’t transportation—it’s unlimited adventure at my fingertips!

Travel insurance – don’t leave home without it!

01/06/2026

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Insurance is probably one of the biggest scams in the world.

And the worst part?
You absolutely need it.

You pay for it, hoping you’ll never use it.
When you do need it, you fight to prove you deserve what you already paid for.
And if you don’t have it? One bad day can wreck years of progress.

It’s a necessary evil—designed not to help you, but to protect you just enough to stay in the game.

No one loves insurance.
But everyone learns the hard way why it exists.

That’s adulthood in a nutshell.

I’ve carried a pretty wide range of insurance policies:

Homeowners and rental insurance policies in Georgia, North Carolina, and Arizona.
Policies for a Truck, Jeep, Cadillac, UTV, boat, and travel trailer, and a balloon (umbrella) policy in case any of the above didn’t fully cover a worst-case scenario

(All at the same fucking time!)

Paid health insurance through Healthcare.gov, along with expat travel insurance policies.

Individually, each policy made sense.
Collectively, it was a constant reminder of how expensive and complicated “having stuff” had become.

It wasn’t until I started simplifying my life that the insurance stack finally stopped growing—and the stress dropped right along with it. I was done keeping up with the Joneses as I blogged about HERE.

I was also done being an owner and landlord in GA, NC, AZ, with my own personal parking lot!

Downsizing to two policies (AZ condo on Airbnb and Jeep) and trying to eBike and scoot now.

For me, simplifying my life—fewer assets, fewer policies, fewer “what ifs”—did more to reduce stress than any insurance plan ever did. Less stuff didn’t just lower premiums; it lowered the background anxiety that comes with trying to insure everything you own.

OK – that sets up this blog, EXPAT travel insurance.

This is, by far, the easiest insurance policy I’ve ever dealt with, and it should be for you, too!

My agent sends me a link, I fill out the information, make the payment, and the policy lands in my inbox. No phone tag. No pressure. No nonsense.

Less than $5 USD a day!

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Plan:	Blue Cross Blue Shield Global Solutions Single Trip Platinum
First Name:	DARRELL
Last Name:	OLYNICK
Email:	NorthAmericanDarrell @gmail.com
Certificate:	XXXXXXXXXXX
Date of birth:	02/10/197X
Effective Date:	January 30, 2026
Termination Date:	April 30, 2026
Amount Charged:	$410.41
Medical Limit:	$1,000,000
Deductible:	$500

The policy above is already lined up for my February 2026 trip to Japan, South Korea, and the Philippines.

I’ve probably purchased five long-term travel insurance policies over the years and—knock on wood—never had to use one. But at less than five dollars a day, the peace of mind is a complete no-brainer for me.

Again, it should also be mandatory for anyone traveling internationally.

Travel is unpredictable. Accidents happen. Bodies do weird things. Stuff happens when you ask someone to hold your beer.

Having coverage doesn’t mean you expect problems—it means you’re prepared if they show up.

If you’re planning a trip and want a quote, reach out to my agent.
And tell him NorthAmerican Darrell sent you—because I’m apparently hard to forget.

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My Mexican life – everyday, something new! 👀

01/03/2026

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Why I Stay Here

I stay in Rocky Point because life here constantly reminds me that the world doesn’t have to run the way everyone was taught it should. It is a different lifestyle, and I see things differently here. The baseline is not the newest iPhone or iPad; it is the smile on their faces when they ask to wash your car for $5.

After more than seven years of $150 a month rent, it’s not just the low cost of living or the ocean views—though those help. It’s the lifestyle that the local people live. Things move a little slower as there is always tomorrow (mañana) as the workers say, when you need help. Locals interact more with the tourists. And every so often, something completely unexpected happens—like horses casually sharing the road with traffic—and you’re reminded that not everything needs to be optimized, scheduled, or stressed over, which is what I normally do.

I don’t stay here because it’s perfect. I stay because it works—for me, right now. And that’s the whole point of slow travel: choosing places that fit your life instead of forcing your life to fit one place forever.

Like the Grinch, the don’t-give-a-shit energy is strong here, which is exactly why Rocky Point works so well for me as a part-time home.

You see things around town that would absolutely short-circuit people elsewhere. Yesterday, I passed an SUV cruising down the road with no doors, no side windows, no windshield, and no back window—just vibes and optimism.

Other things happen right out in the open, too. Nothing dramatic, nothing hidden. Life just unfolds in broad daylight, casually, like someone stopping to buy bubble gum. It’s not chaos—it’s indifference. And oddly enough, that creates its own kind of calm knowing if you leave them alone, youre fine!

