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What I have learned from Travelers!

Please feel free to read the below blog but, I added the podcast version for audio.

All of my podcast link can be found on the homepage!

Here is E11: What I have learned from travellers!

One of the most rewarding parts of my journey has been meeting fellow travelers from all over the world.

Many of them travel with a level of freedom and confidence that genuinely amazes me.

Some don’t have every detail planned.

They simply figure things out as they go.

As someone who has always been a planner…

It’s been fascinating to watch.

One of my favorite travel buddies from Germany I met in Thailand goes home once his ATM card quits working.

I have asked him to share his share his travel stories here many times as he is so interesting.

Over time, I’ve realized there’s value in both approaches.

Planning provides security.

Flexibility provides freedom.

The sweet spot is probably somewhere in the middle.

I try to prepare enough that I’m safe…

But stay flexible enough to enjoy the unexpected moments.

Because, let’s be honest…

Those unexpected moments usually become the best stories.

I’m not here to tell anyone how they should live.

Everyone’s path is different.

What works for me may not work for you.

But I can learn from people who are comfortable embracing uncertainty…

Just as I hope others can learn something from the importance I place on planning for the future.

That’s one of the biggest reasons I created this website.

I simply want to share my experiences and show people they may have more options than they realize.

I learn something from fellow travelers almost every time I hit the road.

Young or old…

Everyone has a story worth hearing.

I’ve also learned that retirement doesn’t have to follow the traditional path if it doesn’t fit your goals.

Maybe your answer is downsizing earlier.

Reducing your monthly expenses.

Living part-time in a lower-cost country.

Traveling differently.

Or simply rethinking what you truly need to be happy.

I’m not trying to convince anyone to live exactly like I do.

That isn’t the point.

My goal is simply to encourage people to ask better questions.

Could I retire earlier?

Could I design a different lifestyle?

Could I trade a few material things for more freedom…

More experiences…

And maybe even a little more happiness?

If my story helps even one person realize they don’t have to spend their entire life following someone else’s plan…

Then sharing it has been worth it.

To me…

Retirement isn’t about leaving work behind.

It’s about creating a life you’re excited to wake up to every morning.

I’ll also be the first to admit…

I haven’t figured everything out.

And maybe I never will.

But I can promise you one thing…

I’ll spend the rest of my life trying.

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The IDIOT uncle who never married …

I came across an interesting post on Instagram the other day from “Psychological warfare”.

“If you’ve experienced marriage, you’ll probably never understand your 50-plus-year-old uncle who never married”.

You might even think he’s the idiot but, think again!

It made me laugh because there’s is so much truth in it!

I am kind of an idiot but, I kind of think some of you might be too!!

I chose a different path—one filled with relocations, career opportunities, solo travel, and eventually a life of freedom and exploration.

People tend to focus on how society expects you to life your life!

If you don’t fit in their box, you’re an idiot!

 

Here is the Instagram post and make sure you take it with a grain of salt!

I’ve also never tasted “real marriage”, but I’ve come close enough to consider myself a self-proclaimed expert.

Then again… It’s my blog.

I get to make the rules. 😁 

The ironic part is that many of the people making comments have challenges in their own lives.

Yet somehow, they still find the time to focus on my life.

I guess that makes them feel better about their own issues.

Instead of understanding why someone chose a different path, it’s easier to criticize it. 

I’m learning to step away.

At the end of the day, I’m the one who has to live my life—not them.

I seem to be happiest when I’m simply trying to live life to my fullest, tuning out the critics, and resisting the urge to compare myself to people who think they’re “normal.”

The truth is, there really isn’t a normal even if people try to put you down.

Most of us are just figuring it out as we go.