That’s what I’ve fallen in love with here. A slower pace. Fewer rules that matter. Less pretending. Rocky Point doesn’t try to impress you—it just is. And for me, that’s more than enough.

My favorite food and drink choices tend to change as I travel, but somehow, I always circle back to Mexican food.

It just wins—every time.

In Rocky Point, there are so many great local spots that it’s easy to fall into a routine without getting bored. I’ve got my go-to places for breakfast burritos, plus a rotating cast of other favorites that keep pulling me back.

Simple, cheap, fresh, and done right—the kind of food that quietly ruins you for everywhere else.

(Favorites below )

The best tortilla soup of my life.
Hands down. No debate.

Deep flavor, perfect heat, crispy tortilla strips with the avocados, cheese and creme doing their thing—
Muy bueno!! 🌶️🥣

There’s fresh… and then there’s straight off the press fresh..

Peak tortilla experience!

I always dreamed of moving to Mexico. For a long time, even the idea of having a part-time home here felt completely unfathomable.

And yet—somehow—I’m pulling it off.

This wasn’t a lottery win or some grand master plan. It was a series of choices, timing, and learning how to live differently. Slower. Smarter. On my own terms.

Now I get to live la vida loca, at least part of the year—and honestly, it still doesn’t feel real most days.

Vietnam slow travel like Bourdain!

01/01/2026

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I spent a month traveling slowly through Hanoi, Vietnam, with a brief stop in Malaysia and Indonesia along the way.

I started the journey on November 17th, 2025, carrying with me the influence of Anthony Bourdain—his insistence on slowing down, eating where locals eat, and staying far away from anything that felt packaged or performative.

Anthony Bourdain loved Vietnam because it hit everything he cared about at once:
cheap plastic stools, perfect food, zero pretension, and a country that doesn’t apologize for being itself.

Vietnam showed him that:

Great food doesn’t need luxury — just balance, patience, and obsession (hello, phở broth simmered for days).

Street food is democracy — everyone eats together, shoulder to shoulder.

History lives at the table — wars, survival, pride, and resilience all show up in a bowl of noodles.

Hanoi, especially, felt like home to him: chaotic but calm, blunt but generous. He once said Vietnam changed his life, and it wasn’t poetic exaggeration — it reset how he understood food, travel, and humility.

In short:
Vietnam wasn’t a destination to Bourdain — it was proof that the world makes sense if you sit down, shut up, and eat what locals eat.

This is exactly how I like to travel, as he adds so much truth in his stories.

What I found personally during my time spent all over in Vietnam in 2025 echoed everything he preached. The best meals on plastic stools, the richest conversations in unplanned moments, and the most meaningful experiences far from the tourist traps. It wasn’t about checking boxes or chasing luxury—it was about paying attention. It was one of those trips that reminds you why you travel in the first place.

One for the Anthony Bourdain books but first was the long ass travel day!

I left my home base in Rocky Point, Mexico, pointed myself halfway across the world, and landed in Hanoi. I rented an Airbnb for 30 days—not to rush through highlights, but to live slowly, observe, and settle into the rhythm of the city the way Anthony Bourdain always encouraged.

Hanoi wasn’t a stop on a checklist. It was a place to wake up early, start with a great walk, amazing coffee and/or tea, and let the days unfold without forcing meaning or accomplishment onto them.

Anthony Bourdain had this quiet belief that home wasn’t a fixed place—it was something you could build anywhere by paying attention. In Hanoi, I really understood that logic, and it hit me in the feels, big time!

My condo sat beside a man-made lake with miles of walkways, and each morning I fell into a rhythm: long walks as the neighborhood woke up, Vietnamese coffee strong enough to slow time, and—on game days—listening to the Oilers from halfway across the world.

Nothing about it felt temporary or borrowed; it just screamed this is what you have been looking for.

That was the lesson Tony kept trying to teach: when you slow down, eat simply, and let life happen around you, even the most unfamiliar place can start to feel like home.

From my experience, there are exactly two kinds of Vietnamese people: chain smokers, and those who walk and exercise tirelessly, as if it’s a second full-time job. There’s no in-between.

My days in Hanoi followed that rhythm—long walks around the lake, endless steps on quiet paths, and daily coffee stops that felt less like breaks and more like rituals. Watching life unfold from a plastic chair with a strong Vietnamese egg coffee became one of the highlights of the trip.

Amazing all around, and without a doubt, a place I’ll stay again.

I had every intention of staying in the Hanoi area the entire time. That was the plan. Then I checked flights—because that’s usually where good plans go to die—and remembered Anthony Bourdain’s unofficial rule:

When the door opens, you walk through it.

So I said yes.

I found myself on an unplanned road trip through Malaysia and Bali, crossing off two massive bucket-list items not because it was efficient or sensible—but because the inexpensive opportunity was there.

That was always Tony’s point. The best trips don’t come from sticking to the plan—they come from having the nerve to abandon it. He has basically reached legend status for me at this point!

Keeping my rent under $300 back at my home base in the eco park in Hanoi was the quiet enabler of all this. That single number is what turned the road trip from a cautious “should I?” into a very relaxed “why not?”.

When your biggest monthly expense isn’t chasing you down, spontaneity stops feeling reckless and starts feeling practical. Flights become opportunities. Detours make sense. And saying yes—like Tony always preached—suddenly costs a lot less.

15 Countries visited in 2025📍🌎😎

12/31/2025

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2025: My first full year taking a run at retirement!

2025 turned out to be my most traveled year ever—and somehow, I feel that I’m just getting started.

January – Vietnam
(HCMC, Nha Trang, Da Nang, Hoi An, Hue, Phu Quoc)

February – Cambodia & Thailand
(Siem Reap, Phnom Penh, Bangkok, Koh Samui, Koh Phangan, Koh Tao)

March – UK & Europe
(London, Greece, Iceland, Poland, Germany, Czech Republic, Switzerland, Italy)

April – October–US & Mexico

(Mesa and Rocky Point—two incredible home bases)

November & December – SE Asia
(Hanoi, Kuala Lumpur, Bali)

Every trip felt different. Every move resets my brain. And somehow, it all worked out absolutely perfect!

2026: Already Booked (Of Course It Is!)

January to mid-April
Mexico, Canada, Japan, South Korea, Philippines

May to October (Homebases in Mesa/Mexico)

Volaris + Frontier all-you-can-fly chaos—route TBD, cheap is guaranteed

Nov and Dec– Europe by Rail-pass

Sweden, Finland, Norway, Denmark, Netherlands, Southern Spain/Portugal…
Eastern Europe is still being self-negotiated with my grade-three attention span.

Malaysia – short but sweet visit! 🏭

12/28/2025

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I was fortunate enough to have visited Kuala Lumpur for a few days in December 2025. It was a pretty big bucket list to check off, as I have always wanted to visit. I spend three days whipping around on the double-checker tour bus, making stops along the way.

I’ve wanted to visit for years, and it absolutely lived up to the hype.

I spent three days ripping around the city on the double-decker hop-on, hop-off tour bus, jumping off whenever something caught my eye. Skyscrapers, temples, markets, street food, neighborhoods I couldn’t pronounce—full-on tourist mode, unapologetically activated.

And yes… pubs were involved.
Because cultural immersion is about balance. 🍻

From my home base in Hanoi, the Asia road trip continued to Bali—and the craziest part? Three flights for $190 USD total.

Asia travel math just hits different.

One thing that really stood out while taking public transportation from the airport was the presence of women-only train cars. It was the first time I’d encountered that setup since visiting the UAE in 2024.

I actually learned this lesson the hard way—I boarded a women-only car by mistake. Totally unintentional, despite the signs being very clear once you actually slow down and look. Someone kindly pointed it out, and I stepped a few feet into the next car. No drama, just a reminder that different cultures operate with different norms.

Moments like that are part of why I travel. They force awareness. You don’t have to fully understand or agree with every custom to respect that it exists and learn from it.

Malaysia was fascinating from a cultural and architectural standpoint, and I’m genuinely glad I went. The city is impressive, the infrastructure is solid, and the experience checked a long-standing bucket list item for me.

That said, it’s probably a one-and-done destination for me—and that’s okay. Not every place has to be a repeat visit to be worth experiencing.

Here are some more pictures of the architecture, which was the reason I visited. Malaysia. Malaysia is home to one of the largest congregations of skyscrapers in the world. The country ranks fourth in the global list

The Burj Khalifa^[a] (known as the Burj Dubai before its inauguration) is a megatall skyscraper in Dubai, United Arab Emirates. Designed by Skidmore, Owings & Merrill, it is the world’s tallest structure, with a total height of 829.8 m (2,722 ft, or just over half a mile) and a roof height (excluding the antenna, but including a 242.6 m spire)^[2] of 828 m (2,717 ft). It has also been the tallest building in the world since its topping out in 2009,

That surpassed Taipei 101, which had held the record for a half-decade.

Another cool admission is that I visited Taipei, Taiwan, with work in the early 2000s. It was my first trip to Asia, and I did not go back for over 20 years. They were still building Taipei 101, but I clearly remember going there. There was a mall, movie theater, and restaurants that were completed.

Before Dubai rewrote the record books, Taipei 101 was the building everyone talked about. Formerly known as the Taipei World Financial Center, it stands 508 meters (1,667 feet) tall and held the title of the world’s tallest building for several years.

One of its standout features was its high-speed elevators, built by Toshiba. At the time of completion, they were the fastest in the world—rocketing passengers from the 5th to the 89th floor in just 37 seconds, hitting speeds of 60.6 km/h (37.7 mph). You don’t ride those elevators—you launch.

Bali, Indonesia – It’s worth the hype!

12/28/2025

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Traveling in Asia hits differently for me. I get bored easily—dangerously easily—and staying in one place too long starts to feel like a personal failure. Asia fixes that, which is a way that is hard to explain other than the fact that you can road trip within Vietnam, Thailand, the Philippines, Malaysia, Indonesia … for well under a $100 one way.

I currently have a condo in Mesa, AZ, a studio in Rocky Point, Mexico, and three all-you-can-fly passes with three different airlines. I am always on the go, which is somewhere between amazing and loneliness.

I’m not saying I have commitment issues… but if movement were a sport, I’d be on a performance-enhancing medication watch list.

You get the idea. I’m fine. Totally fine. Probably.

That was my December 2025 Asia road trip, operating out of my month-long home base in Hanoi and bouncing over to Kuala Lumpur, then finishing strong in Bali.

Three flights.
Three countries.
$190 USD total.

Read that again—slowly.

This is exactly why Asia hits differently. Flights are cheap, distances are short, and changing plans doesn’t require a spreadsheet or a minor panic attack. One minute you’re eating street food in Hanoi, the next you’re city-hopping in Malaysia, and before you know it, you’re barefoot in Bali, wondering how this all costs less than a mediocre dinner back home.

This isn’t luxury travel—it’s smart movement, maximum flexibility, and letting geography work in your favor.

And yes… this is how the spiral continues.

These road trips definitely weren’t kind to the slow-travel budget—but that’s the trade. When your home base costs under $300 USD a month, you earn the right to occasionally blow the spreadsheet. The cheap, stable housing absorbs the volatility, which makes splurging on experiences feel intentional instead of reckless.

In my case, this trip was less about optimization and more about momentum—I was actively checking off bucket-list items. And when you’re in that mode, strict budget purity matters less than actually doing the thing while you’re there.

The key is that the foundation was solid. Low rent created room to say yes.

I don’t optimize for luxury. I optimize for optionality.
Build the base cheaply, then spend the difference on travel experiences.

Christmas 2025 – You’re a mean one …

12/26/2025

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Christmas time is for kids, since I do not have any minions, it is not my favorite holiday.

We all have regrets, but again, we all have to play the cards we dealt ourselves!

It’s not meant as pity, pride, or judgment—just a sincere look at my life, told with a level of honesty most people rarely allow.

Thinking about having a family—and then creating a fake one on ChatGPT—hits a special kind of loneliness during the holidays, with just enough imaginary alimony and child support to keep it extremely real.

That’s part of why, most days, I am grateful for my life, as this is how it was supposed to work out.

Not because family is bad or wrong—but because forcing a life that didn’t fit would cost me more than it gave back. Freedom mattered more to me than appearances. Movement mattered more than checking boxes that society forces you to check whether you want them or not.

I didn’t have a good father, and the fear of becoming anything like him was always front and center. He bailed on my mom and me in the worst possible way, and that kind of exit leaves a mark whether you want it to or not.

For a long time, that experience quietly shaped my decisions.

That awareness didn’t fix everything, but it ultimately changed my thought process. And sometimes, that’s enough to start choosing differently—on purpose.

Chasing a different dream became my outlet, my structure, and, honestly, my mission. I have lived life in many different cities, having a lot of conversations and many life experiences with people who saw life differently. It became pretty obvious that the way most people lived life was not the only option.

It was not the same generational life, over and over.

Go to College

Get married

Buy a house and have kids

Work until you’re 67+

Enjoy maybe five to ten years of retirement while your body starts to fail you.

I didn’t opt out of life—I opted into my version of it.

Less scripted.
Less predictable.
More honest with who I am

I’m learning to be good with that, and people who judge my alternative lifestyle should, too.

The Grinch that hated winter in Canada!

The cold.

The snow.

The shoveling.

Driving on a skating rink.

The heating bills should feel normal.

Extreme taxes at every angle.

(carbon taxes?!)

The lies people told themselves, “It was normal not to feel your face going outside.

While Family and friends in Canada scraped windshields, living a great Family life!

The Grinch did the math.

Sunshine was cheaper elsewhere.

A lot of money could also be made elsewhere.

So, while others layered sweaters, he booked a one-way ticket south.

He turned in his snow boots for flip-flops.

He drank iced coffee in December.

They said he “You missed the reason for the season,” and called him a sellout!

The Grinch said, “I optimized my life,” in my own way!

He didn’t steal Christmas.
He *Geoarbitraged it!

*Geoarbitrage is the practice of living in a location with a lower cost of living while maintaining the same income, allowing individuals to save and invest more effectively. This concept is often associated with the FIRE (Financial Independence, Retire Early) movement, where individuals leverage geographic differences to maximize their financial resources.

Click to read more on my Geoarbitrage goals

“Geoarbitrage – retire sooner “

Hanoi, Vietnam – water puppet show!

12/24/2025

by Darrell Buy me a beer Freedom 50 Personal History Slow travel Travel bucket list Travel memories Travels Stories Vietnam

One of the coolest tourist traps in Hanoi is the traditional water puppet show—and I snagged front-row seats for about $12 USD. Absolute steal, especially since I could see all the behind-the-scenes chaos too. Turns out it’s mostly smoke, mirrors, and very committed puppeteers.

The traditional water puppet show in Hanoi—especially at the famous Thang Long Water Puppet Theatre—has been running continuously every single day since it opened in 1969, making it one of the rare shows in Asia to perform water puppetry 365 days a year without a break.

The traditional water puppet show in Hanoi has been running every single day since 1969.

That’s over 55 years of zero sick days, no holidays, and puppeteers and other artists who absolutely do not mess around.

Vietnam – slow travel life at its finest!☕🧘🏻

12/24/2025

by Darrell Accommodations AirBnb AirBnb recommendations Buy me a beer Freedom 50 Slow travel Travel bucket list Travels Deals Travels Stories Vietnam

I’ve been dreaming about Vietnam ever since I watched Anthony Bourdain on Parts Unknown. Vietnam felt like one of Tony’s true loves—the kind of place he didn’t just visit, but listened to. He chased meals down side streets, sat on plastic stools, and showed that the best moments were always far from the tourist traps. Watching him there made travel feel quieter, more honest—less about seeing things, and more about understanding them. Vietnam wasn’t a backdrop for Tony; it was a reminder of how travel is supposed to feel.

Anthony Bourdain lived a life that blended food, travel, honesty, and deep contradiction—one that resonated because he never pretended to have it all figured out. Like me, I just go with the flow while traveling to a new place.

In 2025, I rented a condo for over two months in Vietnam—not as an experiment, but as confirmation. Five weeks in Ho Chi Minh City (Saigon), followed by a month in Hanoi. I wasn’t glued to either place; I took road trips, disappeared for stretches, did what I wanted. But I always came back to my own place. A real home base. Which, it turns out, changes everything.

This was slow travel exactly as I’d imagined it: living in the city instead of orbiting it. Falling into routines. Becoming a regular. Building friendships. Having days that felt both normal and quietly exceptional. Life didn’t pause for travel—travel became life.

At this point, I’m not pitching a dream or romanticizing a theory. I ran the play. It worked. And now it’s very hard to take seriously any version of life that costs more and delivers less.

Both apartments were under $400 USD per month, which quietly solves a lot of problems. With a stable, inexpensive home base, I could take road trips without uprooting my entire life. Most of my belongings stayed put, luggage stayed minimal, and travel stayed efficient instead of exhausting. I made side trips over Vietnam at the beginning of 2025 while taking my show on the road to Malaysia and Indonesia at the end of the year.

This is the underrated advantage of slow travel: logistics scale down while freedom scales up. Low rent means less financial pressure, fewer bags, and more optionality. When your housing costs are that low, movement becomes modular—you leave, explore, come back, repeat—without ever feeling like you’re starting over.

I made some side trips across Vietnam in early 2025 (Nah Trang, Da Nang, Vung Tau, Hue, and Phu Quoc). I then fully committed to the chaos and took my show to Malaysia and Indonesia later in the year kocking out two massive bucket lists.

It’s not a hack. It’s just better planning. And once you’ve lived this way, it’s hard to take expensive inconvenience seriously ever again, which is why it will be a massive part of my future travel items in Kuala Lumpur and Bali.

If you made it this far by chance and want to learn more about my slow travel plans.

You can read my blog on the topic by clicking

HERE

In the end, slow travel keeps the costs low and the adventures high—and that’s the whole point around here.

The quest for the best Pho … 😋🍜🤤

12/23/2025

by Darrell Buy me a beer Dual Citizenship Personal History Slow travel Travel bucket list Travel memories Travels Deals Travels Stories

I do sometimes wonder how I’m not at least moderately famous with gems like this. Then I immediately remember (and genuinely don’t care anymore) that these blogs may never get read. And honestly? That realization was freeing.

Once I got past feeling like a total failure and a loser, everything else went downhill—in the best possible way. No pressure. No audience chasing. Just writing because I actually enjoy it. Even if this all ends up being an autobiography for myself, I’m good with that.

Phew.
That one came straight from the therapist’s chair.

Anyway… back to Pho

I remember when people used to pretend to like sushi, pho, dim sum, and whatever else was trendy at the time. They’d make sure you knew they were going, had gone, or had just returned from eating “the best ever,” while clearly forcing enthusiasm.

Well… look at me now.

That’s me.
I love pho.
I love sushi.

Turns out trying things for yourself beats talking about them from the sidelines. Funny how that works.

FOFO, indeed

Other than Google, there’s a foolproof way to spot a great place to eat: look at the line—and more importantly, who’s in it.

This one was packed. And not with tourists holding cameras and guidebooks—this line was full of Asians, which is always a very good sign. A quick Google check confirmed what my instincts already knew: this spot was serving some of the best pho in the Hanoi Old Quarter.

Turns out it wasn’t just “one of the best.”

It was #1 on the list.

Rich broth, perfectly cooked noodles, tender meat, zero nonsense. The kind of bowl that makes you slow down halfway through because you don’t want it to end.

I’ll talk about #2—aka Obama Bun cha version of Pho (and yes, it absolutely nailed it too). But this one?

Pho 10 was undoubtedly the benchmark.

Sometimes the line tells you everything you need to know.

I’ll talk about #2—aka Obama Bun cha version of Pho (and yes, it absolutely nailed it too). But this one?

I’ll talk more about #2—aka the Obama Bún Chả version of pho—later in the blog (and yes, it absolutely nailed it too). But this place deserves its own moment.

The visit gave rise to the now-iconic “Combo Obama”, which includes:

Bún Chả (grilled pork with noodles and herbs)

Crab spring rolls

A local Hanoi beer

Simple. Perfect. Universal.

This spot became famous after Barack Obama shared dinner here in 2014 with Anthony Bourdain, during an episode of Parts Unknown. Obama was president at the time, Bourdain was doing what he did best—using food as a bridge between cultures.

Plastic stools.
Cold beer.
No security theater.
No ego.

Just two people eating great food in Hanoi, proving once again that the fastest way to connect across cultures isn’t politics—it’s dinner.

The food lives up to the story.
The story lives up to the moment.

Some meals are famous because they’re good.
Others are famous because they mean something.

This one managed to be both.

Honestly, visiting this restaurant wasn’t about Barack Obama for me—it was about Anthony Bourdain.

Vietnamese food—and pho in particular—was something Bourdain genuinely loved. He talked often about Vietnam as a place that shaped him, not just as a cook but as a traveler. What always stuck with me was how far he was willing to go for food: wandering down side streets, eating at hole-in-the-wall spots, and staying out until absurd hours just to find something real. The ironic part is that once he found something real, it turned into a tourist trap.

That mindset influenced how I travel. I’ve always tried to do the same—skip the polished places, follow instincts, watch where locals eat, and say yes to places that don’t look impressive on the outside.

So sitting there, eating Vietnamese food in Hanoi, felt less like a tourist stop and more like paying quiet respect to someone who showed a lot of us how to travel differently—through curiosity, humility, and a love of good food.

For me, that’s what made the place special. I try to live life the way he did, as he was such an absolute travel legend.

Here was my experience eating the “Bourdain” combo!

Only a few things make me happier than finding these kinds of places that fuel more travel.

Hanoi, Vietnam – train street!🚆

12/23/2025

by Darrell Buy me a beer Slow travel Travel bucket list Travel memories Travels Stories

If you’ve watched even a handful of travel videos, there’s a pretty good chance you’ve seen Train Street in Hanoi.

The concept is beautifully unhinged.

Feed people beer.
Sell them questionable souvenirs.
Pack everyone into a narrow alley.
Then send a full-size train blasting through at close range like it’s part of the entertainment.

Every few minutes, café owners calmly tell everyone to pull their knees in, lift their drinks, and trust the process. The train whizzes by, missing people by inches, and everyone cheers like they didn’t just flirt with death for Instagram content.

It’s equal parts:

terrifying

fascinating

absurd

and somehow very organized chaos

You leave thinking, “That was amazing… and I absolutely should not still be alive.”

My assistant (ChatGPT ) can be a bit dramatic at times—but I can promise you this: when that train comes through within inches of you, it absolutely feels like a near-miss incident.

Standing on Train Street in Hanoi, your brain knows you’re technically “safe,” but your body does not agree. The ground vibrates, the wind hits you, and suddenly that narrow track—already looking a little suspect—has a full-size train ripping through it at well over 50 mph, depending on route.

Your heart rate spikes.
Conversations stop.
Beers are clutched like emotional support animals.

It’s loud, fast, uncomfortable, and wildly memorable. No video really captures how intense it feels in person. For a split second, every instinct you have says, “This is a bad idea.”

And then it’s gone.

Adrenaline fades.
Everyone laughs.
Phones come back out.

Was it dramatic? Yes.
Was it a dangerous feeling? Absolutely.
Was it unforgettable? 100%.

That’s Hanoi train street- it was so awesome,

Here are three angels as I went back for more training:

Someone put their phone on the tracks, and they were nice enough to share the video with me!

I can honestly say this was way cooler than I expected, even after seeing it a hundred times on TV and YouTube.

Some things only make sense when you show up.

You can watch the videos, read boring blogs like this one, and scroll forever—but none of it compares.

Standing there, feeling the sheer force of that train ripping by with a beer in your hand and phone filming in the other.

Life doesn’t reward spectators. It rewards participation.

Get off the couch. Book the trip. Go see it for yourself.

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A little bit of monkey business …🐒

12/23/2025

by Darrell Buy me a beer Costa Rica Quepos Travel bucket list

… just a back rub…

They say monkeys are basically people.

Case closed.

Please don’t make me explain this again

🫣.

I spent a fun few hours wandering around the Sacred Monkey Forest Sanctuary in Ubud, which was equal parts entertaining and mildly threatening.

I’ve had the chance to see different species of monkeys in Thailand. The Philippines and Costa Rica, as well, and I can confidently say this is a global truth:

They’re all kind of assholes.

The rules are posted everywhere posted in the park:

1. Don’t bother them while they’re eating.

2. Don’t look them in the eye.

What they don’t explain is what happens if you do both.

Spoiler alert:
They absolutely explain it to you themselves.

Still, it’s an incredible experience—just keep your snacks hidden, your sunglasses tight, and your confidence low.

Click play – Exhibit EH

The monkeys run that park, and they know it.

The cool part is how organized it all is. The staff actually knows the different monkey groups—their neighborhoods, their territories, and which troop belongs where inside the park.

It’s not chaos; it’s a full-on monkey city with zoning laws and unwritten rules.

Watching them interact, I’m pretty sure these monkeys use gang signals, have beef with rival crews, and settle disputes with intense staring contests.

And honestly?
I wouldn’t be shocked if they listen to Snoop Dogg, too.

Same confidence.
Same “this is my block” energy.
Zero respect for personal space.

You’re just a visitor in their neighborhood—and they make sure you never forget it.

For additional clarification, please refer back to Exhibit EH.

Here’s a little throwback to some other fun with monkeys in Costa Rica.

Part of The NorthAmerican Darrell Project—and easily one of the most unsettling wildlife experiences I’ve ever had.

If you’ve never heard a howler monkey before, imagine:

a demon

trapped in a jungle

screaming through a broken megaphone

I woke up convinced something terrible was happening outside, so I went for a pre-dawn walk. Turns out it was just monkeys… aggressively announcing their presence to the entire rainforest.

Spooky.
Loud.
Unforgettable

Manuel Antonio National Park – Quepos, Costa Rica

I’ve visited Manuel Antonio National Park in Quepos, Costa Rica, a couple of times.

Manuel Antonio is beautiful. Jungle trails, beaches, sloths, monkeys everywhere. What they don’t emphasize enough is that the animals there are professional thieves.

No food out.
Backpack zipped.
Situational awareness is high.

That’s when I realized Manuel Antonio isn’t a park—you’re just walking through their neighborhood. The monkeys aren’t cute mascots; they are just trying to steal the show from the sloths we came to see. They’re organized, confident, and clearly working in teams. One distracts, one steals, one watches for tourists making bad decisions like watching them eat or looking them in the eye

Just another fun Costa Rica lesson learned:
You are not the main character in Manuel Antonio.

Bali, Indonesia! Amazing! 😎

12/22/2025

by Darrell Buy me a beer Travel bucket list Travels Deals Travels Stories

I’d been in Hanoi for about two weeks and needed a break. It’s an incredible city, but the traffic, pollution, and constant chaos will wear on anyone eventually.

The good news? I was surrounded by amazing places—and getting to them was ridiculously cheap.

As usual, I shifted into bucket-list mode. Malaysia and Indonesia were basically within spitting distance, with one-way flights hovering around $45–$90,

At that point, the decision was easy. I booked three flights under $200 USD:

~$45-Hanoi, Vietnam to Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia.

~$55-Kuala Lumpur to Denpasar, Indonesia (Bali)

~$90-Bali to Hanoi, Vietnam

I took off on an EPIC ten-day road trip—proof that adventure doesn’t have to be expensive.

Cost
Every time I visit Asia, my brain starts asking extremely reasonable questions like: Why do I live anywhere else? Two to three months of slow travel doesn’t feel aspirational anymore—it feels inevitable. The math works. The lifestyle works. At this point, I’m just pretending this isn’t already decided.

Proximity for adventure

When boredom hits, you simply leave. A casual monthly escape to Thailand, the Philippines, Cambodia, Malaysia, or Indonesia usually costs under $50 each way. Food and housing stay the same, so the only real variable is how often you decide to disappear. Routine, but make it optional. Stability, but with an exit plan.

The boxes are checked:

The prices are undeniable.

The proximity to adventure.

Every trip to Asia makes “normal life” feel like a bookkeeping error.

There’s a reason Bali is the Aussies’ playground—and every bar at 10 a.m. confirms it!

It’s wild how distorted prices have become in some places. In Bali, a $20 hair cut makes you a “Big Boss.”

A normal haircut was well under $10, and leaving a $10 tip felt huge there—probably made his day or even week. It beats getting the sideways look for leaving less than a 20% TIP in North America.

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Careful what you wish for …

12/21/2025

by Darrell Buy me a beer Freedom 50 My Airbnb Slow travel Travel bucket list Travels Deals Travels Stories Vietnam

Careful what you wish for… it starts with ‘just one trip’ and ends with no fixed address,

No shoes, no shirt, and no problem! Right?!

(Got drunk, lost my shoes, probably should wear a shirt, and clearly still have some problems)

I just wing it now, though!

Since taking a run at retirement in February 2024, everything has been going as planned—and I’m choosing to believe this streak will continue.

The stock market 💹

Airbnb rentals 💰

Bucket list travel 🌍

I always dreamed of the traveling life. Planning helps—but trying is the only thing that actually counts.

The stock market

Relying on the stock market to go up forever is wishful thinking at best. I’ve learned to go with the flow and accept that corrections aren’t disasters—they’re just part of the ride.

Personally, hiring a great financial advisor makes sense. We shouldn’t YouTube our way to self-diagnose serious medical issues, so pretending we’re all finance experts seems… optimistic

Airbnb rentals 💰

Having a side hustle to support retirement is always a plus. I managed to turn my AZ condo into exactly that, and it’s been a game-changer for my roaming lifestyle. I don’t love the word “lucky,” but I’ll happily admit this decision was very fortunate.

I’ve had amazing guests so far and genuinely enjoy making sure they have a great stay while they’re in Arizona. After crashing in more than a hundred Airbnbs around the world, I’ve learned a lot about what works, what doesn’t, and what makes you think, “Wow, this host actually gets it.”

My latest low key, amazing guest!

I try to bring those little things I appreciated as a guest into my own place—basically paying it forward, one comfy stay at a time, so I can keep paying for planes, trains, and questionable travel decisions.

Renting my own full-time Airbnb in Rocky Point, Mexico, has been an absolute lifesaver. I can escape to Mexico on a whim as it is only a four-hour drive—and my rent costs less than my monthly Arizona homeowners’ fees.

Bucket list travel

Without the above two falling into place, this might not be possible. I have used patience and whittled down my panic attacks of going back to work to twice a day to make it all work out.

Since taking a serious run at retirement, it’s almost embarrassing how many travel bucket-list items I’ve absolutely obliterated over the last two years. Honestly, I’ve lost count. That’s why I hope you read my blogs—sharing these experiences is the whole reason I spend so much time writing.

Progress is progress

If my stories help even one person take a leap of faith, then it’s worth it.

There’s never a perfect time to do anything in life.

You just dance like no one is watching… panic attacks and all.

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